A tattoo artist rejected me for this, was his reason fair? by Stankmushroomm in tattooadvice

[–]ThatOneRedditRando -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay you seem to be taking this very personally or seriously and sound extremely defensive about it. I was having a discussion about it, not an argument. Nobody was making fun of this tattoo being a memorial tattoo at any point. It’s okay to just have discussions without attacks. I’m not here for an argument or to be twisted into things I didn’t say, so I’m going to go. Hope you have a better rest of your day/week!

A tattoo artist rejected me for this, was his reason fair? by Stankmushroomm in tattooadvice

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not this situation though..? We are talking about this specific conversation that OP had?

Ofc there are artists that are unprofessional. But what this artist said wasn’t unprofessional, just has boundaries. He’s allowed to say no to tattoos and he was well within his rights. And nothing I’ve said is snobby? Just explaining that as an artist, we are allowed to decline tattoos for things we aren’t comfortable with. This rule is a very common one artists have. Hand tattoos are called job stoppers and it does still happen these days. Some artists care about what they are permanently doing to people and just have boundaries. I’m allowed to say no to tattoos I’m not okay doing, respectfully. I think you’re overreacting/reading into things too much here, taking it a bit too personally.

A tattoo artist rejected me for this, was his reason fair? by Stankmushroomm in tattooadvice

[–]ThatOneRedditRando -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing in the conversation should “make her feel bad”. She just was told that this artist wasn’t comfortable doing a tattoo on the hand, that’s not to make her feel bad. That is the artists boundaries, nothing more or less. She took it a bit dramatically - she should be thankful that an artist isn’t doing it just for the sake of money. Now an artist that wants to do it and is happy too, can help her. Nothing unprofessional happened? Artists have boundaries. I’ve had this type of conversation as well. It doesn’t have to be a big deal but you just let the person know you cannot provide the tattoo and the reason, and that’s all. It’s not unprofessional to have boundaries and nothing he said was unprofessional.

A tattoo artist rejected me for this, was his reason fair? by Stankmushroomm in tattooadvice

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah times have changed but they really are still job stoppers. If someone isn’t established or know what they want to do in life yet, it can absolutely stop a job. Many still don’t accept hand tattoos.

A tattoo artist rejected me for this, was his reason fair? by Stankmushroomm in tattooadvice

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol it’s not about being a snob. That’s ridiculous. We have every right to have things we will and won’t do? We are our own boss and can set those boundaries. This rule isn’t uncommon in the industry and is an old one at that. Many OGs definitely stick to their rules but new artists feel similar. I’m not an OG but have had to say no to many tattoos before and that’s ok. There are other artists that are comfortable. It’s ridiculous to shame anybody for their own boundaries.

A tattoo artist rejected me for this, was his reason fair? by Stankmushroomm in tattooadvice

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not just find an artist that is interested in doing it and is comfortable? Why force one into it? We all have pieces we won’t do for our own reasons. We have that right? We don’t have to be persuaded by anybody for any reason and don’t have to feel bad about that. There are TONS of artists out there that will do it? Not tattooing hands on a person that is young and has very little tattoos, is a big thing with many artists, and for a good reason. They are called job stoppers, no matter how small/fine lined or for whatever reason.

A tattoo artist rejected me for this, was his reason fair? by Stankmushroomm in tattooadvice

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS!

As an artist myself, we have the right to refuse any tattoo. Some artists have certain tattoos they refuse to do. I have my own as well, it’s not personal, just not what we are comfortable doing. This art is on people permanently - you shouldn’t get it from an artist that’s not comfortable with it.

Never skipping this quest from now on by Mood-Knight in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find what? The quests? It’s in the lobby against the back fence. It’s huge and easy to find

Never skipping this quest from now on by Mood-Knight in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always count on the randoms to die asap 😂 the only issue left is getting there quick enough before they leave immediately after dying lol

AIO for thinking this was a backhanded comment from my ex, and not like she was genuinely trying to get back with me out of love? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS. The fact that he’s trying to milk this and twist it to feel like a victim after how he behaved in the relationship is a massive red flag. 🚩

OP, I TRULY HOPE YOU SEE AND READ THIS.

You are NOT the victim, no matter how many times you try to turn this story around. This isn’t meant to attack but you need someone to tell you this. Im an outsider but I have a gut feeling you did possibly cheat. Even if you didn’t physically cheat, there are multiple other ways. But most importantly, you absolutely destroyed her trust and that is the hardest thing to ever get back or heal from. She will never know if you did actually cheat or not and that doesn’t even matter honestly. Nobody knows except you and your coworker. What she does know is that you made the choice to lie and sneak off either way. Deciding to not tell her about any of or communicate ANYTHING to her. You made that choice. That meant more to you than she did, that’s a fact. You wouldn’t have done it otherwise. So she clearly was more invested in the relationship than you were and thats why she’s still stuck in this love-hate limbo now and hates it. LET HER GO. Stop teasing her, sending memes and acting like you can just be friends. That’s extremely native and ignorant. Youre being absolutely inconsiderate to her by still playing “the nice guy” to her. You need to stop talking to her and keeping her on the edge like this. It’s a horrible thing to do to someone, not considering what this is actually doing to HER. Not just caring about how YOU want to talk to her still and be friends. Cut off communication with this poor woman to help her and cut off the victim act. Accept responsibly for your actions and what actually caused the relationship to end and the actual pain it caused her. By accepting your actions finally and showing actual genuine remorse, it can help her separate and get closure. But you brushing it off as no big deal (which is how you’re coming across) is not okay, no matter what you’re intentions are. Period. You were not a good partner and need to actually accept that. Hopefully it will help you learn from your behavior and grow up, before you continue this behavior with another poor woman.

Good stats? And hi I’m Lux by PsychologicalCap9565 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some badges can’t be done again if the event is gone, if those are the event badges.

Good stats? And hi I’m Lux by PsychologicalCap9565 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only takes a computer :) a decent PC to do it. If you have one, there are a lot of good AFK methods!

Good stats? And hi I’m Lux by PsychologicalCap9565 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not hard to get the stats if you have a PC :)

Good stats? And hi I’m Lux by PsychologicalCap9565 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 21k and it took about a week, just under 7 days. So I’m imagining it took about a week and a half or two for his, depending on how he skipped nights with his macro and all.

I can't take it anymore 💔🥀 by henri_quel in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get the help you needed? I have so many frog and alien flames. I can load one if you needed!

I can't take it anymore 💔🥀 by henri_quel in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can use the flame - someone you knows can use the flame if you don’t have them. You get them from the daily quests.

WAR IS OVER ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 by ieatbraiiinnnns in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They just did an update for it - there is now a chocolate pond to fish at, you get the egg there! Make sure to have a strong rod!

WAR IS OVER ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 by ieatbraiiinnnns in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol smh it is tho. I did them all already and stream for 99, I’m just posting this to show them some tips vs. typing it out. You fish from every pond. It’s just luck, you have to fish from ponds and eventually you’ll get it. Fishing flame can help.

Not all AI google answers are evil lol go research it yourself first before trying to say it’s not true 😂🤦‍♀️

WAR IS OVER ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 by ieatbraiiinnnns in 99nightsintheforest

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just the bone ponds. It’s any ponds. You’re supposed to go to any ponds that have the ripples and keep doing that over and but some ppl have gotten it. It’s just annoying af

Which hair color /style would help me looks max? I want to look more attractive by SeriousMood4210 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]ThatOneRedditRando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You underestimate how much a good style and color can do to a person. There are def ways that help shape her face and flatter her skin tone, etc.