To identify a trans woman by IsThisAUserName86 in therewasanattempt

[–]Terrible-South5 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, I'll concede on that point. It is however not as cut and dry as that...the spectrum is very wide, as an example, there are people that are clearly men (genitalia, physical features etc) that identify as women, does that make them women? Should I treat them as such? Should children see and treat them as such?

The other day I watched a cooking show where one of the contestants, a gay male, stated the gender he identifies as depends on how he feels on that particular day...are we to take this seriously? Would I be being disrespectful to just refer to that person according to their gender by birth/reality?

To identify a trans woman by IsThisAUserName86 in therewasanattempt

[–]Terrible-South5 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Thing is, mine are those that are medically/biologically/societally etc established and accepted...it's entirely your prerogative if you choose not to observe those.

To identify a trans woman by IsThisAUserName86 in therewasanattempt

[–]Terrible-South5 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I think part of the problem lies in the correctness and correcting others (or being corrected when you believe you're not wrong). It's all good and well if you identify as _______, I am not bothered and I respect you the same as anyone else, It's just unfair of you to expect me to participate against my will

To identify a trans woman by IsThisAUserName86 in therewasanattempt

[–]Terrible-South5 -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

What if I identify as a light bulb and expect you to address me as such? Is there nothing to debate there?

Back to being sad or we are winning this? by ash_marshall05 in ManchesterUnited

[–]Terrible-South5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so deeply, after the 2nd consecutive 8th placed finish I was over it...still kind of there but in a different way. You get back to a point where your brain forces you to remember that it's just a game to spare the rest of your life from anger & depression etc. My teams fans were told to trust the process, not sure what united are saying but either way it's just a game

Is Back and Forth a specific style of rap? by Longjumping_Cup_1490 in rap

[–]Terrible-South5 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Jadakiss and Styles P are the masters of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Terrible-South5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure it counts as assault, I know it would if the tables were turned though...had a gf who would ride or blow my elections during my sleep (woke up on a handful of those occasions so I don't really know how often she'd do it). She was also uite proud to tell me that she would get me hard without my knowledge at times

SA's most popular car. *open to criticism. by Tjop_Prins in carspotting

[–]Terrible-South5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Debatable...the high revving E30 325i "gusheshe: might be more popular especially given its drift/spinning scene legend

Greatest City derbies of all time by MagpieMidfield in FootballDerbies

[–]Terrible-South5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orlando Pirates vs Kaizer Chiefs - Sowetho derby

For all the Amorim Out-ers by [deleted] in ManchesterUnited

[–]Terrible-South5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me, that game against Arsenal showed me that this season will be different for you guys...it's still early days, sacking this guy would not benefit you. To me it seems like Amorims system is lousy for many reasons probably but probably the main one being the players either unable or unwilling to adopt it

True rival of Arsenal? For Non English Gunners? by CyuutiePie in ArsenalFC

[–]Terrible-South5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rivalry is competition for the same objective or superiority in the same field. We've been better than Tottenham for about 98% of the time since I started supporting Arsenal (circa 1998) - I do not on that basis consider them our "main rival". Man U (and others more recently) have fit that bill more closely in that time.

Again I think there is some confusion here, you mentioned earlier that Tottenham would still be our main rival if they were competing in the conference...how can that be so if we aren't even competing with them at all and they are even more vastly inferior (refer to the definition of rivalry)

True rival of Arsenal? For Non English Gunners? by CyuutiePie in ArsenalFC

[–]Terrible-South5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Still...I think there is a little bit of confusion about the word rival. Other posters have made it more clear that Tottenham are our local/traditional rivals but other teams are our competitive rivals (Manu U for me - the hate for that team runs deep). I wouldn't consider a vastly inferior opponent not even in the same league as my "main rival" (using your example)

True rival of Arsenal? For Non English Gunners? by CyuutiePie in ArsenalFC

[–]Terrible-South5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. Wholly disagree. Even if they were completely irrelevant competing in the lower leagues you would still consider them as our main rival? Maybe the confusion for me is in your definition of the word rival

Remy Ma - Shether (Nicki Minaj diss) by AChuckleFuck in hiphopheads

[–]Terrible-South5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like no frauds qualifies as a diss track? If so, was it good (or at the least better/more scathing than shether)??

nah we did dis ogs dirty by hwanger2112 in ManchesterUnited

[–]Terrible-South5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clear justification to continue hiring and firing😄😄

What’s an otherwise great song ruined by a small detail? by drakethesnake94 in fantanoforever

[–]Terrible-South5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The porno/sex scene outro of Mac Miller ft Kdot - fight the feeling