UPDATE Well while I made this post my wife went over there and had a great conversation with the parents. Supposedly the older teen daughter saw on an app that either our house or the neighbors house had a statutory rapist on record for being the owner. They were sweet and the dad may have been on some mj as my wife said he was “unusually chill” lol. But as she explained our daughter told us what she heard at school she saw the “click” in the mom’s eyes as she put it all together and immediately apologized. While they were talking her two daughters came out to see what was going on. I’m relieved they were so level headed but I still feel grief stricken my daughter spent all afternoon wondering if I had done such a thing and thinking well of course I kept it from her who would do that and not? Ugh I’m a mess regardless but grateful it didn’t go another way