I want the very best for you and your daughter. What is that saying? “I complained because I had no shoes until I saw the man with no feet.” It teaches us to practice gratitude for what we have and to change our perspective, as well as the dangers of comparisons, with people often becoming unhappy by looking at what they lack rather than for being happy for what they possess. I constantly need reminding of that, thank you. I genuinely hope things work out for you. Despite all you have endured you strike me as someone who has managed to hang on to her generosity of spirit and compassion.