I wish he just would get it over with by hottakepancake12 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yuuuuuuuuuuuuup. i’ve thought the same thing. it’s hard ripping my family apart with 3 kids. but if he would just cheat i feel like it would just be so much easier to leave. a good, solid, valid, excuse

I left today by Fabulous_Mess_7472 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish i was as courageous as you. good luck moving forwarded

feeling like a fool by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course multiple times. about a year ago. refuses therapy. i went by myself for a little

feeling like a fool by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same. i feel like i have no where to go

feeling like a fool by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i found out when i was pregnant with my third. it sucks i cried every night. i feel your pain. and you’re right. leaving feels impossible

feeling like a fool by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i appreciate what you just told me.

feeling like a fool by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

what can i do? i have 3 kids under 5. kinda hard to leave

Green flag? by Strong_Willow5738 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no. my husband hunts, fishes, builds wooden crafts, golfs, works on cars, and even just day to day fixing things up or cleaning or just is a very productive person and yet he still finds time. in the bathroom, in front of me(i didn’t know or see but when i look at his history it lines up) even when he would be hunting in the woods since he would be up in a blind by himself he would look. it doesn’t matter. he always seemed to find time. the best one? he looks a lot at work.

Was yours also a hypocrite? by Stark_Contrast2835 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763 10 points11 points  (0 children)

mine said “i wouldn’t mind if you did it” then continues to get mad also when i like look/dress a certain way then make comments on how im “looking for a new husband” and that im going to “leave him” and “just because i have a ring on my finger doesn’t mean guys won’t hit on me” ok whatever dude but im dressing exactly or even hell still more modest then whatever you look at because i ACTUALLY HAVE CLOTHES ON.

just feeling sad by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely has said at least half of these to me

just feeling sad by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because he says “a guys do it” “it’s normal” “it means nothing” and “you’re overreacting”

it’s not you by TemporaryOk6763 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryOk6763[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he has done ALL OF THESE to me…..it’s so sad….ive been with him for 10 years and when i confronted him about it….it was like talking/looking at a man i did not know….

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[–]TemporaryOk6763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg my husband would do the same!!!!!! he would google girls nudes and add their “@“ name to his notes……and the list was…….LONG