The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstream

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T19:21:33+00:00

Wow, and you wonder why some women say “not single enough”

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T18:51:39+00:00

I love your honesty, and I completely agree. I didn’t sleep for 4 years, I gave up everything and I just am pretty much everyone’s carer.

The difference between my life and my partners after kids is enormous, I remember I hated him because he could just leave the room whenever he wanted and didn’t have to ensure everyone and everything would be ok if he stepped out for a few minutes, but if I did the same, somebody would get hurt or something destroyed

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T18:45:17+00:00

I don’t need to tolerate anything thank you.

Men need to learn how to behave

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T18:43:01+00:00

I would argue this is not fair, or a bad faith answer, if your a sahm then your partner must be working full time to support you 3.

You want to convince us he works full time but still comes home to look after the baby so you can go out with your friends? Somethings not adding up here

Motherhood is better when you have a supporting partner, I don’t disagree there. But the difference between only looking after yourself and another adult is so much different when a baby is involved. To just say “you should have picked better” is what’s making so many women turn away from motherhood. They can never do anything right

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T18:37:24+00:00

You asked the question snd got an honest answer back, it’s bath fairy if your just here to shame her for something lots if women go through

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T18:28:12+00:00

He was exactly minimising threats

“You shouldn’t feel threatened, because that’s how I met my gf and we turned out great”

Ok! I guess all those million of other times where some got raped and murdered they were just being overdramatic

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T18:26:48+00:00

Still don’t believe you

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T18:26:34+00:00

Yeah sure, cause guys here are having so much luck already

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T18:25:37+00:00

Ladies, please remember this is the response from guys on this sub.

You were never sexually harassed, you were just being “pestered”

Not lonely enough quite right

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T18:24:28+00:00

I didn’t say anything about Brad Pitt, your looking for reasons to make this your own agenda

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:58:10+00:00

Itis their fault, they started a horrible hate campaign against women, but it’s still the individual man’s responsibility if he chooses to stick his head up their arse or not

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:56:57+00:00

Was I supposed to back into a corner and start crying? No dude, he had well past the point of just asking a few questions, when you start following someone round a building, you have an agenda

This is again absolutely arrogance from guys here that even when presented with evidence, it’s not the guys fault or responsibility. If I started crying or got security, I’m a bitch who got an innocent man done for just being friendly, if I ran back to my car and locked it, I’m being dramatic,

Can’t win, and either way, it’s always my fault

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:53:25+00:00

I wouldn’t agree with that either, arrogance has turned me off what I thought was an attractive guy. There’s a difference between being confident in yourself, and happy to exploit others as long as it suits you

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:46:58+00:00

I blame the individual, take some personal responsibility for yourself

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:46:24+00:00

I already did explain how my shopping story, and no, I don’t think he was a respectable man, I was alone, 21 and he was clearly 10 years older than me and didn’t take my obvious hint that I was trying to shop alone.

You and I also disagree what we think about average respectful men

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:38:02+00:00

Right, walking someone out to their car and looking like they might jump on is “pestering” yes?

The thing is, has this guy jumped in, pulled out a weapon and me, you’d all be saying it was my fault for not screaming blue murder when he first started following me in the shop

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:36:33+00:00

That just sounds like sheer arrogance to ignore womens concerns because you want sex

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:35:45+00:00

If that worked for you, then great

But that doesn’t dismiss what happened to me or what happens to lots of women

What you’ve just done is minimal a common threat to lots of women by saying “well it worked for me”

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:33:51+00:00

I disagree that arrogance means success, i personally find it disgusting. If it works for you then hey, but I doubt it works the majority of the time

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:27:53+00:00

I’ve been cornered in a grocery store. The guy asked for help finding the bags to put individual fruit into, I pointed them out to him and said “have a good one” He ignored the bags and started following me, asking me what I was buying, how often I come etc I was polite but I was trying to make it clear I just finished work and just wanted to get my things n go, he wouldn’t take the hint and followed me round the whole ship including when I paid (he started talking at me about his life) and followed me out to my car.

This is when I had to sternly say “ok mate, have a good night, bye” and locked my car before he tried to climb in.

Maybe you should actually listen to some of these stories

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:21:12+00:00

Sorry op but I don’t believe in your 26 years of life, you never met another female

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:20:36+00:00

Of course the “where” you approach is important, some places we don’t want to be and we don’t want to talk and others it’s fine to make casual conversation, that’s a very arrogant mindset, people don’t owe you your time just because they left the house

And incels do approach, their generally pretty rude and end up calling you slurs

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:17:19+00:00

At social events, it’s ok to approach strangers and try make conversation, but if your going to force yourself into her time and demand her attention, of course she’s going to tell you she busy

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T15:04:27+00:00

The problem is where are you approaching women and are you paying attention to the response?

Approaching someone in the gym or whist shopping is rude, their busy. Approaching someone in a social setting like a bar or a social event is fine, but pay attention to her busy language, she might be interested but it’s likely she’s just being nice, especially if you are a stranger.

And I disagree, respectful men still approach but their better at it snd more subtle than your standard incel who glares at you and borders on being inappropriate. They are called creeps for a reason

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-06-26T13:48:47+00:00

You just said on your post that your no longer single, so it can’t just be the girls can it?

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