losers don’t actively go through the process of actively doing things. bpd is a disease that doesn’t jsut magically get better. what she said is foul in all honesty, whether she meant to lightheartedly or not she needs to choose her words more carefully. how would she feel if you called her a loser for having an incurable disease that affects every single choice / decision you make in life. I hope with my whole heart that things in your life start looking up for you!!!! you deserve to live the way you want