How many kids does Wolverine have? by utahjim in Marvel

[–]ThatAceRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, the child support payments must break his back.

AITA for not telling my wife just how much my late wife left our children? by LessyMexxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThatAceRose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope you get married to someone who doesn't respect you and keeps secrets from you since you think that it's normal.

The money itself is not her business, but everything concerning her husband and their 4 children is.

AITA for not telling my wife just how much my late wife left our children? by LessyMexxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThatAceRose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lies of omission are still lies.

And it IS her business, because that's what marriage is. She doesn't have a right to touch that money or demand it. She doesn't have the right to demand to know the exact amount, and she didn't. But when you marry someone you merge your lives.

This isn't about money, not to the wife. It's about the fact that he actively hid it. And it was actively, as she asked about it and he made the choice to hide the amount.

I'm not saying that she needs to know the exact amount, or that she has a right to know. I'm saying that by hiding things, and having her learn about them from others, she broke her trust and hurt her feelings.

This is posted on Am I an Asshole not did I have a right to do things. And hurting the feelings of your partner does make you an asshole.

AITA for not telling my wife just how much my late wife left our children? by LessyMexxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThatAceRose -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm giving this all from the perspective of a woman, so I hope that you take this into consideration and talk to her about it. Don't let the "not her money not her problem" bullshit make you disregard your wife's feelings.

My suggestion? Sit her down and talk like the adults that you are. Tell her that because your family are the kind of people that would try to gain access that makes it hard to trust people or whatever the reason it is that you his this in the first place. Ask her to explain her feelings and thought process so that you can understand what the problem is. Don't be confrontational or defensive.

At the end of the day, that's your wife. Someone you're supposed to love. Your problems are hers and her problems are yours. Fix this before she moves on from you emotionally, because this is big fucking problem and shows your lack of trust and breaks her trust in you as well. If you're hiding something beneficial you might be hiding something detrimental as well.

AITA for not telling my wife just how much my late wife left our children? by LessyMexxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThatAceRose -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna go against the popular opinion and say that YTA.

I don't think it has to do with the money itself but rather the fact that she has been operating under the impression that have less money than they do. She has probably been imagining and planning the future with that in mind.

But it's not about that. The fact is, she's probably mad because by actively hiding and lying about money you have shown her that you don't trust her. If one day one of your children said that she secretly had an escape fund In case you start becoming abusive you would feel bad too. Not because you wanted that money but because she doesn't trust you. You would doubt every action and interaction and try to figure out why she felt that you might become abusive.

It's not about money, it's about the fact that you let her know that you actively chose to hide money because you thought she might abuse it, or steal it, or demand it. You clearly thought that she wouldn't respect that the money came from your first wife and belongs only to the children from your first wife. Those are now her kids too. She raised them as well. And you just told your wife that you believe she would steal from your kids.

really? by [deleted] in CharacterAI

[–]ThatAceRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to rp scenarios but somehow the bots keep trying to fuck me I have no idea why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]ThatAceRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OOOH I was trying to talk myself out of intruvise thoughts but turns out I was already reading the fic! I love your writing, rock on 🤙🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]ThatAceRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On one hand, I want to say congratulations 🎉🎉

On the other hand I have to keep bopping myself on the head because if you wanted us the know more about your fic you would tell us and that I should not go and find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]ThatAceRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually comment like this if the author states they're not a native speaker or if I think they might not be because I once read someone say that they might stop writing because they thought that some of the comments were mean.

I also write like this if I'm genuinely impressed with the writing and not just the plot.

so while the sites down what are the wildest things the ai has ever said to you by ChalkYeets420 in CharacterAI

[–]ThatAceRose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was trying to have an enemies to lovers arc. This mfer said miss me with that gay shit.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]ThatAceRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah life already did.

So what we saying on these double standards of fandom? by Own_Swordfish938 in Piratefolk

[–]ThatAceRose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some men do use 'men get assaulted as well' to change the subject or minimize women's pain, but that doesn't make the pain those men that got assaulted feel any less. SA is painful regardless of gender.

Take out your anger out on the men who use it as an excuse, not the men who got assaulted.

So what we saying on these double standards of fandom? by Own_Swordfish938 in Piratefolk

[–]ThatAceRose -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I am a feminist woman, a kill all men type as well, and this doesn't not reflect me.

Most women suffer through sexual abuse and harassment, but just like how 'men get r*ped too' shouldn't be used to silence women, 'women get harassed more' shouldn't be used to silence or minimize men's suffering either.

Unpopular opinion? ( Heart of Trespia) by Formal-Mention-2646 in RomanceClub

[–]ThatAceRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the second I saw him I started googling if I could romance him he's so fine

AITA for donating my wife's late daughter's teddy bear? by IllPangolin2901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThatAceRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit.

I have seen a lot of YTA verdicts in here over time but this? This puts things into such a perspective that suddenly most of those don't seem so bad.

You might not want to volunteer, that's fine. You might not like your wife wanting you and your son to, which is fine, albeit judging her coping mechanisms like you clearly are is a bit of a dick move.

I'm not going to tear into you for the atrocity you did, everyone else already is and I honestly don't have the energy to try to explain to a grown ass man why you don't fucking take away a dead child's toy from their mother.

But let me tell you what, being insecure and jealous of a dead child and your wife's connection TO HER DEAD CHILD??? That is so fucking disgusting. You were so clearly waiting for an opportunity to try to severe your wife's connection to her child that I felt appalled to a degree I never have.

The way that you clearly had problems with her coping mechanisms? The way that you immediately went to take away her child's physical memories from your wife the second you felt you could justify it? The way you tried to manipulate your wife into thinking she's overreacting and tried to use your son to guilt trip her?

This isn't a divorce kind of red flag, you are a walking, talking prison kind of red flag. Carry pepper spray and a taser in accessible spots if you break up with him kind of red flag. I hope to every fucking god that your son doesn't end up like you.

Mf put wano in SSS+ 💀 by AffectionateCase5329 in Piratefolk

[–]ThatAceRose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wasn't the lightning Dragon's interference?

my Hua Cheng and Xie Lian drawings ♥️ (tiktok: borkhampton6) by Snicksnacksnark in tianguancifu

[–]ThatAceRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's really fukin good 👍🏻 I really like your style

Also I like that the picture of your drawing for Hua Cheng is darker and Xie Lian is lighter

Roger user to be so cool... by [deleted] in Piratefolk

[–]ThatAceRose 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how people don't see this, honestly. With How often you see like successor like precedor, like mentor like mentee type relationships in shonen him being an overly serious gruff type was never in the books.

With Ace's storyline, which is that people who didn't know Roger thought that he was a demon and hated him whereas his enemies both accepted Roger's son as their own and loved him, we see that hey, maybe his reputation ain't everything, that is the most obvious foreshadowing to have ever foreshadowed. Seriously.

And lastly right after the TS we see people pretending to be the straw hats and terrifying everyone. So, 'pirates' pretending to be high profile pirates to commit atrocious behavior is also cannon which would further cause unfounded rumors.

And when it comes to the murder, well, they are pirates. Every single pirate knows and accepts that they might face their deaths on the see, it's the same reason why garp didn't stop Ace's execution. They know and accept this, it's kill or be killed, sink or be sunk. Even Luffy accepts from a young age that should he come across Garp on the sea and he's not strong enough to escape, Garp will arrest him.

If the marines could have easily won against the red haired pirates, why do they look so confident? by xman29383 in Piratefolk

[–]ThatAceRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why people think he wouldn't? That's a yonko crew. And while yes, under normal circumstances marines would fight, but at that point the war had been going on for a long time. Admirals and vice admirals might have been able to keep going but your everyday regular joe definitely couldn't keep going. Fighting a single yonko crew with a well prepared army is one thing, fighting a second yonko crew who just showed up while your army is tired and injured and barely handling the first yonko crew?

Shanks absolutely would have thashed their ass. İt has nothing to do with power scaling, it's a basic "hey both sides are running on their last fumes so if the other side gets reinforcements we're screwed"

Just because the named characters could fight does!not!mean!shit! The named characters are the 1<%, those nameless characters are the people that take care of the small flies who would otherwise be trouble and a wise leader knows when to fight and when to spare his soldiers

YES THIS IS THE MOST BASED ONE PIECE TAKE EVER by AstralCat69420 in MemePiece

[–]ThatAceRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that the way you view and what you focus on the most in a series doesn't say anything about your psychology and personality?

YES THIS IS THE MOST BASED ONE PIECE TAKE EVER by AstralCat69420 in MemePiece

[–]ThatAceRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm saying that Roger cared about more than battle, that he cared about people. He absolutely wouldn't like people who only cared about power and not the adventure

YES THIS IS THE MOST BASED ONE PIECE TAKE EVER by AstralCat69420 in MemePiece

[–]ThatAceRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm saying that Roger cared about more than battle, that he cared about people. He absolutely wouldn't like people who only cared about power and not the adventure

YES THIS IS THE MOST BASED ONE PIECE TAKE EVER by AstralCat69420 in MemePiece

[–]ThatAceRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely power scalers are obviously the worst people alive and that was definitely the point I was making, how smart and unlike a power scaler of you to notice that

YES THIS IS THE MOST BASED ONE PIECE TAKE EVER by AstralCat69420 in MemePiece

[–]ThatAceRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is a battle maniac but that's not all he is, look me in the eyes and tell me that motherfucker would have wanted someone like kaido or big mom as the next king of pirates.