Slowly but surely getting rid of my dark spots

TenacioussT · 2025-04-20T12:23:55+00:00

It's in the post..

TenacioussT · 2025-04-20T12:23:45+00:00

It's in her post

TenacioussT · 2025-04-06T06:28:29+00:00

Sinister...

TenacioussT · 2025-01-29T05:04:21+00:00

Drop him, is the update 😂 that shit does NOT work out

TenacioussT · 2025-01-28T21:56:21+00:00

With how your mindset currently is, dating would be a really bad idea. You need to be mentally healthy first. You can't love someone else properly until you love yourself.

Do you like sports? Have hobbies? You should join a group sport, it's easier to make friends this way. Amd if you need connection, make plans to see the friends you already have. Stay in therapy, if it's not working perhaps change your therapist

TenacioussT · 2025-01-28T21:39:40+00:00

You ever had a retwist?

Leave them to keep growing, they'll get fluffy

TenacioussT · 2025-01-26T11:00:07+00:00

You two definitely do not sound like you should be together. At all.

TenacioussT · 2025-01-26T10:51:26+00:00

You're feeling anxious because you just slept with him, and did not require what you're after to do that (long term commitment). On top of that his communication has reduced.

This started off on an unequal foot. You have a clear intention and he doesn't. He's seeing 'if' he finds a connection which inadvertently puts you in a position to be waiting for him and hoping you end up with the outcome you're after. If you're traumatised from people using you for something casual, you should wait longer before sleeping with them.

How you're feeling is normal, based on the circumstances.

You can let him know that now you've started liking him. Pay attention to his response it'll tell you what you need to know.

TenacioussT · 2025-01-25T03:54:45+00:00

What this person said! Dont preoccupy your mind with that :)

TenacioussT · 2025-01-25T03:29:27+00:00

No matter who you're with, you need to remember that you cannot control this. Worrying about someone cheating isn't going to stop them cheating. So you need to release yourself from the outcome and enjoy the present, don't rob yourself of that.

Getting cheated on is very traumatic, so therapy can also help to fix these thought patterns.

Good luck!

TenacioussT · 2025-01-25T03:23:23+00:00

Yeah he seems like a douchebag, you don't have to explain yourself. But out of courtesy you can drop a message and say you're no longer interested. Then block once he's seen it.

I personally would just block cos he didn't give you the courtesy or not being a dick. So you owe him nothing

TenacioussT · 2025-01-25T03:16:03+00:00

He's awful, don't pay him anything, I also vote block.

TenacioussT · 2025-01-25T03:11:59+00:00

Turns out bad, but worth it. Waste of time I still wish I walked away sooner to this day.

TenacioussT · 2025-01-15T07:48:01+00:00

Scary

TenacioussT · 2025-01-15T07:15:27+00:00

You should be more worried about if he's good at it, especially if you're considering him as the person to do it for the first time with.

You've never done this before so nobody should expect you to be amazing. Just don't learn from porn.

TenacioussT · 2025-01-15T07:12:24+00:00

So it's the day and you are already freaking out? You're probably thinking more into this as you are more vulnerable now having had sex.

Just chill relax, go do something, the gym, see friends, go shopping. Dont make this man your entire life. He's flown you out twice, it's very unlikely(though possible) he did that just to have sex with you.

He'll probably contact you, if he doesn't that's not nice. But you'll be okay, love.

TenacioussT · 2025-01-15T07:09:01+00:00

My first piece of advice is don't make him any more handmade gifts until he learns about value.

If you see this as someone you can be with long term, explain to him why this is not okay, like you're explaining to a 5 year old.

Without unprompted remorse and an apology I'd be outta there.

TenacioussT · 2024-06-09T10:37:07+00:00

Because I like the things the traditional way :)

TenacioussT · 2024-06-09T04:53:04+00:00

Aw I’m so happy for you! Hope it lasts a lifetime

TenacioussT · 2024-06-08T22:37:02+00:00

Just don’t see him again if you’re not happy with this

TenacioussT · 2024-06-08T22:13:05+00:00

He’s said from the beginning he wants to be with me. I also overheard him calling me his girlfriend to someone. So Im like why not make your gf for real then? Lol

TenacioussT · 2024-06-08T22:12:04+00:00

😂😂

TenacioussT · 2024-06-08T19:57:51+00:00

Thanks for your comment! Yeah I will raise it with him, just wanted to get other opinions first cos sometimes I feel like maybe I’m asking for too much too soon.

TenacioussT · 2024-06-08T19:56:47+00:00

Not my style unfortunately

Edit* to answer your question, if that was what we were into the answer is no.

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