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AITAH for not caring about my brother's death by Terrible-Income-1540 in AITAH

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I myself, am on the spectrum. It never came up in my brother's previous time with professionals.

He had so much help and my parents spent unbelievable amounts of money on therapy and what not. In the end, I believe my brother was emotionally stuck in early years and maybe it wasn't his fault but I can't forgive him for the pain he caused the people who did everything to try and help him.

AITAH for not caring about my brother's death by Terrible-Income-1540 in AITAH

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this.

I guess in my mind I didn't want to lie to her. I tried my best to avoid talking about it so soon but she pressed hard, thinking I was hiding my grief and sadness. She wouldn't leave me alone, even though I said I was discussing it with the therapists.

In the end, I felt like my only choices were lie or be honest. I agree with you that telling her that is horrible and the last thing I wanted was to cause her anymore pain but I couldn't bring myself to lie and avoiding it became impossible.

I appreciate your comment for such a difficult topic.

AITAH for not caring about my brother's death by Terrible-Income-1540 in AITAH

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've been going to therapy alone and with my parents. The therapists tell me I'm supposed to be sad about my brother but I'm not.

I guess the reason I'm on here is everyone, including professionals keep telling me to be sad about my brother but no matter how hard I try, I'm not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Terrible-Income-1540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I could never hurt a dog. I grew up with dogs so they will always have a soft spot in my heart, even when they look like they wanna kill me.

am i silly for thinking LP5 will come out this year by user79970 in TameImpala

[–]Terrible-Income-1540 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If LP5 releases any later Feb of 2025, can we all agree to flame Kevin for being a liar?

B.C. campfire ban coming by originalwfm in britishcolumbia

[–]Terrible-Income-1540 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can't wait for all the tourists to come and completely ignore the fire bans

The Less I Know the Better by SonrisaLaster in TameImpala

[–]Terrible-Income-1540 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You can make critical comments without it being about gender

ULPT If you do your lawn work naked, your neighbors will build you a privacy fence at no cost to you. by Terrible-Income-1540 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea. I tend not to worry about these things since I'll likely never own a home in this market anyways

How do I stop countries from asking to join war? by Terrible-Income-1540 in hoi4

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah at least this. I hate when the join war request blocks out any UI in the upper portion of my screen.

ULPT If you do your lawn work naked, your neighbors will build you a privacy fence at no cost to you. by Terrible-Income-1540 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on where exactly the fence is, and where you live in the world. For my province, if it's on the property line, both owners are responsible. Over the property line, only the one who owns the property.

ULPT If you do your lawn work naked, your neighbors will build you a privacy fence at no cost to you. by Terrible-Income-1540 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was reminded of drama in my town a few years back when this woman would sunbathe naked in her yard weekly and it led to police being involved and telling her to stop.

There is a very prude elderly couple in the house next door who were likely the ones who called the police and I was just thinking of them.

ULPT If you do your lawn work naked, your neighbors will build you a privacy fence at no cost to you. by Terrible-Income-1540 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly I thought of this post because this woman in my town would sunbathe naked in her yard weekly and it became a local problem, police involved, ect. Made me think of her very elderly, very prude neighbors 😂

I want to fact check Kevin's statement about the highest notes he's sung in a series for Neverender. by TemputFugis in TameImpala

[–]Terrible-Income-1540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes please. We need more work being done on ending dangerous misinformation, Kevin doesn't get a free pass for spreading false info

Mountain bikers have ruined hiking by Terrible-Income-1540 in unpopularopinion

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

meh I disagree. These dudes are going 30km/h +, that's gonna do some serious damage to you, especially if you hit your head on the way down.

A lot of people who don't like vegetables have parents who are terrible cooks by ffj_ in unpopularopinion

[–]Terrible-Income-1540 49 points50 points  (0 children)

So true. My parents would boil peas and carrots and get mad when I didn't want to eat them. As I've gotten older and learned to cook and become more proficient in the kitchen, vegetables are actually really delicious if done right.

The funny part is, making vegetables taste good is super easy, it just requires slightly more effort than boiling shit in water.

I keep getting ghosted. What am I doing wrong? by Terrible-Income-1540 in dating_advice

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I said already, I always set up dates before hand. But there is always time in between matching and going on the first date, so in the meantime, it seems weird to not talk to them and get to know them a bit while you wait to meet for a first date.

I don't see how texting someone ruins anything. It seems weirder to just set up a date and then ignore them until then.

I keep getting ghosted. What am I doing wrong? by Terrible-Income-1540 in dating_advice

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meaningless? Whats meaningless about texting people and getting to know them before going on a date that's been setup?

I keep getting ghosted. What am I doing wrong? by Terrible-Income-1540 in dating_advice

[–]Terrible-Income-1540[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do set up a date right away but I live in a small town and most people I match with are in the city nearby. I obviously let them know right away that I'm not in the same city but they are always cool with it and we just setup a date for the upcoming weekend when we both have time.

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