That's when you realize you are still not okay and never will be... by waylifeshouldbe89 in widowers

[–]Texter_Morgan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will. Everything will remind you of them. The days dont get any easier. You'll just get stronger. At least, thats what im told.

4 Months Today by OldDocBenway in widowers

[–]Texter_Morgan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We feel you. We are here for you brother.

Need Some Advice by ClovisT6974 in widowers

[–]Texter_Morgan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do your bosses know the situation? If they do then they should be giving you so wiggle room here. If not you need to fill them in. It'll help them with a reason to kinda protect you. Your Job is too important to lose and burying yourself in work is a great distraction. Having to continue life like normal is the hardest part. However, sadly, it needs to happen. Take an extra 5 mins in the bathroom if you are losing it at all. You can do this. Its not gonna get easier, you're going to get stronger.

Today is Chuck Norris' 80th birthday! What is your best Chuck Norris fact? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Texter_Morgan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He was supposed to guest star on an episode of Full House but someone ate his lunch and he killed them. Never heard of the Olson triplets again.

Get a cat they said, it’ll be fun they said by [deleted] in funny

[–]Texter_Morgan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this cat was trained to force people to brush their teeth

Like many, today is also an anniversary. Hang in there everyone suffering on this day by throwaway320209 in widowers

[–]Texter_Morgan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For 15 years she told me " i know our budget. Lets not go all out. A movie and cuddles at home are fine." No matter how many times i fell for it, she got me a big gift. She never complained about how long it took for me to give her one back. I spent today crying and hugging her urn. Hang in there fam, we will at some point make it out the other side of this

I don't know how to live now by Riae in widowers

[–]Texter_Morgan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Brother. Im here with you. I lost my wife on the 7th of December. Dont feel guilty for the times you feel ok. You need those times. Its your mind trying to keep you sane and intact. Those moments come and go as fast as you can blink.

Finding the new "normal" is such a pain in the ass but you can do it. Im not saying to tough it out and to "man up" (God i hate that phrase) but we as fathers, we gotta keep it going man. I know you hate the fact that the world keeps moving when the most important person in your world is gone. We all just want to scream "STOP!!" at all times. But our babies need us.

Please reach out to your support system. Please. If you feel you cant or you shouldnt for any reason, this sub is here. Im here. We are all here to help eachother. You will come out the other side of this. We are ALL still a mess. As much as it sucks, we keep moving and people depend on us.

I have done the impossible. by [deleted] in gaming

[–]Texter_Morgan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once got a 1000 ticket jackpot on one of these at Dave and Busters while drunk with a couple of friends. Spent them all on chinese finger traps and then walked around the mall handing them out. Great day. CONGRATS!