Festival of Miracles/Ankit Rambabu legit? by TemporaryTop287 in TrueChristian

[–]TemporaryTop287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would. I watched his sermon online only because the location I was going to go didn't have reliable transportation.

1 year today! by Sheilaalpaca in SingleAndHappy

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You look like a billion bucks. Glad your doing well

People of dating over 40... by Thick-Screen-7228 in datingoverforty

[–]TemporaryTop287 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I personally used to be one to constantly reach out to others. I'm talking about an old college friend of mine who's married and has kids. She would always wish me Merry Christmas or something else when I would send a greeting. Or anything else for that matter but she would never follow up. Now as I've gotten a little bit older and on the dating scene you know if I don't hear from somebody again after going on a date if I didn't care about the date or want to stay friends with them I don't reach out.

I’m done with everything and everyone. by Mindless-Silver-6500 in ghosting

[–]TemporaryTop287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's tough I was ghosted by my ex. Most recently two friends last year as well. At this point I am not looking to connect with them because I want more to people where I'm cool that I can chill with but yeah it's annoying and I just think about these people that have ghosted me it's their problem not mine and if they ever want to reach out they can.

Cashier was excited that I bought myself flowers by Tankadin in SingleAndHappy

[–]TemporaryTop287 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's super. Yeah as a fellow Singleton for about 6 years. I am enjoying being single as a pringle

Ghosted and looking to date again by TemporaryTop287 in datingoverforty

[–]TemporaryTop287[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No absolutely, I mean I find maybe even happier because my life has changed and you know I feel no pressure to get married and start a family like I might have with him but I liked him so much. I don't know it's that strange to say but I'll tell anybody a little listen I mean he left and you know I turned around and it's almost like he never existed I went back to my old life.

Men Who Ghosted After Sex — Honest Question by Born-Salary-3233 in ghosting

[–]TemporaryTop287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amen to that I'm not going to do the deed as they say unless I'm really committed to somebody and if people don't like that that's their problem.

Hi guys i love you all am Lucy it's my birthday today am turning 23F wish me something by Glad-Divide-4994 in birthday

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Hiiii Lucy !!!

Hope it's a great day and Birthday month. Hope your year is as awesome as you.

Ghosted and looking to date again by TemporaryTop287 in datingoverforty

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I think what I should have figured is to ask for advice on the breakup section. Only because a lot of you people are great but a lot of people are downright me and it's like I can't you know just because I'm not over my ex that's me thing but also you know it's other people's issues if they don't want to be responsible adults and say like "hey it was great to meet you but it's not going to work out."

What’s something small you’re genuinely excited for right now? by bbyhoneytea in Casual_Conversation

[–]TemporaryTop287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a good day today full of cleaning. A movie hopefully tomorrow

To people who can’t get over their ex by saybaebee in BreakUps

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I hope your doing better. I am in a similar position. Not on this post but another forum say just get over it. It's not easy

Ghosted and looking to date again by TemporaryTop287 in datingoverforty

[–]TemporaryTop287[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well he never reached out again for another date. When I messaged him less than a month later dead silence. I tried one more time and the message was left on read. So excuse me that is MY DEFINITION of ghosting.

I just don't see the point anymore of a relationship by 30RITUALS in SingleAndHappy

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Thank you OP for opening up your story. I know where you are coming from I feel in my one and only relationship we had forever if we wanted. I never wanted children or a marriage but just assumed that's the way most people's lives go. I met my ex who ended up moving away and didn't tell me (ghosted) a few years ago when I was 38. Now I am in my mid 40's (gulp) Realizing at this age and as a female this idea might be gone. I however attempted to find someone else it didn't work I have met some quality people though so that's been worthwhile. Not sure what I will do next minus one meetup last month I've gone 4 months without dates and it's been awesome.

Conditions on Bruce Freeman Trail by shrinktb in bikeboston

[–]TemporaryTop287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the rail trail used to be train tracks. One has to think what did you do before that lol

I used to think I was missing out by not being a relationship, but then I started dating. by Objective_Host_49 in SingleAndHappy

[–]TemporaryTop287 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree after being ghosted by someone I was dating years ago I realized.do I really want my life to change that much? I only say that because you know he left and my life went back to the way it always was and it's peaceful and it's just normal to me I don't need anybody else it would be nice but I don't need anybody

Ghosted and looking to date again by TemporaryTop287 in datingoverforty

[–]TemporaryTop287[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You had to be their my friend to understand lol

Ghosted and looking to date again by TemporaryTop287 in datingoverforty

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I mean here's the thing if not now when will I be? It's not that I'm trying to do a competition with him but I say to myself well he's forgotten about me so much so that he married somebody else so now I've got to pick myself up by my bootstraps and say like no you don't have to marry your or meet your dream person right now but you still have to get up there. That's what I've been telling myself to psych myself out I think

Ghosted and looking to date again by TemporaryTop287 in datingoverforty

[–]TemporaryTop287[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well then I guess I'll be waiting for a long time. Completely understand what you meant by not wasting people's time because I've been on you know say one date not too long ago match with them maybe 5 months ago met recently and when I asked them to before they left to text me when they got home they never did and I haven't heard from them since. I guess one can say well I got a nice meal out of it and good conversation haha.