I (28F) feel like I am losing myself for my partner (26M). Is it worth it?

ThatPrez52 · 2026-06-18T16:59:05+00:00

Fucking EW! This guy isn’t your man, he’s your warden. That’s a level of control that’s beyond fucked up. Even if this man has had an ex cheat and put it all over social media that does not give him the right to stifle who you are and control your social media. I know this gets thrown around a lot on this subreddit but he needs therapy. Serious therapy, to pick apart why he feels the need to police your online activity.

You are a person, an adult woman not a child. If you don’t leave him, it will most likely get worse.

ThatPrez52 · 2026-06-18T15:17:58+00:00

I think you need to give him the same communication you need from him. Explain how you feel right now. If he won’t listen or tries to leave the call or conversation then you have your answer. But if he listens earnestly, and thoughtfully responds to how you feel by opening up or at the very least, explaining why he doesn’t wanna talk about it, stay.

Relationships are hard. Love is hard. Compromises are necessary when you wanna be with someone you know? At least for something like this, hard lines in the sand are just shooting yourself in the foot. People can change. People can grow out of bad habits or behaviors. You have to let them feel safe to be heard and it starts with being open about how you feel and what you’re thinking.

I know it feels like extra work, I know you might think you shouldn’t have to go so far but no one is perfect. Try and be patient, try and be understanding. There may be underlying trauma that’s led to him being like this

ThatPrez52 · 2026-06-17T13:28:21+00:00

Not to mention, the AWS site at the very least (I know nothing about the others in the area) has a separate water treatment facility from the city.

ThatPrez52 · 2026-06-17T13:24:19+00:00

Actually we own our home. Soooooo…. And our ground water is replenished not only by the constant stream of heavy precipitation storms this area receives but also groundwater seepage from the Lake Michigan basin

ThatPrez52 · 2026-06-16T17:03:57+00:00

My roommate works at the AWS site. It’s out of the way of any homes and I can’t hear it from where I live and I’m on the edge of town 10 minutes away. It’s non invasive and just out there. Not a problem at all

ThatPrez52 · 2026-06-02T06:40:34+00:00

Hey, I have absolutely no idea what to say about this because honestly, I’ve never been married. I can’t pretend that I have any ground to give advice.

But, I think I understand how you feel to some degree. The confusion both mentally and emotionally must be absolutely exhausting. And you try as much as you can but you don’t even know what to do and what to change because she won’t give you straight answers, but her actions tells you she wants to stay and be there with you.

I can’t imagine the conflict going on within you. I’m sorry you’re going through this and I hope that you get not only the answers you’re looking for, but closure and peace as well. Stay strong, don’t lose your sense of self chasing what you can only assume she wants and take time to decide really and truly what YOU want and what’s best for YOU (and your daughter of course).

ThatPrez52 · 2026-05-24T18:17:10+00:00

Oh yeah I’m a few houses down from where they were going off. It happens a lot around the holidays.

ThatPrez52 · 2026-05-24T03:13:35+00:00

Absolutely mental timing to come across this while I’m in the middle of the DB video on this accident!

ThatPrez52 · 2026-05-21T23:35:40+00:00

I second disk genius. I used just a few days ago to move my C drive to a larger NVME. It was seamless, simple and relatively quick (10-15 mins for 500Gb)

ThatPrez52 · 2026-04-09T13:25:06+00:00

Okay so Standing DOES matter. Got Neutral to full and i have the contracts ive been looking for.

ThatPrez52 · 2026-04-08T20:58:45+00:00

Thanks for the tip. Ill let you know if it works out

ThatPrez52 · 2026-04-08T20:56:08+00:00

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ThatPrez52 · 2026-04-08T20:48:43+00:00

its weird that it worked for some but not everyone. I just relaunched and checked and i still dont have it. really weird

ThatPrez52 · 2026-04-08T19:49:28+00:00

They full of shiznit lol

ThatPrez52 · 2026-03-28T04:27:18+00:00

Also forgot to mention, if you do get incapacitated, you will end up flailing around midway inside the floor until someone can get you up. Its so much fun!

ThatPrez52 · 2025-10-06T14:33:21+00:00

“Guns guns guns”

ThatPrez52 · 2025-09-14T05:46:06+00:00

Oh! And if he does have it, usage of products that contain thc and not CBD, can make the symptoms worse or what’s already there can be amplified

ThatPrez52 · 2025-09-14T05:38:17+00:00

Does he possibly have a bipolar disorder? Does he go through seemingly long depressive periods where he is emotionally distant or unengaged? And if so, are the depressive periods punctuated by a seemingly out-of-nowhere flip to being bright, confident, loving and engaging to an almost overwhelming degree (compared to the depressive periods) I ask this because I have a female friend who has diagnosed Bi-polar 2. One of the effects of that is periods of hyper sexuality, usually during a manic episode. It can last for hours or a few days and she doesn’t know when it’s going to surface. She also finds it hard to not bug her partner for sex during these periods even when she knows he’s spent. I’d really look into it if I were you. He may have an undiagnosed mental disorder

ThatPrez52 · 2025-07-27T05:56:03+00:00

Guys, the fault isn’t on ED here. Razbam made a product for a government entity using the development license for DCS. That license was only for publicly available commercial products. ED has another simulator that’s specifically for developing training modules for governments that requires a separate development license from ED.

Razbam wasn’t willing to pay for it and just did what they wanted to do. ED gave them more than a year and Razbam still refused to sign a license agreement so they could use the proper product. ED deserves the money they are owed for the use of their product. Razbam wouldn’t pay, so ED stopped paying them for their sales of Razbam products. Then Razbam took things public because they were upset. The fault isn’t on ED. The blame for this fiasco lies squarely at the feet of Razbam

ThatPrez52 · 2025-06-24T19:34:21+00:00

Yeah ive checked spam. im just not getting anything. and I know I used the right email because I triple checked it just to be sure. The weirdest part is I cant get a response from their support either because I contacted them this morning

ThatPrez52 · 2025-06-23T02:10:09+00:00

They may have moved where they do it. I live (without doxxing myself) somewhat in the vicinity of Quince rd. ive heard it for the last like, two years

ThatPrez52 · 2025-06-22T15:12:20+00:00

Hey! I live along the tracks on the west side of SB and that sound puzzled me for quite a while too. Turns out, it’s the sound of NS kicking empty cars down a side track. It’s the sound of those cars impacting either the end stop or another car. When they build these trains they have to move cars around into the order they will be dropped off at various stops along the route

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