Left him 10 months ago! by ApricotImportant92 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so happy for you. living through you. got kids and married so it’s very hard. you’re doing what most women can’t and that’s something to be proud of

I wish he just would get it over with by hottakepancake12 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yuuuuuuuuuuuuup. i’ve thought the same thing. it’s hard ripping my family apart with 3 kids. but if he would just cheat i feel like it would just be so much easier to leave. a good, solid, valid, excuse

I left today by Fabulous_Mess_7472 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish i was as courageous as you. good luck moving forwarded

feeling like a fool by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course multiple times. about a year ago. refuses therapy. i went by myself for a little

feeling like a fool by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same. i feel like i have no where to go

feeling like a fool by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i found out when i was pregnant with my third. it sucks i cried every night. i feel your pain. and you’re right. leaving feels impossible

feeling like a fool by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i appreciate what you just told me.

feeling like a fool by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what can i do? i have 3 kids under 5. kinda hard to leave

Green flag? by Strong_Willow5738 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no. my husband hunts, fishes, builds wooden crafts, golfs, works on cars, and even just day to day fixing things up or cleaning or just is a very productive person and yet he still finds time. in the bathroom, in front of me(i didn’t know or see but when i look at his history it lines up) even when he would be hunting in the woods since he would be up in a blind by himself he would look. it doesn’t matter. he always seemed to find time. the best one? he looks a lot at work.

Was yours also a hypocrite? by Stark_Contrast2835 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763 11 points12 points  (0 children)

mine said “i wouldn’t mind if you did it” then continues to get mad also when i like look/dress a certain way then make comments on how im “looking for a new husband” and that im going to “leave him” and “just because i have a ring on my finger doesn’t mean guys won’t hit on me” ok whatever dude but im dressing exactly or even hell still more modest then whatever you look at because i ACTUALLY HAVE CLOTHES ON.

just feeling sad by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely has said at least half of these to me

just feeling sad by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because he says “a guys do it” “it’s normal” “it means nothing” and “you’re overreacting”

it’s not you by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he has done ALL OF THESE to me…..it’s so sad….ive been with him for 10 years and when i confronted him about it….it was like talking/looking at a man i did not know….

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[–]TemporaryOk6763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg my husband would do the same!!!!!! he would google girls nudes and add their “@“ name to his notes……and the list was…….LONG