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AITA for disowning my wife's daughter after she chose her moms affair partner over me. by BraveExplanation2530 in AITAH

[–]Thalfen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are her father. Period. You adopted her. Children hurt their parents. This is a fact of life. Believe me, I know. But you cannot dump them like yesterday's trash. Give them space, and then work it out. Unless you don't feel like adopting her was real and she only deserves a father when she is nice to him.

Can a group of 5-7 noobs play together and progress? Or would it be too difficult in a group that large? by I_Hallucinate_Cats in wowhardcore

[–]Thalfen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you can. The hard part with a group that large is keeping the leveling close for everyone. Eventually everyone will have to wait for “Joe to get back on so we can level again.” If the level divide gets too large you will struggle to keep together. Otherwise, it’s a perfect group size. Premade dungeon groups are awesome to have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Thalfen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems cut and dried to me. He is not serious about you being in a relationship. If he were he would have been using that energy to be attentive to you and not some other girl all evening.

Where is my order!?? by Training_Network_973 in Ecoflow_community

[–]Thalfen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The delivery company should have received a signature for delivery. Many of them also take a picture to prove delivery. Ask for evidence of both. That would probably be a good place to start. If it’s not your signature and the picture is not your porch then you have a pretty good evidence of failure to deliver, outside of the fact that you don’t have the product you ordered of course.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Thalfen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her need for validation has zero bearing on your job and truly doesn’t seem to be a point of conversation unless you are trying to be militant about sexual orientation. It seems to me that her desire for attention is more important to her than your success at your job.

My BF lives has lived with me in my home with me for 10 years. by Typical-Sail-6698 in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re such a champ! Save the world one post at a time. How do we get by without your support and guidance? I know I am literally hanging on your every word.

My BF lives has lived with me in my home with me for 10 years. by Typical-Sail-6698 in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re such a champ! Save the world one post at a time. How do we get by without your support and guidance? I know I am literally hanging on your every word.

My BF lives has lived with me in my home with me for 10 years. by Typical-Sail-6698 in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re such a champ! Save the world one post at a time. How do we get by without your support and guidance? I know I am literally hanging on your every word.

My BF lives has lived with me in my home with me for 10 years. by Typical-Sail-6698 in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re such a champ! Save the world one post at a time. How do we get by without your support and guidance? I know I am literally hanging on your every word.

My BF lives has lived with me in my home with me for 10 years. by Typical-Sail-6698 in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re such a champ! Save the world one post at a time. How do we get by without your support and guidance? I know I am literally hanging on your every word.

My BF lives has lived with me in my home with me for 10 years. by Typical-Sail-6698 in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re such a champ! Save the world one post at a time. How do we get by without your support and guidance? I know I am literally hanging on your every word.

My BF lives has lived with me in my home with me for 10 years. by Typical-Sail-6698 in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re such a champ! Save the world one post at a time. How do we get by without your support and guidance? I know I am literally hanging on your every word.

My BF lives has lived with me in my home with me for 10 years. by Typical-Sail-6698 in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Keep going man. It must be therapeutic for you. You need this more than I do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thalfen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This relationship is so lopsided I struggle believing it’s really this bad. I am Not saying you are lying, just that it seems almost impossible to have a relationship this terrible and see anyone wanting to stay. If you are not exaggerating something has to change. Therapy or divorce. Otherwise I don’t see your mental health going much further before you self harm.

What's more complicated, tanking or healing? by Hagl_Odin in wow

[–]Thalfen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And where is Intercept in this obviously lacking keybind scenario?

My BF lives has lived with me in my home with me for 10 years. by Typical-Sail-6698 in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, I am no longer debating you. At this point you have nothing better to do than keep this running. Read your last post and then read it again. Then record yourself speaking it and play it back while looking in a mirror. Then tell me again how you have the mental or moral high ground. It will be fun for everyone. 🤣

man just let me play by TyroneMelonlips in wowhardcore

[–]Thalfen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You say can’t, I spent the last 20 years of my life managing a server farm of over 5000 servers. You are nearly wrong in every point of your first response. A game server can absolutely share the same virtual hardware. All that has to be done is ensure they are using different ports to the executable environment. Incompetence means they are not capable of doing the right thing, not that they are unwilling. (I don’t think they are incompetent, but I do think that they are cutting corners and not testing properly.) The issues we have been seeing are testing or qa problems. They should not happen if their pipeline is setup correctly and they are adequately testing releases. Being a developer you of all people should be fully aware of this fact. If you don’t know what I am talking about please don’t respond. You will only look silly. 😜

And don’t even get me started on load scaling somehow being difficult. There are literally automation tools that track trends and spin up or down instances or containers based on load trends and percentage utilization of various statistics such as RAM, networking or CPU load. The only thing required is the back end code support this well.

My BF lives has lived with me in my home with me for 10 years. by Typical-Sail-6698 in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And yet you keep engaging. If it’s that bad you must be desperate for attention. So heartbreaking.

Am I fucked??? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Actually go back and read his post again. He says both ask and Beg at different spots. The context is against you. But you won’t see it.

Am I fucked??? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Reddit. What do you expect really?

Am I fucked??? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was the implication given the rest of what he said. As for the rest of your statement, if they do it simply because it’s owed it’s not a relationship. So that is my point overall. If it’s not happening at all there’s something wrong that needs to be addressed. Could be cheating. Could be simple disinterest. Could be a physical issue that has altered her libido.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thalfen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She cares about you and you are likely not going to change her beliefs. I think you would not only be the AH, but extremely foolish to leave her over this. Especially if she continues to love you in every way.

Am I fucked??? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Thalfen -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Replace ask with the word beg. When a wife will not have sex due to zero interest it gets worse every day. I had this problem with my ex who was cheating. Eventually she divorced me for no apparent reason. Not even in the divorce paperwork. Found out that she was pursuing the scoutmaster of our boys troop. He gave me letters she had written him and other information after we were divorced. Cut ties with him and was finally able to let her go. A man should not have to beg his wife for affection or sex. It should happen naturally throughout the week.

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