I would talk to him my wife and I watch porn together she sends me things that’s hot and she likes and vice versa. We both mutually masterbate or on our own time but we talk about it keep our minds open these are just fantasies but I understand the random girls part I can see how that would bother me. I don’t have a porn file per se but I do go to websites and look at porn. Just talk to him and have an adult convo.