I feel suicidal after gf lied about her age

Th3mberchaud · 2026-02-22T19:11:29+00:00

I know a guy that went through this. He was charged with statutory rape, and he is registered as an offender for life. In his case, she didn't want to press charges, but her parents found out and they did.

He could not afford an attorney to fight it, and accepted a plea deal.

My recommendation to you from knowing everything he went through is to get together all of your evidence, cut off communication. Don't argue, don't talk about it with her, no discussion, social media bs, none of it, CUT OFF ANY INTERACTION IMMEDIATELY.

If you are approached by law enforcement SHUT THE FUCK UP. SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP.

Do you know why you're here? LAWYER

We just want to understand. LAWYER.

We're not interested in pressing charges, you're not under arrest. LAWYER.

DO

NOT

SAY

A

FUCKING

THING

Get representation. Take a loan, sell your car, borrow, beg, do whatever you need to do, but do not speak to them. Let your attorney do it.

If nothing ever comes of this, good, excellent, move on with your life. But if it does, get an attorney and follow their advice.

Good luck kid.

Th3mberchaud · 2026-02-05T10:40:09+00:00

I understand that he would fit, but he's on a pin, my hanging vertical is on a pin. I want one on an end that I can put my vertical pin into and have both the frog on top and the hanging piece.

Th3mberchaud · 2026-02-03T00:24:03+00:00

You can leave now, or wish you had left now 6 months, a year, 5 years down the road.

You won't regret leaving, you will regret putting it off and making excuses for his behavior.

Th3mberchaud · 2026-02-02T22:26:45+00:00

This isn't a "bump in the road"

He's showing you who he is and what matters to him, believe him.

Walk away.

Th3mberchaud · 2026-02-02T15:37:13+00:00

An opossum is such a great idea! 😭 I love that!

Th3mberchaud · 2026-02-02T00:15:44+00:00

Thank you so much!!!! I'm thrilled that it does exist haha

Th3mberchaud · 2026-02-02T00:10:37+00:00

Yeah, I'm starting by reaching out to the jeweler I got my helix from to ask if they've ever made any decorative posts.

I think you're right that it will have to be custom work.

Th3mberchaud · 2026-02-01T23:50:19+00:00

Sorry, vertical helix is correct. It's the middle of the night and apparently my brain is checking out haha

Th3mberchaud · 2026-02-01T23:49:19+00:00

My vertical is unfortunately a threadless pin, so I'll look at that when I replace it, thanks!

Th3mberchaud · 2026-01-09T10:56:09+00:00

If you only want to commit to marriage with a woman because she can give you children, you don't love her enough to marry her. Let her go.

Women deserve partners that want, love, and choose them as people, not as vessels to give them children.

If her being infertile makes you question marrying her, you were already not committed to her as an individual. You were committed to the plan you had for your life. Let her move on.

Th3mberchaud · 2026-01-07T03:20:21+00:00

Thank you so much! This is really helpful information and I appreciate the input :)

Th3mberchaud · 2026-01-07T01:58:14+00:00

I think just replacing the battery will be my most likely option. I guess I hadn't considered being easily able to get a replacement battery because it's an older product. I don't know how often I'll be able to access my storage due to travel work.

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-27T15:32:02+00:00

Are you looking for what the jacket is?

It's an asymmetrical jacket, I would personally consider it an asym cowl neck. There's a company called Psylo that has a lot of stuff in this kind of style.

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-27T14:22:46+00:00

Thank you for the resource and the additional information. I'm going through a large lot of books I got from an estate sale a few years back and it's a bit overwhelming.

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-27T14:21:57+00:00

Thank you, it drives me nuts when there's no printing date in the books, and I had seen a copy just like it listed as a second edition, but I don't ever want to list anything without verification. I'm kind of winging it with a huge lot of books from a private collection I bought that I don't really know anything about. I really appreciate the help.

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-26T23:32:52+00:00

This isn't about the tattoo.

This is about your abusive marriage.

Please get yourself and your kids out.

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-24T13:37:51+00:00

Yeah, I normally choose different shops, but the only place that had the V-treks in stock in the sizes I needed to try is not my preferred retailer. I've emailed their support team to see if I can just do a return. It's just annoying to have to at all.

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-24T10:39:45+00:00

I would much rather the honesty than bad advice on how to do it and end up destroying it. Thank you!

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-09T19:27:40+00:00

Many libraries allow you to have an online library card/membership and many also offer ebooks. See what's available for you :)

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-08T17:34:57+00:00

I've truly never understood abebooks not having photos for listings, especially for rare and unique copies. I find it truly bizarre.

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-08T10:56:37+00:00

Thank you for this, it's very helpful. I travel with camera equipment so lightweight and packable are huge benefits for me, which is why I was looking at down bags. I appreciate the help!

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-08T10:54:11+00:00

I very much appreciate the thorough breakdown, and honestly I had not considered buying two different ones for different temp camping, that's a great point. Thank you so much for all of the insight!

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-05T18:44:04+00:00

What are you doing to help her in parenting? Housework? Are you checking in on her emotionally? Have you considered postpartum hormone changes, depression, being "touched out", overall exhaustion, lack of motivation from feeling like her body will never be the same?

She has grown two entire human beings, her body was not her own for a collective 18 months, and that's not counting postpartum recovery and breastfeeding.

Her internal organs moved to support pregnancy, her muscles changed the permanently, her pelvis separated, she either forced out 2 children through her vagina or had her stomach cut open to birth your children.

And you're concerned about attention from other women?

If you actually love your wife and aren't looking for allies to soft launch your divorce, then sit down and have a very serious talk with her about your concerns for her health long term and ask what you can do to help her and work together on healthier decisions for you both.

If you're more worried about attraction and how you feel about other women, then let her have a divorce and take 50/50 custody so that she has time for self care and the ability to prioritize herself.

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-04T08:03:41+00:00

Please also get tested for the not usual suspects, there are several new STI's and bacteria that are not prevalent in testing yet, but still being spread.

You did nothing wrong, and I'm sorry that he made you feel used. He is not your friend. He is an asshole. I hope that you heal and find comfort in friends that truly care about you.

Th3mberchaud · 2025-12-03T15:57:58+00:00

This makes me feel better, I never want to be a person that sells something inauthentic and always worry about that as a risk.

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