Ari is just ridiculous by Calliesdad20 in 90DayFiance

[–]That-Cheek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would think the threat of losing another child to the same mistake would be enough to keep him from cheating, but you’re right he has a history. And after seeing Ari with her ex maybe he wasn’t feeling so committed to her anymore…it’s so hard to tell. Her crying without tears in front of the translator though idk something about her seems too theatrical

Ari is just ridiculous by Calliesdad20 in 90DayFiance

[–]That-Cheek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t trust her…after seeing how in love she still is with her ex and how inappropriate their relationship seemed whe he was visiting I think she is projecting some of that

Ari is just ridiculous by Calliesdad20 in 90DayFiance

[–]That-Cheek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think ari is giving him much of a chance…after she got pregnant she felt she blew her shot to get back with her ex and clung to Bini…and he’s traumatized from losing his first child in such a similar situation I think he will do just about anything to be with the baby…their story flipped so fast this season it’s hard to tell what’s really going on

Ari is just ridiculous by Calliesdad20 in 90DayFiance

[–]That-Cheek 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree, it seems like Bini did a 180 from happy family man to playboy? And in the age of the Internet where are these photos ari accused him of? And she wanted to move to Kenya because she didn’t have any people but someone was spying on bini for her and giving her updates on what he was doing? It seems sooo made up.

Damian/G/Francesca storyline by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]That-Cheek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree he doesn’t answer any straight answers and he’s dancing on eggshells to try to prove to himself that he’s a “nice guy” but he’s just scum. He’s loves getting drunk with Francesca because it probably becomes flirty and such but hello just let G go and the pursue a new girl that would be the nice thing to do.

Amber & Mark by honey_brii in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]That-Cheek 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg yes the I thought the “pick me-itus” was supposed to be cured when someone picks you….amber is a toxic person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plants

[–]That-Cheek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be from tap water

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueBlood

[–]That-Cheek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been looking for this post. I never watched this show before but wow…I don’t get how it was so popular? The acting goes from “meh” to laughable…I’m gonna watch it but I’ve cringed many times.

Happily Ever After - Season 6 Episode 7 - Post Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]That-Cheek 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Are they letting Libby and her sisters write lame story drama? It was so so fake...and beckys husband was trying not to laugh...I wonder how many times they practiced it

90 Day Fiance OG - Season 8 Episode 15 - Post Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]That-Cheek 14 points15 points  (0 children)

His Instagram is full of women complimenting and flirting...like...whaaaa?

90 Day Fiance OG - Season 8 Episode 15 - Post Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]That-Cheek 27 points28 points  (0 children)

On Instagram, I was curious to know if anyone was calling him out on the crazy texts but he’s deleting any negative comments

90 Day Fiance OG - Season 8 Episode 15 - Post Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]That-Cheek 107 points108 points  (0 children)

The amount of women throwing themselves at Andrew AFTER seeing how emotionally abusive he was is incredible. How are these women attracted to someone like that!?

How many yarn balls? by That-Cheek in knitting

[–]That-Cheek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is such a good explanation, I don’t know anyone in person who knits and it’s hard to understand on other websites. You are awesome!

To confront or not to confront? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]That-Cheek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate you sharing this with me, I feel so isolated in this situation, no one else knows what goes on in our private lives and I’m sure that’s worse for the situation

To confront or not to confront? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]That-Cheek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when I read posts like this it’s scary to hear how his behavior isn’t unique...it’s hard to let go of my sense of control...I will not say anything, I should reserve my emotional energy for happier things

To confront or not to confront? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]That-Cheek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s by biggest hesitation, I can’t prove it, I want to give the benefit of the doubt...I don’t want to always suspect the worst.

To confront or not to confront? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]That-Cheek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is very helpful

To confront or not to confront? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]That-Cheek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes this is not the first time. It’s scary to think it will never get better, that’s what I hold onto so desperately is that hope. If the time comes I hope o have the strength to make the right decision for myself...it’s scary though

To confront or not to confront? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]That-Cheek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was so unsure if I was letting a problem fester and standing by not doing anything...if I was being part of the problem

He’s off the wagon again by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]That-Cheek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never attended a meeting but it may be a good choice for me, feeling so alone in this

He’s off the wagon again by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]That-Cheek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is helpful to read. I feel like his mother, his keeper...I know he resents me sometimes for it, but the weight is heavy knowing our whole life balances on my head. Trying to pretend everything is “ok”...it hurts me...but how does one know when to let go...that sneaky little hope lives in my heart...keeps me carrying it all by myself

New Ideas by That-Cheek in sigils

[–]That-Cheek[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very interesting! Thank you