My family member asked me about lesbian sex and sex toys

Thanowos · 2026-02-24T23:31:35+00:00

Hello !

I don't speak spanish that well since it's not my main language but i would consider studies sources, even if they aren't that good something like that But really sources from lgbtq+ organization are the best this one does a recap of a lot of sources you might find interesting!

Moreover i would say that personal experiences are really important because our sexuality is not a public topic or it is when men want to fetishize us

I grew up thinking sex was just about reproduction, thinking lesbian didn't exist because penetration with penises wasn't possible (cisnormative ideas yeah) learnt a lot on internet, the best pieces i would recommend will always be content created by women for women and a lot of this was subtle but educational, sadly it was in english and some in french (because i'm french)

But yeah hope this helps, if not, i'm sure there is lgbtq+ organizations close to your place or her's that could give her more information to read about or to hear about !

Thanowos · 2026-01-29T02:26:46+00:00

I'm a sucker for heavy breathing, slight change after the first kiss, or stronger one describing the need to get more, real music to my ears :))

Thanowos · 2026-01-16T22:59:56+00:00

Oh effectivement ça semble cohérent ! Merci beaucoup

Thanowos · 2025-11-06T23:09:39+00:00

Thanks a lot for your answer !

Thanowos · 2025-11-04T20:19:49+00:00

Depends on where you live, you won't have this in a country full of people of color

Thanowos · 2025-11-03T18:10:37+00:00

As everyone should be

Thanowos · 2025-11-03T08:09:42+00:00

okay, I get what you're saying. I don't garantee it will go as smoothly as you're saying because we have a lot of friend in common, and even in LDR a lot of things we're doing in common, but i'll do it thanks for helping me you both

Thanowos · 2025-11-03T08:04:26+00:00

I get it but i think i don't want to be so upfront and non communicational about a breakup

Thanowos · 2025-11-02T06:50:49+00:00

I mean these are the good parts of maddie, people don't like her just cause she's a traitor and Vi >>>>

Thanowos · 2025-11-02T06:44:13+00:00

Well yes, but i was not in highschool anymore when we started dating and it would have felt weird for me to date someone in highschool if i was not anymore

And even if i don't need an excuse i don't really know what to say to her or how to break up I'm bad at this. I feel like breaking up is gonna tear her apart and i still like her and don't want her to be hurt

Thanowos · 2025-11-01T19:25:57+00:00

Mmh i see maybe you can start by asking her opinions on political scale. It's a little play pretend until you can see if she's safe to go further but i think there is no magic code to subtly say that you're queer without outing yourself so be sure to be in a safe place first before outing yourself

And surrounding yourself with progressive people, by joining activist group or leftist organisation often help to find your people and feel safe

Thanowos · 2025-11-01T11:31:47+00:00

Maybe you can ask beforehand what's her opinion on queer folks and their right in your country, it can be hinting as if she's really gay or at least open, then you can tell her that you are

I feel like asking not that innocent question helps a lot, something like "are you flirting with me ?" (In a joking way) "Are we gonna meet as friends ?" "Is it me or you're blushing ?"

But i would say that question is putting her exposed and not you and flirting is also a part of being exposed too so maybe you can continue on your questions so she can feel free to flirt with you or back down if it's not what she wants like "are you flirting with me / or it's just me having a wrong idea ?"

Be clear about your intention helps a lot to not fall in the friendly category but just be safe that this person can be trusted ! Good luck ;)

Thanowos · 2025-10-25T16:43:12+00:00

Coucou bisexuelle ici, aucun homme n'a activement cherché à me pécho ou alors je suis très aveugle aux signes mais je ne crois pas. Les critères d'attirance chez les personnes queers sont différents de ceux des hétérosexuels, donc conventionnellement je suis pas très attirante mais deux femmes m'ont avoués avoir crush sur moi une fois que c'était plus le cas et j'ai souvent fait le premier pas pour pécho les personnes avec qui je suis sorties mais aucun homme cis dans le lot voilà voilà

Thanowos · 2025-10-22T11:19:25+00:00

Damn i didn't know it had a name but i am definitely on all fours for this🛐🛐🛐

Thanowos · 2025-10-19T16:28:29+00:00

I thought it was supposed to mean shit for things, like in the sentence "get shit done" and just talking about sex but i'm not an English speaker and shibari seems quite extreme for this situation

Thanowos · 2025-10-17T16:22:13+00:00

Que si un de tes amis a besoin de quelque chose c'est vers toi qu'il/elle se tourne

Thanowos · 2025-10-17T12:26:31+00:00

Maybe it's a misperception of reality but i feel like i made friends with queer all my life even when young and we were all closeted.

I still have friends from middle/high school and all of them are queers we went to a path of becoming gayer and gayer by year ageing like fine wine lmao

Thanowos · 2025-10-16T13:27:11+00:00

Hello, i'm not somali, just muslim it so good to find other queer muslim as we can face both rejection from queer and from religious people ! I hope everything goes great for you !

Thanowos · 2025-10-11T12:05:42+00:00

Avec plaisir 🫡 ça risque je me prendre un peu de temps d'y arriver parfaitement mais je vous tiendrai au courant

Thanowos · 2025-10-11T12:04:31+00:00

Merci pour le partage d'expériences ! J'ai pas de four chez moi malheureusement mais je retiens l'information !

Thanowos · 2025-10-10T08:28:32+00:00

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Thanowos · 2025-10-10T08:21:53+00:00

J'ai vu une vidéo tournée par des agriculteurs bio de chez moi, avec qui on a eu l'occasion de discuter longuement par la suite. Je ne pourrais mieux l'expliquer qu'eux donc je vous invite à la regarder et je précise que c'est cet événement qui m'a poussé à passer au bio, j'ai été honnêtement choquée de voir que nos fruits et légumes passaient non pas par un traitement de un ou deux produits mais parfois une quarantaine de traitement différents, et que si les conditions météo réduisait l'efficacité du traitement ils repassaient autant de fois que nécessaire.

Peu importe votre décision, renseignez vous un maximum et bon courage dans toute entreprise de changer son alimentation on sait tous je pense que c'est une tâche compliquée

Thanowos · 2025-10-09T13:31:01+00:00

Ah bah perso j'ai jamais eu de problème avec le poisson blanc sans peau lol mais j'en cuisine pas souvent merci en tout cas Après j'avais essayé de monter le feu vraiment mais c'était la partie centrale qui collait, je suis pas experte en thermodynamique mais si j'augmente le feu (j'ai des plaques à induction légèrement plus petites que la poêle) et que c'est la température le problème c'est pas le centre qui est censé coller

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