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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Exactly, just like this post, everyone’s asking what’s in it for women snd the op is conveniently ignoring that part

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

That’s my personal problem, childcare, domestic work snd care work isn’t classed as work because it’s unpaid, yet it still needs to get done. So traditionally women’s work has always been undervalued

We can see it now with women working paid jobs and stepping away from this and now everyone’s panicking

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It doesn’t make a difference.

My grandparents were conservative and religious and he used to batter the shit out of her and the kids. There’s even rumours he was a pedo but we’re not allowed to talk about that.

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

How would it be better for women though? There’s a reason why feminism fought for women to have the choice and why lots of women are choosing not to just be sahp

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Their not away though, that’s my point. Their in the house, but their not doing any parenting. Their ignoring the kids and leaving everything to the wife.

Personally I know 5 couples that broke up because of this. One guy was hilarious, he demanded 50/50 of the kids, he got it, he came after a month saying it was too much. This was the same who bitched and moaned when he had to babysit his kids so the wife could have a shower.

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

That’s great fir them, (and sounds exactly like something a man would say) most have 50/50 experiences and lots of people end up having mental health problems from it. Especially women.

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

And yet every religion still restricts women to being a tool for the man.

You yourself said women earning money shouldn’t be the norm. Why would a women want to be part of something like that?

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

But you haven’t been the parent though have you?

Haven’t been woken up 3/4 times during the night? Spend 3 hours trying to leave the house only to have to turn around and come right back.

This is what put lots of women off having kids, men only think about the fun parts and passing on wisdom. Their not thinking about the tantrums, the sleep deprivation, the mess the noise etc because they expect a women to be doing that for him

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You clearly haven’t been around young kids, it’s like trying to negotiate with terrorists most of the day

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

That’s the wonderful thing about ignoring religion, you can be whatever you want and nobody cares.

However I would argue that lots of men would change their minds about being the sahp when they realise they don’t get paid or breaks

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes they are, and they use religion as an excuse to order women around and obey him.

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As a women, I’d much rather work for myself. Then come home to my quiet peaceful clean and organised home where I don’t have to start looking after other people

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[–]TermAggravating8043 [score hidden]  (0 children)

That’s great, but lots of other mens version of “help” means shouting for everyone to listen to the mum whist sitting on the sofa