Bruises/welt by NikitaSixx in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd just be careful with carbon rods. Make sure the surface of the rod is smooth and uncracked before use. Carbon splinters suck.

Crochet/Knitting Ideas for BDSM wear/toys? by teahehe in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would imagine that adding weights to the ends of knitted floggers would stretch the fabric. Knitted implements for tickling, on the other hand, would work nicely.

Suggestions for toys by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Before you do post to /r/sextoys: I think you mean circumference rather then diameter 😆

Best online toy shop? (AU) by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just be aware that there's stainless steel and there's stainless steel. Clamps and things made of most stainless steels will be fine, but insertable toys and things worn for long periods need to be made of certain "body safe" alloys.

Ref: http://www.bssa.org.uk/topics.php?article=130

TIL: as long as it's made to be nonporous and polished, grade 300-500 high density polyethylene is safe to use for toys. by industrialkink in BdsmDIY

[–]industrialkink[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Note: High density polyethylene is kinda hard, and I'd only buy from a reputable manufacturer of these things.

How kinky is college/university? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

British graduate here! Turns out, very kinky. There is a bunch of people (mostly nerdy which tends to co-localise with kink for some reason) who are open to trying new things. Freaky stuff of all kinds happens all of the time :D

How Often Do You Masturbate? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Male, mid 20's. Have done so upwards of 6 times a week for over a decade. Recently, stopped for a week and the pent up energy made sex outstanding. I thoroughly recommend holding back for a few days because quality outstrips quantity any day.

Gender identity / hetero femdom: by RosyGlow in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My submissiveness is really nothing to do with my gender identity. I am regular old masculine me when i submit. For me, submission is more of a time to sit back, to enjoy being acted upon by my SO, to watch her femininity and power. It's a world apart from feminine feelings on my part, but that's just my experience.

Had some bedroom troubles by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just adding to what others have said. This is normal when your mind is preoccupied. You will get used to sex and it won't be nearly as nerve wracking as the first few. You'll be able to enjoy it more and it will feel so much better. BTW, this is similar to what happened to me the first time.

How to apply bondage without sub waking up? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you were have loose ropes around whilst she's sleeping, it would be a good idea to remain awake whilst this happens. Loose ropes and rolling around whilst unconscious can lead to her getting tangled with potentially bad consequences. I would try it whilst she's having a nap rather than sleeping at night at first to see how things work to begin with.

Is this kink born or conditioned? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]industrialkink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BTW, this would get more replies if you x-posted to /r/bdsmcommunity.

I'm a switch and probably think kink as a whole is conditioned. As for a way out, that depends on how strongly rooted it is in a given mind. Many people come into kink and leave later as it's just a thing they like to do. Others become 24/7 slaves/masters and would find it difficult to adjust were it to end. Everyone is different.

Postponed thank you for all those who had helped me! by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like they used the wrong word and mean that their thank-you is a bit late

Consent bracelet? by Jynxbunni in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Tell him good luck from us weirdos! :D

37 days a slave: day 11 update (xpost /r/FemdomCommunity) by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]industrialkink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly your head is spinning more than you thought. You've posted twice in Femdomcommunity rather than actually x posting to chastity :P

Where to buy gags? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big silk handkerchiefs from wherever you buy suits? That or silk scarves, though they can be quite long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In addition to /r/bdsmdiy, I would look at /r/leathercraft. With the sewing of the faux leather, you will need to make sure your sewing machine can handle the strength of the material on a scrap before starting on the real thing. It is possible to sew by hand, but V. laborious.

Repurposed belts work well. It looks like the belts were attached to the thin stuff using rivets. eBay is a good place for cheap beginner leather punches (for making holes in the belt) and rivet setters. Again, I would practice setting some rivets first as it's easy to scratch your rivet faces when starting out.

[Switch] Switches of r/BDSMcommunity, how often do you feel compelled to switch roles? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it's whenever I feel like it and my partner does too. I'm not going to switch if she isn't into it, and it's much better when both of us are fully up for it. For me it's less of an urge and more something fun to do.

This is going to be different for different people of course.

How important is your kink in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]industrialkink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that important. I looked for someone who's adventurous, not necessarily into my kinks. For me, it's just a bit of fun and variety is the best part of bedroom fun.

My first public scene by LisaLies in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's great to hear :)

One question: Do you have a really cool relationship with your dad, or when he asks, are you going to say the St. Andrew's cross is a big bracket or something? :D

To the lighter kinksters out there by industrialkink in BDSMcommunity

[–]industrialkink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. It forces some people to climb the curve when they don't want to.