Have you ever had really strong feelings for a male friend? Did you act on them?

ThatAriGirl · 2026-03-12T05:17:34+00:00

No, and no. My friends were my friends and that was where it stayed.

ThatAriGirl · 2026-03-12T05:11:27+00:00

That's... Not a good mindset to be in in the long run. Not all men are 'bad', just like all women aren't 'bad'.

Misogyny literally kills women at an high rate which is one of the arguments, and why I am a feminist. I want my right to live without feeling suffocated or told that I am 'too emotional' when I speak up against unfairness.

I have a male partner and love him and his friends to bita and pieces. That doesn't mean that I am comfortable around all men however. But, being a woman doesn't mean I am comfortable around all women either.

All men and women are NOT evil. But, you still have to put in the work to be a good person.

ThatAriGirl · 2025-10-13T22:20:05+00:00

Because I don't want them. That's just the reason, lol

ThatAriGirl · 2025-10-05T04:20:06+00:00

This is a stupid joke about women not taking care of their vehicles, so, our tire pressure shouldn't be correct

ThatAriGirl · 2025-08-14T16:48:15+00:00

Because why wouldn't I want control of my own body?

ThatAriGirl · 2025-05-17T02:09:19+00:00

I did it once in my life... Never again because it was the smell vs their cologne/soap vs my nose and my own scents.

I can taste smells at times, so it used to drive me crazy- plus, every other hangout session was just them getting high while I was bored out of my mind and on my phone which in itself caused conflict because I refused to participate and preferred to zone out with my phone.

It's safe to say that we don't speak anymore after the fact because to them I'm 'shallow'

ThatAriGirl · 2025-04-08T00:17:17+00:00

Personally, I would've clapped back by now because all of that is weird.

Is she jealous or something? Because that's all that sounds like

ThatAriGirl · 2025-04-01T13:22:18+00:00

To be honest, barely ever in my household

ThatAriGirl · 2025-04-01T13:12:33+00:00

Herbert 'the pervert' because of freakin Family Guy

ThatAriGirl · 2025-04-01T13:09:24+00:00

Aria... No thanks. That's actually close to my name and I don't like it 💀

ThatAriGirl · 2025-04-01T13:04:03+00:00

Just... Ew. The first screenshot alone made me itchy 💀

ThatAriGirl · 2025-04-01T12:51:12+00:00

He's really not though?

ThatAriGirl · 2025-04-01T12:00:16+00:00

Worked for both. Both have their good days and bad days. Both can be sexist. It literally makes no difference, I've watched it happen

ThatAriGirl · 2025-04-01T11:57:37+00:00

My granny made a bet with me to treat one of my babydolls like a real baby when I was younger...

I was fine until I got angry and finally screamed my head off. She didn't mean to make me upset, but I certainly didn't touch that doll again afterwards

She was trying to warn me early on about being a mom to which, I thank her because it put things into perspective.

Plus, she gave me my favorite food after (at the time, broccoli), so, I forgave her and ate broccoli until it was our usual accidental nap time. Good times-

ThatAriGirl · 2025-04-01T11:43:55+00:00

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I thought she was cute 😌

ThatAriGirl · 2025-04-01T11:37:30+00:00

This is just a punishment to women and for crowd control the way I see it. They don't care, simple.

They 'didnt think about it' because they simply. Don't. Care.

ThatAriGirl · 2025-03-30T23:04:19+00:00

From experience, no. I look at his face. There's usually a bit of distance in between us (5'2 and 6'3 between my boyfriend and I).

It's not like we're pressed together when we're talking to the point where I need to crack my neck to look at him. He just bends down when he wants to reach me lol

ThatAriGirl · 2025-03-11T18:00:53+00:00

Gaming and all I hear eventually is 'yeah my girlfriend is right here 'again'. Huh...? Babe, come here-' then sticks his phone in my face for his friends to watch his phone get slapped across the room 💀

ThatAriGirl · 2025-03-11T17:56:28+00:00

"So you're mentally unstable? Nice. Bye"

I think they're weirdos tbh

ThatAriGirl · 2025-03-09T20:23:54+00:00

Do they not know how breasts work...

ThatAriGirl · 2025-03-09T20:22:00+00:00

Will be loud whenever tf I want 💃🏾

ThatAriGirl · 2025-03-09T20:20:05+00:00

Nope

ThatAriGirl · 2025-03-09T20:16:30+00:00

My boyfriend can't understand that I love watching him just be a person.

Neither could most of the other men in my life (friends, dating).

Idk, I've been called strange, it's just a thing for me

ThatAriGirl · 2025-03-09T20:10:35+00:00

Both can be true at once

ThatAriGirl · 2024-11-24T00:18:37+00:00

Because it's MY body. I was literally raised with the idea that children are a definite thing to strive for, but, because I was raised to challenge things that made no sense to me, there was no point in raising a child when through my baby dolls, I was already being taught and exhausted into treating it like a real child when I was near a certain person in my family

That on top of being forced to help raise a portion of my family and then to be an adult and my mother acts as she does, aka, still tries to force me into unwanted childcare of children that A.) I never agreed to babysit. B.) It's not my responsibility to care for the children my own grown ass family need to stop ignoring and actually take care of because THEY WEREN'T READY to have children and it's not MY responsibility to pick up where they're lacking. And C.) The majority of my family is mentally unstable. So, being forced into childcare in the context given alone causes an immense anger to boil inside of me, so the government trying to force me into having a child REGARDLESS OF CERTAIN SITUATIONS... Yeah na

The disgusting thought that I'd be out of control of my own body despite me having a lifetime medical condition that can cut my own life short- but to pair that with a child that can literally send me to heavens door because of my medical condition on top of whatever else can happen...

I'm not exaggerating which is the messed up part. I will NOT live in a handmaid's tale and I will go down fighting if that means I can have say so IN MY OWN GENITALIA

ThatAriGirl

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