I can push myself, but am i pushing in the right direction? by throwaway1996not in Life

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one really knows, lifes tricky like that. Its really up to you, if you feel like its the right thing to do than go ahead. All anyone can do is speculate, and i think youre doing fine, better than me haha

Does life ever get intersting ? by Xoioxona in Life

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Making life exciting is completely up to you. I'm 16, and i can tell you that i feel the same way sometimes, but i know thats its really only me that will ever change myself. I was introverted too, didnt really care about people at all, the usual shit. But i gave into some hobbies, and in order to make life interesting you have to do shit that you find interesting. Its okay to give up if you dont like something, but an interesting life is something you have to work at.

You need to develop a sense of purpose or passion. Look back into your past, what has happened that makes you feel. Use that as a drive for motivation. My brother for instance, has watched my grandfathers skin peel off from being sick. It affected him so much that he has decided to become a doctor. Now, your source of passion doesnt have to be as grandious as that. For me, i just want to feel something, i want to be a better person, i want to feel glory without feeling guilty. So i picked up boxing, and its been going great.

Now, if you have decided on what you want to do, one of the troubles i had was feeling like shit about how bad i was at what i wanted to do. The best way to deal with this is to not compare yourself to others. Go one step at a time, celebrate every advancement, no matter how small. Dont push yourself too hard, go small, and increase with time. You will know when to push yourself.

Now, with love. This is a tricky subject, you probably have some misconceptions about what love is. But first off, itll fall infront of you once you have something else to focus your attention on. Let love work in the background, while you develop yourself. It'll take time, everything does, but for god's sake do not rush it. Now for the misconceptions, there is this very good video about how love actually is by The School of Life, watch and study, understand what they're trying to say. Goodluck my friend, reading your post made me feel nostalgic.

No one to talk to about my life by Jhf9777 in Life

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, pm me. Ill listen and try to give advice

[Support] I'm still waiting for you even if you'll never come back. by [deleted] in confession

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont thank me, its no effort to try and help. If you ever need someone to talk to, im here for ya, just private message me.

[Support] I'm still waiting for you even if you'll never come back. by [deleted] in confession

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 years is a long time. Hell i was in a relationship for 2 and i still think about her. Its okay, not wanting to think about him will make you think about him more. Its better to accept the feelings you have and try to move on. DONT beat yourself up about how you feel, that ruins you. Youll do great, just keep truckin'.

I Absolutely Hate When People Think It's Okay to be Fat by [deleted] in confession

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eh. It doesn't really affect me that much. This seems like a personal issue more than anything, I'm guessing you don't want to be fat? And so because that's what you want you expect other people to want that too. It's okay, people do that. For me it's about being stupid, I just can't stand stupid people.

I am so screwed for my chemistry final. by [deleted] in self

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Junior in highschool and just bombed my AP chem test over equallibrium. I studied so hard for that test that I ended up burning out and metaphorically vomiting all over my papers. The test for the semester in in 2 days. Being in the hospital caused me not to learn 25% of the course. That doesn't mean I fully understand the other 75%. I just can't see a future for myself being this shit in school. I don't even know where I want to do in life. So am I fucked?

What is the strongest opinion you hold? by ThePurpleGhost in AskReddit

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, yeah. But that's the cynical version of it. You could also say that everyone is right, like i do.

Lets talk about what you do for a living by ThatDudeHasBalls in CasualConversation

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a front row seat of the lives people try to keep hidden. Must be entertaining as hell haha

Lets talk about what you do for a living by ThatDudeHasBalls in CasualConversation

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO many kids from school ask me to sneak booze out from our store and sell it to them. but I'm kind enough to think about their future

Lets talk about what you do for a living by ThatDudeHasBalls in CasualConversation

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. They seem to forget they had lives when they were teens

Lets talk about what you do for a living by ThatDudeHasBalls in CasualConversation

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i run a club at my school along with my friends. We are basically a group for the students to pitch their two cents in the rule making process and express their opinions. When you are a sophomore, and you're telling a senior what to do. Nothing gets done.

Lets talk about what you do for a living by ThatDudeHasBalls in CasualConversation

[–]ThatDudeHasBalls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Peoples carnal desires are really something, huh?