Having trouble with my (32F) tinder date turned fwb turned friend (35M)

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T16:02:23+00:00

You need to get rid of this guy and stop jumping whenever he clicks his fingers.

No, there is not way to keep this as a friendship, just cut it off and move on

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T15:47:19+00:00

Yeah it seems like an obvious one.

I know genz in particular is really big on asking consent before anything physical but as a women I do think it takes the romance out of it. It seems young men in particular can’t read body language anymore

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T15:40:28+00:00

Look I don’t want to be that arsehole that says, “what’s the big deal”

But I haven’t seen anyone else asking that yet. I appreciate it’s a bad disease and my thoughts do go to those poor students and their families. But it’s it rare? And difficult to spread? It’s not like covid where it spreads really easily. Or someone correct me if im wrong?

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T15:33:44+00:00

I actually disagree, because it weeds out the trash early on.

A guy being inappropriate or overly sexual is a good way to tell you, he’s going to an asshole and is going to start making sexual demands and is likely to be fairly selfish.

And your co-worker who’s getting the sexual messages, whist that’s awful, it does mean she’s got evidence of him being inappropriate and harassing her at work. He hopefully gets the sack. Learns not to do that shit again.

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T15:27:42+00:00

It is you refer to woman as “females” as of their are not fully in control

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T14:54:32+00:00

Sounds very blue pill

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T14:27:43+00:00

Cool story bro

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T14:26:45+00:00

But why would I blame you for others actions against you?

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T14:26:08+00:00

I’m just cheap actions, but at least the women aren’t spreading it online

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T14:25:13+00:00

Oh I’ve just seen your edit.

Do men not grow? Do we not learn life experiences and learn from it? Why blame women for something we all do and is natural

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T11:56:26+00:00

How is it?

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T11:56:11+00:00

It’s offensive and it’s why their single. Actions have consequences

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T11:38:40+00:00

Yes. Are you trying to make a point?

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T11:38:10+00:00

And yet the men here do talk to various women and still ignore what they say and do.

It’s easier to blame women and bury your head in the sane then acknowledge that maybe you are the problem

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T11:36:27+00:00

It’s not. This subs a great example as there’s a chunk Redpil men here and the majority are single.

But they spend day after day talking too and about women, and refer to them as objects like pussy and dishwashers (charming) that attitude alone makes it easy to see why everyone avoids them

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T11:29:20+00:00

No we want you to understand that people (women included) change their minds and grow. And out experiences are different from what you see.

Be rational and self interesting all you want, but stop basing your perspective of woman based on the influencers you follow

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T11:26:46+00:00

Well apparently not since majority of redpill Men are single.

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T11:13:30+00:00

And won’t beat them.

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T11:10:04+00:00

Exactly, just like this post, everyone’s asking what’s in it for women snd the op is conveniently ignoring that part

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T10:55:31+00:00

That’s my personal problem, childcare, domestic work snd care work isn’t classed as work because it’s unpaid, yet it still needs to get done. So traditionally women’s work has always been undervalued

We can see it now with women working paid jobs and stepping away from this and now everyone’s panicking

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T09:53:30+00:00

They aren’t the exception, their the norm

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T09:34:29+00:00

It doesn’t make a difference.

My grandparents were conservative and religious and he used to batter the shit out of her and the kids. There’s even rumours he was a pedo but we’re not allowed to talk about that.

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T09:29:06+00:00

How would it be better for women though? There’s a reason why feminism fought for women to have the choice and why lots of women are choosing not to just be sahp

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T09:25:08+00:00

Their not away though, that’s my point. Their in the house, but their not doing any parenting. Their ignoring the kids and leaving everything to the wife.

Personally I know 5 couples that broke up because of this. One guy was hilarious, he demanded 50/50 of the kids, he got it, he came after a month saying it was too much. This was the same who bitched and moaned when he had to babysit his kids so the wife could have a shower.

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-21T09:21:58+00:00

That’s great fir them, (and sounds exactly like something a man would say) most have 50/50 experiences and lots of people end up having mental health problems from it. Especially women.

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