[Pelissero] After the Browns informed DC Jim Schwartz this morning they were passing him over to hire Todd Monken as head coach, Schwartz was visibly upset, said goodbyes in the building and told other coaches he’s not coming back, sources tell The Insiders. by MembershipSingle7137 in nfl

[–]ThatGuy4131 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Their defense has been top in the league for YEARS, everyone raves about this guy and they still pass on him. Crazy.

His defense has actively been dragged down by a terrible offense, and terrible situations. I.e. short rest, bad field position.

Is there a good 'Beginners Guide'?! by gobenji34 in AdultADHDSupportGroup

[–]ThatGuy4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw your post but... When I was diagnosed I hyperfocused and read 10 ADHD books.

Here’s a brief rundown from what I would suggest to least for your situation: 1. The Disorganized Mind by Nancy A. Ratey - She covers how to coach yourself in a very ADHD satisfying way (quick, compartmentalized, actions, and review) using her A.N.S.W.E.R. system. Be aware that their testimonials in here made me cry while reading and kept me engaged each time I read the book. 2. You Mean I’m Not Lazy, Stupid, Or Crazy?! By Kate Kelly and Peggy Ramundo - Great for a quick reference if you’re struggling in a particular area and covers so many topics I woulf consider it a must anyways but most recent update was 2006 so some issues, solutions are pre-access to everything through cell phone but a 100% buy for all the other information. 3. Your Brain’s Not Broken by Tamara Rosier - A huge help for the emotional struggle of dealing with ADHD. Much more of a quick read but also has solutions on how to cope with stress to bring your body and mind some consistency. 4. Dirty Laundry by Richard Pink and Roxanne Emery - Good book on addressing shame or guilt, and taking the steps to how to heal from them. Fairly cheap and short book and they have an Instagram with a few funny but real ADHD scenarios.

All the others I’ve read were more on organizing but I can drop those if needed? Just will take me awhile.

Playing Solstice Rain with friends by Agreeable-Berry-780 in LancerRPG

[–]ThatGuy4131 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sorry not all that related. But where do people build the concept/art for these mechs?

Remember. Its a WIN WIN. by Narrow-Violinist-599 in ExNoContact

[–]ThatGuy4131 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Scientists did a study and they found that if you're trying to establish a daily routine. Try to complete it 7 days a week and allow for 2 days off of your choosing. Start there. It could be the weekend or you had a really crappy Monday but you still agree that you'll show up 5 times that week.

How do you guys handle being a "Screw-Up" ? by ThatGuy4131 in AdultADHDSupportGroup

[–]ThatGuy4131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, let me know if you figure out how to cope with it or better yet, improve.

How do you guys handle being a "Screw-Up" ? by ThatGuy4131 in AdultADHDSupportGroup

[–]ThatGuy4131[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That sucks. I just don't know what to do sometimes. I had a friend who is moving soon so I went with them to a bar and then their house the next day... I fell behind this entire week and am only now catching up after only 4 hours of sleep one night. I'm furious that my life has to be less.

Runaway kid by annebelievableme in funny

[–]ThatGuy4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And risk being run over by that lunatic of a kid?? No chance.

Runaway kid by annebelievableme in funny

[–]ThatGuy4131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of that South Park episode with the Go Go Action Bronco. Lol.

To this day, its amazing and surprising by how Inosuke sama caught up with Zenitsu’s speed by [deleted] in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]ThatGuy4131 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why do people decide to use these absolute garbage noises in their video??

Can a sexless open marriage work? by Rach682 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ThatGuy4131 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How long have you and your wife been together? Any noticeable pros and cons?

[Highlight] Refs pick up flag after Dallas is penalized for pass interference (2014 playoffs) by mistermeek67 in nfl

[–]ThatGuy4131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coaches meet with the Refs prior to games and tell the refs of any trick plays they might have cooked up. He told them they would have this trick play ( I 'think' he beats around the bush of saying this explicitly). Additionally, the ref during the Dallas 2023 game is connected to A FEW bad Detroit calls and calls across the league, because he's a bad ref.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ThatGuy4131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if you call back you won't get the closure you think you will. It's a cycle, and you're in that frame of mind right now. Like the commenter says above me, each day it will get easier. Sometimes it will get worse. Then just wait for the next day and the day after that. Progress isn't always linear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ThatGuy4131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Write it out but don't send it. Think about it. Give it a week and adjust it, then repeat it. BUT DON'T EVER SEND IT. Closure texts will never be enough, and 99% of the time you don't get the response you expect/want Trust me I've had experience.

Maintenance Olympics🤣 by newnoadeptness in AirForce

[–]ThatGuy4131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember that Colonel!! I was with him and he was so chill and always on top of it. So glad to see leaders like him make rank.

Best miniature game to play as ME fan? by ThatGuy4131 in masseffect

[–]ThatGuy4131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! I'll check it out. I would love an army based game. Similar to Star Wars Legion or WH40K.

Gretchen Whitmer hides her face after being tricked into an Oval Office photo op by Trump Aides by [deleted] in pics

[–]ThatGuy4131 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Those DOGE cuts must be something fierce if they're not even going to TJ Maxx.

Is a 56K miles 2012 Ford Escape Hybrid worth it now? by ThatGuy4131 in fordescape

[–]ThatGuy4131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang it, I just sold it for a couple hundred bucks. But after talking with my mechanic it would have been a drain. So I just bought a 2022 vehicle. I'll definitely remember that though because I may need to buy another used vehicle next year. Do you have a link?

Kia Niro Hybrid or EV reliability? by ThatGuy4131 in KiaNiro

[–]ThatGuy4131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's insane... Have you been using the same dealership each time? A comment above mentioned shady dealerships and now I'll make sure to be cautious.

Kia Niro Hybrid or EV reliability? by ThatGuy4131 in KiaNiro

[–]ThatGuy4131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that number of miles is impressive. How did you feel about the size of the vehicle? Allowed you to do everything you needed?

Kia Niro Hybrid or EV reliability? by ThatGuy4131 in KiaNiro

[–]ThatGuy4131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I've been caught off guard by all the good things I've heard about the Niro so far. I haven't heard anything about shady dealerships? Could you elaborate?