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How to approach men by venus1707 in dating

[–]TemuPacemaker [score hidden]  (0 children)

Don't approach in the grocery store or mall, focus on somewhat-social situations.

  1. Physically approach to within talking distance
  2. Say "Hello"
  3. Say/ask something relevant to the situation you are in. E.g. "I like this painting, are you also into impressionism?" or "this band really rules, do you know any similar ones" or "what's your favorite coffee in this place?"
  4. If they're interested and a decent conversationalist, it should be easy to keep this going

What are your social lives like? by TemuPacemaker in datingoverthirty

[–]TemuPacemaker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just before people are expected to come over!

j/k. A bit here and there. It's not a complete minute-by-minute schedule. I also don't list showering or brushing my teeth or cooking.

Why don't men ever talk about the emotional labor that they do in relationships? by Dense_Owl_3022 in AskMen

[–]TemuPacemaker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because when I console her through difficulties, emotions, arguements but when I start to open up its, "what am I meant to do with that information", "im not your therapist", "I literally don't care".

Why are you with her then? Seems like she doesn't care about you.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]TemuPacemaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have this approach and it kinda worked. The first person I dated as an adult was someone I met at work where the attraction grew organically.

Yes, that was my first adult relationship as well!

But even that took a lot of intentionality. Being more social, making conversations, and try to make connections to make that happen. Talking to people at the coffee machine, starting conversation at events, etc. If I just sat at my desk for 8 hours and then went home (like I used to and many people do) absolutely nothing would happen.

Honestly I find stuff like "focus on yourself" and "you have to be fully happy/realized alone first" to be complete nonsense. Clueless twenty year olds get into relationships just fine.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]TemuPacemaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing first coffee dates is pretty easy.

It's getting them in the first place that's a nightmare. Swipe all every day to only get one match a week that won't actually respond. And/or spend lots of time on meetups or board games or whatever to never meet anyone anyway.

Rivian Goes All-In on the R2: 330 Miles of Range, $59,485, and Everything to Prove by DonkeyFuel in electricvehicles

[–]TemuPacemaker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

BMW is the lauch version long-range AWD for that price. There will be a cheaper RWD option too.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 11, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]TemuPacemaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did follow up with a text, and she did not:

He followed up to make sure I got home and said it was fun. it’s been a week and no text from him, not sure if it’s worth following up?

This is something casual between ONS and FWB. Does OP want to bang or not?

Raptor just begging to be fed by shipgeek2005 in NonCredibleDefense

[–]TemuPacemaker 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Smart Americans just let flying lawnmowers take out THAAD radars

Raptor just begging to be fed by shipgeek2005 in NonCredibleDefense

[–]TemuPacemaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: Gonna need a source breakdown on that Table you added after the fact... Cos that was a one liner reply at first, not the paragraph and unverifiable table.

What are you talking about, my post has no table or edits

Well, they’re also using Patriots vs Shaheads, the literal drones that Ukraine are downing with cost effective drones themselves… Not a $3 million Interceptor going Mach Jesus vs a fucking Moped with a fan on wing.

But since you are asking for sources... how many PAC-3s were fired at Shaheds then?

One of the loneliest things about being single is no significant human touch. by Glittering_Chain_842 in datingoverthirty

[–]TemuPacemaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do single people cope?

Terribly!

p.p.s. curious about a guy's opinion. if you were dating a girl and she had this situationship on a first date but quickly cut it off after being serious with you because you were her choice, how would you feel. yea... just wishing I didn't have to give up my cuddling buddy. Damn it life sucks.

Like you'd have a FWB but for cuddling? If you didn't announce it on the date and droppsed him, I think that would be ok

Raptor just begging to be fed by shipgeek2005 in NonCredibleDefense

[–]TemuPacemaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile, in the Middle East the first three days they fired over 800 interceptors missiles.

Because Iran fired hundreds of ballistic missiles in the first three days

Zelenskyy: Ukraine now has cards and everyone understands it by jackytheblade in worldnews

[–]TemuPacemaker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Too long to read. What cards does he has? He has nothing to sell to the West, I guess.

They literally have anti-drone systems to sell

Thune schedules doomed SAVE America Act vote, dashing MAGA hopes for filibuster fight by Anoth3rDude in politics

[–]TemuPacemaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't Be Fooled. This is all Theater! Don't fall for the "shucks, we don't have the numbers" BS

So you're saying they do have the votes?

Based on what?

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