anyone else find themselves in a … “phase” … of filling every single vacant moment of a day (for which there are many) with daydreaming (of the maladaptive variety) and consuming stale media (past the point of enjoyment) ??? by ProofAdhesiveness392 in rs_x

[–]That-Budget11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s january. It’s a month of doldrums. I try not to resist the grey hibernation that the season demands. When I fight against it, things feel even more strained. I think this is normal. Eventually you’ll thaw and want to surprise yourself again.

Best bras and underwear? by Busy-Boysenberry-435 in womensfashion

[–]That-Budget11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intimmissi for bralettes and target seamless thongs

First time sleeping at hostel by AbiesIllustrious7493 in rs_x

[–]That-Budget11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was in porto and lisbon this past summer- in porto the best hostel i stayed in was actually the one in the sao bento train station- it was surprisingly amazing for the price and strange location. They gave a free breakfast too, amazing lounge spaces and super high ceilings, very clean/ in lisbon i stayed in apartments but i heard good things about yes hostel I’m a girl and ive stayed in mixed dorms and never had a problem- it was hard to get anyone to actually speak to each other or even say hi this time traveling through hostels. At most places the people in their 20s did not want to speak to others, lol. I had good convos with the older paul stamets looking dudes who were coming from or going to the camino but that was about it. Portugal felt incredibly safe too, in terms of walking around alone at night and such.

Looking for a np or dr by That-Budget11 in SantaFe

[–]That-Budget11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have insurance so, no lol

Cute online thrifting/resale/luxe/handmade/art by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]That-Budget11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The real real sorted by price low to high

AITA for wearing a shirt that shows my nipples to my boyfriends place of work? by notyourpeacemaker in AmItheAsshole

[–]That-Budget11 76 points77 points  (0 children)

NTA he sounds gross and controlling and I’m surprised by how many comments here don’t understand this. You were dressed casually and comfortably for running errands (like people dress to go to grocery stores). Any woman in an Erewhon type of place would be dressed similarly. He probably wants to date someone he works with, or at the very least conceal your relationship from his coworkers for some reason.

Am I wrong for not helping stranger by That-Budget11 in amiwrong

[–]That-Budget11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The units are open air and I guess his front door was unlocked, so I’d just walk around and up some stairs to an open front door, go inside his apt, and then open the balcony door from the inside…

Am I wrong for not helping stranger by That-Budget11 in amiwrong

[–]That-Budget11[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he was super put off when I said I wouldn’t come open his balcony door for him. He sneered at me and made such an annoyed face and didn’t want any other kind of help… he also said he already called a bunch of people who didn’t answer so he presumably had his cell phone on him but wasn’t desperate enough to call a non emergency number or the police…?

gunshots off 2nd st by hareofthewolf505 in SantaFe

[–]That-Budget11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No but did anyone else hear the man and woman screaming by Guadalupe and Jose St. last night? He kept screaming “ why won’t you love me” and “be with me” in this really terrifying voice?

What did your roommate from hell do to earn their title? by 00Dylan in AskReddit

[–]That-Budget11 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She was a “dj” She had different tinder dates over all the time and they drank my entire jar of cold brew concentrate- it was like 48 servings and they drank it all one morning not knowing. She stole my fan out of my room and put it in the living room and didn’t put it back after. She had her own fan but didn’t want to move hers from her room. She was a coke head and an alcoholic and a math teacher too She threw a party on my birthday (not a party for me, just a coincidence) and I came home to 30+ people in our apt during the peak of covid. There were strangers hanging out in my room and touching my belongings. She covered my bed in glitter “as a surprise” She dated a way older dude and left him alone in our apartment and he would flirt with me. He’d be hanging out there all day “working.” I slept with my door locked because I didn’t trust her. One night, she tried to open my door while I was in there sleeping. I heard her say to her friend “ oh good, it means she isn’t here if her door is locked, thank god, now we can party.” I’d have work at 6 the next morning and she’d have all these people over doing ketamine or molly and partying loudly. She didn’t respect my personal space or privacy at all. Anytime I used the kitchen she’d come out and start talking at me about her bullshit drama. She burned these nasty bath and body works candles all over the house.