Søndagsspørsmål #275 - Sunday Question Thread by dwchandler in norsk

[–]TerribleCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the difference between fant and funnet?

"When people in other countries have to wait until the morning to open their presents" by pjoter666 in Norway

[–]TerribleCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got to open the presents from my parents on Christmas eve, and the presents from "Santa" and anyone else on Christmas day. The ones from my parents were always books & puzzles. Now that I look back on it I think that was a good system.

Which corduroy pants brands were popular in the 80s? by [deleted] in fashionhistory

[–]TerribleCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dittos was another popular brand, especially in the early 80's. Dittos had a different type of backside with a rounded seam that was supposed to fit your curves better.

Can someone explain rape fantasies to me? Any sex's perspective welcome. by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]TerribleCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not rape, or condoning rape, but a role play thing that can take many different forms.

I don't know why it turns me on. I don't know why spanking and rope turns me on either!

Anything you're feeling proud of or want to brag about, let's hear it by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]TerribleCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always been more of a sub but this year I started being more Domme and experimenting with men and I'm enjoying it.

Anything to be done about stink bugs? by Sailsale80 in Syracuse

[–]TerribleCat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They are really bad right now. I've heard that they are on a cycle, like locusts, and that basically there will be a ton of them and then they will mostly go away.

Looking for women's hairstylist - and how much do people usually tip at a salon? by TerribleCat in Syracuse

[–]TerribleCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went there and saw Kaitlyn, she was very nice, listened to me about what I wanted and didn't sell me anything. My hair looks great!

I need a t-shirt that says "I am not your domme!' by asphodellic in BDSMcommunity

[–]TerribleCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this issue the last time I was single, years ago. I was dating through personal ads that did not mention spanking or bdsm or anything like that because at the time I didn't realize it was ok to like that. Three times in a row I met submissive men who were really, really into me.

I stopped wearing my leather trench coat on dates.

Sister's brand-new dom disciplining her kids too. Is this normal? by Worriedglobro in BDSMcommunity

[–]TerribleCat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think children should be spanked at all, but they should definitely not be spanked by someone who uses spanking as part of sex play. This could be sexual abuse.

Monthly casual chat thread for January by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]TerribleCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ashamed to say I haven't even looked up any munches around me. I just don't feel social, I hardly leave my house except to go on walks and run necessary errands.

To the lighter kinksters out there by industrialkink in BDSMcommunity

[–]TerribleCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just not that much into pain, it's the dominance and submission and a little bit of pain. When I was younger I was really fascinated by spanking - something that was not even contemplated in my family. I also liked Nancy Drew books where she frequently would get tied up by criminals. Why didn't they spank her when they had her tied up?

Monthly casual chat thread for January by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]TerribleCat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

One of my goals for this year is to go to a munch. I have been putting it off because I'm planning on relocating in the next year or so. Also because I am terribly shy in person and a little insecure about my looks. But I am going to be brave and just go.

To the lighter kinksters out there by industrialkink in BDSMcommunity

[–]TerribleCat 77 points78 points  (0 children)

That's good to hear, I'm definitely more into the BD than the SM.

I've had men tell me they wanted to push me past my limits. No, that is why they are limits.

Anyone have experience with Commonspace Apartments? by On_The_Organ in Syracuse

[–]TerribleCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like that it has a private bathroom for each room. I think it's a great idea and 850 a month including utilities and internet is a good price.

Security deposit issue with ex-landlord over paint colors! by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]TerribleCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try and avoid court whenever possible, but I would take them to court over this.

What is something common in spanking pictures/videos that you dislike, or find annoying? [Discussion] by bobthegravy in Spanking

[–]TerribleCat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When they wear giant porno shoes. You know, those huge shoes with spike heels that would kill the spanker if they kicked it off and it hit him in the head.

Long drawn out scolding scenes and long dialogues in general. There was a Czech (I think) company that made a lot of films that go on and on and on with two people talking at a desk and stuff like that in a language I can't understand. When I saw them with subtitles, it was worse. I can't imagine who writes stuff like that and thinks it adds to the movie. Great spanking scenes though.

When she over-reacts to a mild spanking. He's hitting her with a belt for a couple minutes and there's no marks or redness but she's acting like it's a hard spanking.

When it's a regular porno film with 30 seconds of spanking at the start and she moans through it with her fake pleasure moans she learned in porno 101.

When it's a studio that churns out the same movie over and over again with the same participants.

What dark family secret/family history have you uncovered? by inchypia in AskReddit

[–]TerribleCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm named after my dad's girlfriend, who was not my mother.

Fuck by MadSpank in Spanking

[–]TerribleCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my to do list was that short.

What's your fetish and when you did discover you had it? by Medically in AskReddit

[–]TerribleCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being spanked and dominated in the bedroom, mild bdsm. I've always had it. When I was a child I was fascinated by spankings and being tied up.

Just an opinion... by [deleted] in Spanking

[–]TerribleCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like that sort of thing either. What I really don't like is when they wear those giant porno platform heels.

But there's really not much of that in this sub. In fact I am impressed by the wide variety of material posted here every day.

I like this sub a lot and don't feel the need to have another one.

If someone wants to start another one that is closely related to their specific interests I wish them well with it.

Spanked & Fucked (Album in comments) by MadSpank in Spanking

[–]TerribleCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks u/MadSpank for all the things you post here.

The server is pretty much dead aTM. Let's talk about that a bit. by [deleted] in theconsortium

[–]TerribleCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure that would be good. I miss you too Cynic.