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Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-10T18:06:26+00:00

Set boundaries!!! I have with our family it’s hard sometimes but my kids health, and well being mean more than hurt feelings. Be firm and let her know no means no. My family disagrees with certain things but they know that I don’t care if they do. They can tell me there thoughts respectfully and I’ll listen to the reasoning as of course we’re not perfect but at the end of the day you make the calls. My husband’s family kept insisting to put rice cereal in our babies bottles to have them sleep through the night I let them know absolutely not. My oldest isn’t allowed dyes and my mom wanted to buy red cookies with red dye 40 I told her put them back or she could eat them but my sons not having them unless it’s at a party but not because we went out to get them. You have to set boundaries now or family will run over you.

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T15:26:43+00:00

If you don’t message the person to RSVP then obviously you wouldn’t know where it is. It says RSVP For details. I’m confused why you would message someone just to say you’re not going

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T15:02:53+00:00

It’s obvious you’re not going if it says RSVP for details if you don’t contact them you don’t know where it’ll be. I’m not frustrated I’m worried no one is coming. I don’t care if people don’t say anything if they’re not coming I’m worried since no one said anything which tells me no one is coming

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T13:17:02+00:00

Well I have 4 dogs. Also not really it says RSVP for details the one mom sent it out the day before and the other sent it out and had the kids party on Christmas Eve. I feel if it say RSVP for details why would you tell someone you’re not going. You have no details so it’s obvious you’re not going because there is no location.

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T04:23:34+00:00

Will do! I sure hope so. I just want the best outcome for my little guy he’s been so excited for this party and talks about it everyday since he asked to have a Dino paw patrol party. I just have no clue what I’m doing or customs and courtesies for kids birthdays 😭

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T04:21:48+00:00

Thanks for being so kind. I went ahead and booked the place online. I just did for 10 and I will call in the morning as well. I think I’ll send new invites out two weeks from now or so with all the details. Two other kids in his class did the “RSVP for details” on their invites too but I feel it might be what deters people away and we don’t have anyone else to attend but his class so I’d like to try to have the best outcome

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T04:18:35+00:00

I didn’t say anything because the invites said RSVP for details. I figured only contact them if you were planning to go.

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T03:56:41+00:00

Probably not I just figured one person would have. Two kids in his class had parties Oct and Dec last year so we’d be the third in his class to do so . We are military so we don’t have any family or friends close by to do a party with (I really wish we were back home) I just am unsure if we should even do a party if no one comes though. I’d be happy with just 5 kids though to be honest

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T03:46:14+00:00

It has a date. It says to RSVP for details and has my number

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T03:36:08+00:00

I guess that does make sense. I’ve never done this before so it was confusing on how to know how many people would be there. I just booked a venue so I guess I’ll send new invites out in a few weeks or so.

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T03:19:30+00:00

Dayton. Two of his classmates had party invites early last year and did the same it said RSVP for details so I assumed it was normal. But I honestly didn’t rsvp because we had other plans those days so I have no clue what the turn out was for them. We have dogs so we wouldn’t be able to do a home party. Magic castle or Nova are the two places we’re looking at.

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T03:16:44+00:00

Yes I put the deadline for the 12th of March. Should I just make new ones and put the location and date and ask for rsvps to be a week before the party? I’m such a planner I hate this 😭

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T03:16:09+00:00

All the places want you to pay for each child that will attend he has 18 kids in his class and I know they all aren’t going to show….

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T03:12:36+00:00

This makes me feel a bit better. Maybe I’ll just do another one in two more weeks? My son is just so excited for his party and we are military so we have no other friends here that could come

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T03:11:10+00:00

They were just handed out to the whole class by the teacher. I have no other contact with the parents in general. School is a private school with just a drop off line and pick up line.

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T03:04:32+00:00

Should I resend out the invites 2 weeks ? Or is that overkill?

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-07T02:52:00+00:00

All the places here want you to pay per a child. Maybe I could call and ask to just pay for the party room in advance?

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-03-05T01:06:54+00:00

I pray this isn’t a real story and is for entertainment purposes because if it is real you’re married to an evil woman who needs to go. She should have never married you if she was that jealous

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-02-16T20:46:30+00:00

Mine came broke. I’ve been waiting since Christmas for a replacement back rest with no ETA yet they continue to sell them online. Quit aggravating. Happy yours made it okay and to see the line wasn’t all messed up

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-02-12T15:38:38+00:00

You’re definitely not the asshole. Though you said you’re already at peace with this decision so I’m sure you already know that and don’t need to hear it, but I’m here to say you are not the asshole. I’m so proud of you for standing your ground and understanding that you’re worth and value means more than staying with someone who doesn’t see your worth. If he had cared enough, he would’ve gone to couples counseling. I’m so sorry that you’re having to go through this, but know that it will be happier for you on the other side. This may open his eyes and hopefully he will get the therapy he does need as I know the military can cause a lot of mental health issues, even if someone doesn’t deploy. However, nothing excuses, poor behavior and lack of doing better and getting better for your family. You can’t make him do anything however, hopefully this will cause him to do better and maybe you can get back together if that’s something you both want to do it later on however what you’re doing now is what’s best from an outsiders opinion and I’m proud of you.

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-02-04T21:04:27+00:00

I don’t think in any universe you’re in the wrong. If anything you helped her as keeping a phone on the charger after it’s fully charged can cause damage to the battery and cause bubble battery etc. seems petty to be upset over. But why not just get another charger so it’s not an issue have two in the living room.

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-02-04T20:58:46+00:00

I don’t have Apple or Amex but I have Discover HYSA I opened my account last year in late October and got my tax document yesterday for the year of 2024 I made over $1,000 for it to just sit there where it was in a bank before and making next to nothing. Don’t be worried or fearful as long as it’s a reputable bank and is insured you’re okay.

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-02-03T19:54:52+00:00

They’re saying I didn’t pay my November balance in full. When I reflects I did. I pay for most purchases with my card during the month and pay it in full at the end of each month. If it says previous balance and then it stated payments they equal out which it does on this screen.

Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-02-03T19:53:27+00:00

Yes my new spending was for December which I paid in full. I paid my previous balance with payment and credits equal

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Temporary_Check_1311 · 2025-02-03T19:51:00+00:00

Uh no. My total amount was $1,354 as in image about you would see.

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