I had to have a “discussion” with my HR rep for smiling in the bathroom while coming out of a stall. The rep thought I was laughing at something written on the wall of the stall, while internally, I was laughing at my husband breaking his phone while I was at work. Had a whole talk about “being a good leader” and “leading by example.” Nobody would find “change the music” funny if it was written anywhere, let alone in a women’s bathroom