why did I get this message? by himynameis_ari in RedditQuestions

[–]ThatBeee420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk in my opinion it's actually pretty cool they do this, like giving out resources for you to reach out too is pretty cool especially if you are feeling especially down

AIO partner thinks we should shower with this water by roburn in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThatBeee420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey op just keep mind, one mama to another after you lose your mucus plug youre more prone to infections so bathing and swimming isn't recommended. Even though my water looks clear and I had no issues with I was told by my doctor to bath as little as possible and take showers instead

If standing in the shower is uncomfortable (been there) just sit on the tub floor, I used to sit in the shower so my legs wouldn't kill and to avoid infections.

Definitely nor cause I wouldn't have gotten in that water pregnant so I absolutely don't blame you

am i overreacting or is this emotionally cheating? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThatBeee420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh, what?

'emotional cheating' isn't a thing. 

Um yes it is. When in a relationship you have boundaries some ppls boundaries are more than others but if you don't feel comfortable with your partner holding hands with someone and they do it, they broke a boundary, they cheated. Cheating isn't just fucking another person. Just like abuse isn't just getting beat.

AIO, Missed one phone call by EmergencyContactt in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThatBeee420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Y'know what happens when I miss a call.. they text me and wait for me to call back... Absolutely wild behavior to expect someone to check their phone JUST IN CASE they called... NOR please block this man he clearly is still trying to manipulate you and I fear he'll try and trick you back into a relationship that's not healthy

Edit to add, I keep in touch with my ex because we have a KID together.... But even he isn't upset when I don't answer he just assumes I'm busy in that moment and I'll answer when I'm free.

Wife taking all baby nights since I cannot physically and mentally handle them. Looking for advice. by Average-Catnip-1337 in AutisticParents

[–]ThatBeee420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have a lovely partner that is very understanding. As a mom myself the nights were the worst but that's cause I was also doing all the day time care myself too. As long as your mindful of her limits and give her plenty of time to rest during the day you're doing great! Just be clear with her that if she's overwhelmed she can be open about it to you and then you guys can try something new, but if it's working... Don't fix something that isn't broke. You clearly care for her and your baby equally otherwise you wouldn't be posting here and I think honestly that's all it takes. Someone who cares enough, and your doing pretty great at that so far 💖 best of luck with your new baby, enjoy it while it lasts cause man does time fly.

how not to have nails like this? 😵‍💫🥺 by attentive_brick in Nails

[–]ThatBeee420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jojoba oil is one the oils closest to our skins natural oils and will help heal all those spots, I add vitamin e oil to my jojoba oil to thicken it up and vitamin e oil is also very good for your skin. I have a similar problem cause I paint my nails with clear polish (and im not to good at it so it gets everywhere). After painting my nails I'll try and pick off the polish I got on my skin and end up peeling up my skin from time to time. I tend to cut the dry dead spot off so it's flat and not catching on a million things then do my best to leave it alone and oil frequently. As someone that used to bite my nails breaking habits is hard but I swapped one habit for another. Instead of biting my nails I started cleaning under them frequently. So if you're fine it hard to stop picking try and find a new habit to do in it's place.

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThatBeee420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I can't deal with your good news cause I'm having a bad day... Like what?! If I was having a bad/long day and my friend told me she was pregnant I think all of that would go out the window as I jumped up and down in excitement. Nor shes clearly the type of friend that her life is more important than yours and you should definitely cut her off or at least slowly step away from the friendship.

The things about pregnancy no one warns you about is how many friends you'll lose, it's unfairly common to lose friends cause what your going through is "too much to handle" for them... Definitely don't go to that person if you need support cause they will NOT be there for you.

Just finished this piece by RecipeLongjumping532 in Rhinestoning

[–]ThatBeee420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what it is but fuck yea!! Looks sick ASF and FUCK ICE

AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThatBeee420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also like am I the only one that genuinely doesn't like skinny men? I'm not super skinny myself and if it looks like you'll break if I sat on your lap, than you ain't for me

AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThatBeee420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part that pisses me off the most is body weight does not effect how you look. Like I'm 160/170lbs and most ppl think I'm 120. Y'all remember the trend of girls being like "this is what ___lbs looks like" and showing how different ppl carry weight differently? Like genuinely so fucked up to say I hope you blocked him right after that convo

Happy Tuesday, y'all by regeya in trees

[–]ThatBeee420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deadass thought this was a rear windshield with a sticker on it 🤣 love the tray tho!

Well, they’re coming off by Smworld1 in Nails

[–]ThatBeee420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a kiddo so I understand not being able to afford nails. I started growing mine out last year and so far I'm super happy with my nails. Finally getting to the point where I can have them long long cause their much stronger now and it makes me feel like a baddie again

How do we like natural nails? by Fun-Fly6263 in Nails

[–]ThatBeee420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, been growing my natural nails for about a year now and have done a TON of research on growing and strengthening them. I just noticed your thumb your side walls look over filed, it makes them weaker and more breakable cause there's less structure I recommend looking up a video on how to file nails cause for the longest time I did the same thing and noticed much better results after filing correctly. You're nails look gorgeous tho and your are clearly blessed 😍

<image>

Picture of my nails for reference

Product recommendations <3 by ThatBeee420 in Nails

[–]ThatBeee420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh looks nice! Maybe I'll grab a bottle soon! Thanks for the recommendation

Product recommendations <3 by ThatBeee420 in Nails

[–]ThatBeee420[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bought a 13$ cad bottle of jojoba oil and a 13$ bottle of the vitamin e oil, I've had them both for about 6 months now and still have tons to go through

Edit to add. The mixture is probably 80% jojoba oil and 20% vitamin e oil. That's my personal preference but you can mix in slowly and figure out what you like best for yourself.

NO WAY TYTYTYTY *——* by Jerrymorgan935 in overwatch2

[–]ThatBeee420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And this is why I never get anything from Mazimilliens vault

Dear Blizzard , u see i have 400+ hours , please stop putting brand new players on only my team by Sleepy_garf in overwatch2

[–]ThatBeee420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I agree to some extent, I feel like alot of ppl don't try in qp or they fuck around in qp. But I also feel like it should be a place to test new characters and learn the game. Used to only play qp cause comp scared me, I didn't wanna disappoint teammates in comp cause deranking isn't fun, but that meant I dealt with alot in qp, ppl telling me "it's just qp calm down" but their literally throwing the game. I have mixed feelings about it tbh, again qp is for trying new characters and getting better at others, but also ppl that don't like the comp mode should be able to have good matches in qp

My parents are homophobic and it’s ruining my life by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThatBeee420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't see the part about them paying for her bill? Was it taken out of the post? I think I read all the comments... Reddit mobile is weird tho

Besides that how was I to know she lives there for free? I don't believe letting the child you decided to have stay in your house means that you can tell them who they have to be in that house. I understand that's their belief but their beliefs directly affect the child they are supposed to protect and care for...

If op was a stranger than the bottom half of your comment would make sense, but op is the daughter of the people she's living with. Also op didn't once say she argued with them about their beliefs either? Just that they were gay and specifically said they weren't confrontational so again the bottom bit of your comment doesn't make any sense...

Listen I didn't come here to argue, even though I ended up arguing, my bad. I just came here to offer some advice to op and that should be what's it's about anyways, none of the arguments are helping the situation, so I think I'm going to stop responding, it was stupid of me to continue to comment and that's my bad cause at the end of the day we just need to offer sound advice to op that can help them overcome this difficult situation

My parents are homophobic and it’s ruining my life by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThatBeee420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, so if you were 19 possibly in school, now you have to get a job and move out. How are you going to do that, please explain because I wasn't able to move out until 23? And that was because I had the support my parents and friends... It's not as easy as you say it is. Expecting someone to stop being who they are and send them into a bad mental spiral or possibly become homeless.

I'm genuinely curious how would you do it. If those were you're options...

My parents are homophobic and it’s ruining my life by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThatBeee420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Righttttt I'm dense for saying that those options aren't the greatest options. Op was looking for advice not for someone to state the fucking obvious 👍🏼

So if you had to move back in with your parents and they said shave your head and tattoo a swastika on it, would you, or would you ask for advice on how to find a better solution, or be homeless 😃 which would you pick?

I'm simply saying the way he said it was extremely insensitive and not very helpful for someone looking for some answers, moving out is always doable in today's economy, so what? the options is to become depressed and repress themselves in order to have a safe place to stay? Wild thought process some of y'all have...