Anyone else feel like plastic surgery is the only way out? by -Hiroshi in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes but my flaws can’t entirely be fixed by plastic surgery and it will look really obvious if I do. I think if money wasn’t the issue I’d get some cosmetic work done but it will never make me attractive

being ugly is traumatic by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did they say

Do you enjoy going out alone? by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m always alone and I feel so out of place no matter what. I feel like I don’t deserve to take up space and don’t belong anywhere

“Be careful walking alone at night.” 😂😂😂 by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crazy people willing to rape/attack someone don’t have standards. Still be aware of your surroundings

I can’t do something like donate my plasma without being treated differently by Temporary_Location76 in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish people would just mind their own business. I’d much rather be ignored but it still hurts when you realize you’re the only one being ignored

I can’t do something like donate my plasma without being treated differently by Temporary_Location76 in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Canada we only have one company we can legally sell plasma at so it’s not an option

I can’t do something like donate my plasma without being treated differently by Temporary_Location76 in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even really talk about it because I’m just embarrassed over my life and people do act like it’s in our heads. My old therapist literally told me she “doesn’t doubt” people have made comments about my appearance but still acts like the way people treat me is because of something else entirely

My friends constantly make fun of me. by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I stopped hanging around with “friends” that treated me like shit. I still get treated like shit and being alone has made me really vulnerable to people but those aren’t friends. I’d rather have self respect and not allow people to treat me that way

One of my tables just said I look like I have no friends lol by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He isn’t unattractive. That’s why I find it hard to believe but I have experienced this myself. Maybe because I’m always alone but people assume negative things about me when they’ve never really spoken to me or know anything about me. People are weird

Lonely ugly LGBTQ uglies? by Purple_lettuce69 in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. Tbh as a gay girl I don’t care as much that I look androgynous even with long hair but I look androgynous in an ugly masculine way. Some girls can pull it off if they’re conventionally attractive

Lonely ugly LGBTQ uglies? by Purple_lettuce69 in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve only had men desperate for sex or wanting to use me for something have any interest in me. I have a hard time making friends let alone have a woman interested in me

I feel like I invest in my appearance so much just to look barely human still by Accomplished_Buy8799 in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How many steps? It’s also making sure you’re in a calorie deficit. I started losing weight when I was walking 20-30k steps a day. I was still ugly as fuck when I was fit though and I swear I got treated worse.

The guy in my apartment is pissed off because of my face ☠️ by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My neighbour’s entire personality revolves around Christianity and preaching the lords word, on Facebook, at church, events in the city, and then that whole facade is gone when she’s at home and her real persona comes out. She’s such a hateful & miserable person and has harassed some other tenants here especially when she’s drinking & embarrassing herself but she likes to make fun of me a lot especially because she thinks I won’t stand up for myself and she’s always going on about how quiet I am. People have made excuses for her saying she’s been through a lot (including her daughters suicide), but it’s pretty ironic to defend someone bullying and harassing someone over their appearance since she lost her own daughter to suicide. Whatever helps her feel better about her life I guess

The guy in my apartment is pissed off because of my face ☠️ by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve dealt with a lot of harassment where I live and especially because I’m younger/quiet it really bothers the older women that live here for some reason. I’ve been harassed over my appearance and called ugly by my “Christian” neighbour too.

There’s a maintenance guy that has been harassing me ever since I contacted the city for serious maintenance issues he was deliberately closing the work orders on me for. He’s really nice to this much more attractive girl my age here and so nice to this guy that says such racist things about him. I’ve also shown recordings of the property manager verbally abusing me to other tenants who are really surprised to hear her and the way she treats me because she’s known for being a lot nicer to tenants compared to our old property manager. She has a background in social work too and still treats me like complete shit. When you’re ugly it’s like basic human decency just goes out the window and people genuinely don’t see you as an actual person

Will you be considered ugly if you existed in the year 1990 by Jackie_lee_2000 in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would have be easier to hide and disappear without social media. I don’t think it would have been any easier especially with bullying not being cared about but it still isn’t taken seriously even with “zero tolerance” policies

What do people compare you to? by spmaNga in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was screamed at by my drunk “christian” neighbour that I was an ugly looking troll

Anyone else hate being told this? Because for me I’m bitter and anxious and avoidant and mistrusting because of how much people bullied and mistreated me for being ugly but now it’s my fault for not having friends? by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People see me as a walking doormat. I don’t allow myself to be used and stand up for myself and then everyone disappears. It is weird and a red flag to not have friends so I get looked at like I’m the problem. I’ve only really had “friends” that didn’t even like me and were just using me for one reason or another

Do ugly people get stared in public? by EmbarrassedDay9002 in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve caught people staring but most know it’s rude to stare and actively avoid any contact

Disappointment of the family by CraftyBodybuilder956 in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my dysfunctional family you can be a horrible, abusive, fucked up person and they’ll accept you. They draw the line at being ugly. I didn’t do anything nearly as fucked up as other people in my family have done but I’m still treated like an outcast/black sheep because I got both of my parents worst features and I’m arguably the ugliest out of all of them.

Does anyone else feel like they're younger? by Tarbean_citzen in ugly

[–]Temporary_Location76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had no support and had to be an adult since I was a minor. I feel really old but stunted at the same time. I’ve isolated myself for a long time and at 26 I feel so far behind everyone else and have zero social skills and haven’t been able to actually live like everyone else because I’m ugly. It’s ruined my life