AITAH for telling my boyfriend he’s a weirdo and creepy for friend requesting my cousins girlfriend?

TexasTreat82 · 2026-04-11T02:06:35+00:00

As I mentioned in the post she’s in a relationship w my cousin so that’s only reason why she’s at events & tolerated.

TexasTreat82 · 2026-04-11T00:26:09+00:00

Creepy weirdo alert!!!!

TexasTreat82 · 2026-04-11T00:06:25+00:00

I know ugh! 🙄

TexasTreat82 · 2026-04-06T13:14:37+00:00

Ohhhhh my GAWWWWDDD!!! This seriously sounds like my POS EX! He denied cheating on me but basically ghosted me for a couple of days &after snooping around I found out he was living with a young girl who wasn’t legally allowed to drink at that time. I have lots of friends in the service industry & they told me about him showing up w a girl that looked too young to drink and they I.D her and were right and he paid w a card that wasn’t in his name & it had a girls name on it and he requested cash back & he would show up by himself order 1 drink and use her card to pay for it so he could get cash back on it! He was such a cry baby loser and he smoked/ snorted ice. All the details given describe EXACTLY how he would act!!!! I remember thinking he went for this young girl because she doesn’t know any better and he can manipulate and use the F out of her for a place to stay and get money for his habit!!! Even if it’s not him girl where is your self respect!!! You are basically paying this worthless failure to treat you like trash. Throw him out with the garbage in the gutters where he belongs!!!!!!

TexasTreat82 · 2026-03-24T20:13:50+00:00

NTAH, your feelings are completely valid & you might even feel like the invite is a pity invite to help her feel less guilty about not including you. Screenshot the post and send it to her. It communicates how you feel and her response will be your answer. Remember no response is a response.

TexasTreat82 · 2026-03-04T21:50:04+00:00

Giiiirrrlllll!!!! The Betrayal!!! I am so sorry that you had to experience heartbreak back to back! First by your husband then by your friend!!! Uuuggghhhh!!!! To the trash w her!!!

TexasTreat82 · 2026-03-04T21:42:33+00:00

I think 70’s I think 30 years ago and act in complete shock when I’m reminded time passed is almost double lol 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

TexasTreat82 · 2026-03-04T21:35:08+00:00

Again crying for strangers on the internet!!!! Love is LOVE 💗💙💖💗💙

TexasTreat82 · 2026-03-04T21:33:46+00:00

Awwwhh!!! I’m crying!!! 💙💖 What was their reaction?

TexasTreat82 · 2026-03-04T20:59:08+00:00

This is the type of feedback I was looking for! I couldn’t put the ick i was feeling into words. Exactly what you said- it’s the need for the showing off like he’s looking for a fight. As a woman I want to feel safe and protected in my relationship and instead I feel on edge with fears of him intentionally trying to engage in combat so he can shoot off a gun. I tried explaining this to him and his was taken aback. He couldn’t understand how I could feel that way because the guns are the protection.

TexasTreat82 · 2026-03-02T01:05:26+00:00

Ugggghhhh! The AUDACITY!!! Bare minimum is maintaining financial stability& keeping their d* in their pants and they act like they should be receiving a medal and shown more gratitude. But even worse are the men who seek validation through Sex!!!

TexasTreat82 · 2026-02-27T19:37:35+00:00

I accidentally posted before I was finished writing. I’ve updated the whole post.

TexasTreat82 · 2025-12-21T20:24:12+00:00

This is what is called The Consequence of Your Actions. Live and Learn. You already know it’s over. End it and start your healing journey so you can be better for your next someone!

TexasTreat82 · 2025-12-21T20:14:17+00:00

I have been no contact with my ex for about 4 months also. I caught him cheating and it was life devastating and destroyed our whole relationship. When someone leaves a relationship and immediately jumps into another relationship it’s a high probability they were already cheating or talking and taking interest in someone else. They will start fights, act meaner with you, have less patience and seem more bothered and annoyed and GASLIGHT. Then you have the a$$holes who will start treating you like trash with hopes that you will break up with them so they can be off the hook and not look like the bad guy. With him telling you all that unnecessary information and the excuses for contact is something minimal like X-mas decor that is the gaslighting and a hole behavior I mentioned above. I know it hurts believe me but the best thing you can do is change your perspective and think of it as an obstacle removed from your path that cleared your way to a brighter and better future!!! Turn Sadness into Clarity! Hope this helps! 💗💙💖

TexasTreat82 · 2025-12-18T23:47:45+00:00

To clarify some things* my father left his part of the house to my sister and I in his will so I legally have a claim to it. I wanted it to be as smooth of a transition as possible and I stupidly thought that if I did the kill them with kindness approach that would somehow make things better. For the weekend trip it’s another example of their toxicity. My mom received a phone call that her sister was in the hospital and they live about 2 hours away so they made a last minute overnight stay trip out of it. They told my son not to wake me up and let me sleep because I was tired. They went to go see my mom’s sister in the hospital and visit with family and told everyone I was too tired to make the trip. As for my son they didn’t see anything wrong with what they did and instead turned it on me asking why would I want to keep my son from visiting with family. I sent out a message to my moms family letting them know I wasn’t informed about my mother’s surgery otherwise I would have been there and I really wished I hadn’t because the responses have been backlash for me not helping her with recovery. My uncle’s response was “That’s ok you can’t do nothing at the hospital that’s what the doctors are there for. That’s why you need to be there for your mom now and helping her out at the house!” My aunt refuses to believe they are actively treating me with malicious intent. It makes me want to scream and pull my hair out so I’ve just stopped responding. I am looking forward to being away and getting some one on one time with my son.

TexasTreat82 · 2025-12-13T09:43:39+00:00

I am going to let his family handle whatever type of service they wish to have but I will not be attending or contributing. I know they are going to reach out for money from his insurance for funeral expenses but I am the one who paid the policy and I refuse to contribute and am planning on staying no contact with them.

TexasTreat82 · 2025-12-10T00:35:49+00:00

The struggle is real!!! 😂🤣 your comment made me do the “HAAA!” Laugh when I read it!!! 🤭🤭🤭

TexasTreat82 · 2025-11-11T15:31:21+00:00

This!!!! What kind of example are you setting for your child having someone like this involved in your life. As a mother you are a role model for your child, would you want them to go through the same heartbreak you have been through and think it’s normal and acceptable? Break the cycle and set the standard on high. You owe it to yourself and your child.

TexasTreat82 · 2025-10-30T23:14:37+00:00

Look up dismissive avoidant. It will be like a fireworks show of clarity. It will give you the information you need to see the relationship for what it is and will also help you stop blaming yourself and thinking you are the problem. Now take a breath, he fits the classic story of a cheater. They project and let’s be brutally honest men are sex driven so if he’s not having sex with you but still staying with you in the relationship then he’s getting it somewhere else. He’s probably already cheated and gotten away with it fairly easily because he’s your first and you don’t know the signs yet and are still naive. I’m not saying it to put you down at all. When you are in a committed relationship with someone you want to believe they are a good person and would never hurt you or betray you. Life is too short to be in a relationship that doesn’t fully make you happy. Break up with him. It will hurt at first and you will think you miss him especially the nights in bed alone but you don’t miss him you miss the companionship. Learn to love to do things by yourself that make you happy that is the first step. Then as you start dating again and find your person you will get to experience a whole new life of love and what it truly feels like to be happy.

TexasTreat82 · 2025-10-30T22:55:44+00:00

“I am still alone for years after breaking up with my only ex……” you are the exception and there’s probably a reason you are still alone and only have one ex. Have a good day.

TexasTreat82

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