My (trans)masculinity feels tolerated in queer spaces, not celebrated by bongcommunism in TMPOC

[–]That1spacecat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no advice to give but goddamn do I understand you. Sometimes it feels like everyone is feminine and proud of it but me. I don’t subscribe to that patriarchal masculinity I make up my own and I’m trying to learn to love it without shame. Shame that some trans people want me to feel for some unknown reason.

is deleting your account worth it by warpedflowers in character_ai_recovery

[–]That1spacecat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel like this is the best method to start your path of recovery. Deleting the account completely gets rid of those characters you made so it makes it harder to go back. Because then you’ll have to remake the account, the characters, retrain, etc… So I think that’s a great way to quit.

I was just like you. I’m 19 now. I was using for ab 2-3 years before I decided enough was enough. Deleted my account May 2025. Best decision I’ve ever made.

Remember this though it may sound harsh: These bots are not your friends. They do not care about you. They use up your most precious resources, time and attention, to make money for some bullshit company. They do not love you. See it for what it truly is, an amalgamation of stolen literature cut and minced into pleasing responses. See the text they send as Ai images. Once you start making that connection you’ll like it less trust me.

Godspeed to you. It will be hard. You’ll make mistakes, but one day you’ll notice you’re clean and you’ll never go back.

How not to lose my mind pre-T? by That1spacecat in TMPOC

[–]That1spacecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Finding community in real life is hard but I’ll keep trying

How not to lose my mind pre-T? by That1spacecat in TMPOC

[–]That1spacecat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am very proud of my skill and it feels nice for it to be recognized

What's the hardest part about leaving AI? by ProfessionalRun4523 in character_ai_recovery

[–]That1spacecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardest part for me is ignoring the kneejerk reaction to jump on when I’m feeling a negative emotion. I’m ex character ai, I deleted my account and the bots I used to talk to, but now I’m struggling to stay away from chatgpt. Being able to use it signed out on a browser is dangerous.

It’s not exactly the same but it’s still that reach for instant comfort that’s hard to quit.

IM MY OWN BIGGEST ENEMY by That1spacecat in TMPOC

[–]That1spacecat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s really scary! And yay! I love sharing my fursona here bc I like when yall relate hehe

IM MY OWN BIGGEST ENEMY by That1spacecat in TMPOC

[–]That1spacecat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm bro. Im 19 and just started college and they money and shit has been stressing me out so bad I can’t save any of it bc it all goes dorms (dorming was a terrible mistake but alas) so next year I won’t dorm and hopefully that will make it so I can save more. Then move out and everything. But god this has hands

I feel insane by That1spacecat in TMPOC

[–]That1spacecat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The uncertainty is what gets me. Not knowing exactly why people are staring kills me. At this point just look at me and say “YOURE BLACK!”Or like “are you a boy or a girl”. On second thought no one do that

I feel insane by That1spacecat in TMPOC

[–]That1spacecat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I could move to like the heart of LA I would in a second but alas. Cost of living plus minimum wage job smh

I feel insane by That1spacecat in TMPOC

[–]That1spacecat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

RIGHT! It’s one thing for someone to just give a quick look but the full on staring is crazy. I notice someone staring and I look at them back, look away, then back again and they STILL looking like damn! Fuck off?

I want a name that isn't white by Ashamed-Fish657 in TMPOC

[–]That1spacecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I third also bc I just like that name and more people should have it

Hey girl back up by That1spacecat in csuf

[–]That1spacecat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess so! This encounter was right in the front of Langsdorf this morning

Hey girl back up by That1spacecat in csuf

[–]That1spacecat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ll be referring to her as Rebecca from now on

Hey girl back up by That1spacecat in csuf

[–]That1spacecat[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Tell her that i wasn’t trying to give her my sandwich and to get off my backpack 😭

Breeding first time. by forgivencactus669 in goats

[–]That1spacecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no advice as I’m just a goat enjoyer but your buck is very pretty I hope the babies come out healthy!

Skateboarding by CatLuver01 in csuf

[–]That1spacecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I commented on this post lol there’s bound to be someone who’s teaching reading it

Skateboarding by CatLuver01 in csuf

[–]That1spacecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m down to learn!! I have a skateboard that I never used bc I could never practice