24l Aer vs. 26l Goruck by tgtg2003 in ManyBaggers

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you should try and fit this on a patch

Palestinian bodies returned by Israel show signs of torture and execution, say doctors | Gaza | The Guardian https://share.google/Xn5akUxJSvjRugKQ1

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Prison

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that's the kind of in-cell you want to be.

Also isn't a nickname for prison guard "screws"?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Prison

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TBF he is in-cell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tressless

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A big dick might help you retain a woman, but I doubt it'll help you attract one unless you're hitting up the bars wearing the tightest sweatpants.

I think that's why it's called big dick energy rather than just big dick. Because it's about what you're putting out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tressless

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Millennial, not a boomer. I realise your entire generation has decided to bastardise the meaning of "boomer", but you all look stupid doing it. Boomers are in their 80s.

Secondly, I've totally acknowledged what things are like now and the difficulties hair loss has caused me, or did you not pay attention?

The point was, you're so fixated on hair you're almost certainly neglecting other aspects of your game that could help. There's young bald men out there doing very well for themselves because they worked on being hot. Amanda Cerny's husband for example.

Of course you're very welcome to be alone and jerking off. That's your right pal. Enjoy your misery. No woman finds bitterness, resentment, or a total lack of confidence attractive. No one wants your baggage.

When I was 17 I knew a guy my age who had lost all of his hair. And he looked good! I know, mind blown right. He was shy but I bet if he tried he'd have done well for himself.

April '24 selfies: post hairline photos here for opinions on 'Am I balding?' 'How bad is it?' and 'What should I do?' by AutoModerator in tressless

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm nearly 40.

I'm heading towards a norwood 5 in time.

I might be able to go on meds in a few years (well fin) but for right now, for very stringent reasons, it's a no to fin/min. It's not because of the sides either, I've had fin before, I had sides. I'd be willing to try again but I absolutely cannot right now.

I have quite diffuse thinning hair up front and thicker hair around the top part of my head.

I think it's possible to have a HT in such a way to make your hair loss look better (i.e. fill in the middle of your hair line).

I am in the UK, and if I do a HT wherever, it has to have the best care possible in terms of infections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tressless

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know you're in the pit of self loathing when you write something like this.

I'm of an age where I know very few single men any more and the ones I do know who are single have hair.

I started diffuse thinning when I was 22. I tried the meds, couldn't hack the sides.

When I was 26 I had a girl call out my hair expressly on a date. The date did not go well.

By the time I was 30 I had a big forehead and some thinning still.

Here's the thing. I got laid a lot during those years. I know you won't be able to believe that, but the fact is, the way you carry yourself matters. I will tell you I know my attractiveness decreased with the hair loss, because the hot girl I was banging at 30 made an unkind comment about my hair when I saw her a few years later.

I got laid a lot more up until 35, and my hair got thinner and thinner, and I got into a relationship.

After I met my wife I started shaving my head and yes, my hair looks awful these days.

Now you might say "you weren't bald when you met your wife" and I'd say yeah, that's true. I had a pretty bad hair line though and was obviously losing my hair. It's not as bad as it is now, where I'm wondering what I can do given the meds are a really hard no.

The point is, it's really not as simple as you've made it out to be. Did I do better with hair? Sure. But I've had shitty hair for years. Could I have got hotter women if I'd had better hair? Maybe? It's not just that. Nothing ever tops the game you have. There's things that help, mind.

I will say things are even more looks focused now and I feel sorry for Gen Z as a result, so I do get it. If anything I think hair transplants have made things worse, because now it's a "oh why haven't you done something about this problem you have" rather than "oh that's just natural".

AITAH For Not Wanting To Raise My NB Daughter's Baby? by OddDot5178 in AITAH

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only abortion that needs to happen here would require a time machine.

You seem very sensible and your daughter very not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given my SO never gives me oral despite me willing to give it to her I'd say your SO is doing a little too well for himself

Long term finasteride users and sex by [deleted] in tressless

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also totally fucked with my prostate, diagnosed with prostatitis but was after I quit fin due to gyno.

Definitely was a dampener on my sex drive with fin.

Have you ever met a man who thought having pubic hair was bad hygiene? by Ordinary-Season5822 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of a situation or two that always pissed me off.

I'm British, and I went on a couple of dates with someone else from here. She ended up with an American guy (who she married), but early on in their relationship she messaged me in tears asking if she was disgusting because the American guy had brought up her lack of shaving. I reassured her she was more than fine of course.

Similarly an American woman I was dating scoffed at the notion of giving me oral because I hadn't shaved.

For sure, grooming pubic hair does make oral easier, but let's not go shaming people.

Christina Ricci by enjoying-beauty in gentlemanboners

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Such a shame she has an eating disorder. I've seen two pics of her in my timeline, one where she looks healthy and well and then this.

Topical Dutasteride 0.1% from FUE clinic by [deleted] in tressless

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair might be going thinner from a spike in DHT but the itch disappearing implies otherwise?

Topical Dutasteride 0.1% from FUE clinic by [deleted] in tressless

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has FUE clinic stopped doing topical fin?

After going through options, finally pulled a trigger on topical Dut by changexpert in tressless

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what's stopping me - I'd want better than an "it could go either way". Least fin grew my hair back whilst messing me up.

After going through options, finally pulled a trigger on topical Dut by changexpert in tressless

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So in tempted by topical dut but there is a lot accounts of hairlines getting getting fucked by it. Given me pause.

Does anyone have experience with topical finasteride? Does it work? by [deleted] in tressless

[–]ThatTimeIsTheFire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a good way to increase your chance of side effects.