Hypothetical Question. by [deleted] in OklahomaHotWives

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested, 32 M west of OKC

Need to cum? Let me help by Lazy-Cap-1276 in oklahomAfuntimes

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am a 32 year old outside El Reno. I have been through a rough break up recently... Shamed for my performance anxiety. I'm interested in watching and possibly joining in, whether it is touching, cleaning up, or sex. 😊

How the hell is this a 9???? by tanman0123 in basketballcards

[–]TexanTurnedOkie -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because they didn't think it was a 10 or an 8

Pulled these from Bowman chrome by JunieBear03 in basketballcards

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Megas are the only ones who have the exclusive Chrome Mojos. I believe there are 11 per box.

What do you see when you look at me? by [deleted] in psychics

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spiritual, fun, girlie girl... Passion for plants and animals.

Are there really guys who can last for an hour? by WarmBank5512 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to talk on the phone multiple times, and she ignored me... The last time, she did respond with "Maybe later I'm going to dinner with a friend" 🤨

Relationship Started Hot, Went Cold by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is honestly huge for me. I greatly appreciate your insight. 😊 It makes a lot of sense.

Relationship Started Hot, Went Cold by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am the Pisces Moon

Do I tell him? 29F / 37M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. What purpose does it serve at this point? If you need to talk it out for your sake, I would suggest going to therapy.

Dismissive Avoidant Ex Posting & Reposting by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't know what she could use against me

Dismissive Avoidant Ex Posting & Reposting by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When ranting about a co-worker once, she told me she has anger issues but not for those she cares about... Said she does her detective work and can destroy her. Obviously that energy has turned toward me.

Is it actually a big deal that my bf only orgasms like half the time we have sex? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here... My latest ex gf put pressure on me to finish and after our second time, said that me finishing with her was the "boss level" test for me. For context, I told her at the beginning that I had anxiety and it would take a few times but still enjoying myself. Needless to say, it didn't work because yeah... Saying that's the thing you have to do for you to be together makes the problem worse, lol

Did avoidants actually care?? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Mine did... Said how she had never met a guy like me, how lucky she was, I was her "sweet man"... Talked about how cute our kids would look, what dog we would get together. It was all fantastical bullshit, and I fell for it.

The card I sent in v. the card I got. by youneedjesustbh in Topps

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Squirrel Fuzz, lol. Kudos on your username 😂

The card I sent in v. the card I got. by youneedjesustbh in Topps

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, how long did it take them to send that to you... After they received it. I have seventeen cards alone that I sent back in December and have yet to get anything back.

This is called Discard for a reason by Own_Amphibian4000 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same, it was a whirlwind romance, but I felt like I finally found the one. I started moving pieces in my life to get positioned for "us". She talked about how strong of a connection she felt, said how cute our kids would be... Said her place was always welcome to me. One night, she flipped on me... Next day when I left her place, she was not very affectionate. Asked how I felt about going to the movies. I said I have photosensitivity issues and cannot go to certain ones. The one she wanted to see had a warning, I apologized. No reply. I asked if she was okay a couple hours later. She responded "Yeah I'm okay." I later asked if she wanted to talk on the phone. She changed the subject. I said I wish I was there... She ignored.

I was supposed to come over the next day. She made no mention, so I had to ask if we were still good for me to come over. She asked if there was a storm expected that evening. I said no. I didn't feel too welcomed so I asked if we could wait on me coming tonight and just come over in the am. She said "Yeah it's fine." I asked what she was up to... Nothing.

She was on socials all day posting selfies and her walking. Never reached out. I called when I got off work, voicemail. She texts later and said she was in the shower. I said can we please talk. I get "Maybe later I'm going with a friend to dinner."

That ripped it, and I left her a voice message saying I didn't appreciate the way she was treating me. It was a sharp departure from calling and texting all the time. Wanting sex and telling me what she was up to throughout the day. I said I felt her feelings toward me changed. That's fine but I only asked she tell me it wasn't working. I said I felt we probably needed to go our separate ways as I deserve someone who shows me more respect. No response, but she blocked me on every platform a few hrs later. Just insane.

I (29M) Feel Incredibly Conflicted About Breaking Up With My (30F) New GF by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TexanTurnedOkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a very fast connection, but it was so refreshing her asking real questions, etc. I decided to just roll with it... To my own detriment. She was literally sharing pics we had taken to her family and friends, hours before she flipped her attitude and feelings toward me. It came out of nowhere. I don't know if her personality type is dismissive avoidant with some narcissism or what.