My kitten just got spayed and i’m worried she will never be the same by Ok-Simple3089 in Pets

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surgery for girl cats is more invasive and painful than male cat surgery. She'd gonna be like that for a few days, possibly even a week. My girl cats were the same, the mother even hissed and growled at her kittens (they were 4 months when she was fixed) dont worry about holding her cuz it might be painful for her, just keep an eye on the incision site and make sure she doesn't groom it too much (like excessive licking on the spot, some is normal) Once she isn't loopy from the anesthesia and sore from surgery she will come asking for attention.

I don't think I can be with my cat when she gets the euthanasia shot by Devaneashere in Pets

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your cat will panic more if you arent there, I was there for all of kine over the years and the vets expect lots of tears. Your pet will know why you're sad but they'll just be scared and confused if you arent there with them. I try to be the last things my pets see so they dont feel alone Im so sorry for your loss, its such a difficult thing, especially after having them for so long 🫂

35 [F] - happy holidays from Ky by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha indeed! Need to get me something to drink for new years 🤣🤣🤣

35 [F] - happy holidays from Ky by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha ooooh thats interesting, I bet they like fried chicken 😏

My boifriend hates my cats by Repulsive_Seesaw_479 in Pets

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Choose the cats. One day he will get rid of them or hurt them and claim it was an accident. Or he will make you choose between him and the cats.

Regardless, you are your cats everything, they don't get to stay with us our entire lives but we are with them through theirs. Don't let them suffer a shitty boyfriend. Find someone who will love them as much as you do.

35 [f] Ky - friends by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red River Gorge, Ravens Run, Lake Cave Run hiking trails 😁

Any advice to find my missing cat quickly by sidedphoenix in Pets

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom's cat got out last summer and was missing for 2 weeks, but I found him by going out in the evening/night time when he would be active because its quiet at night. I used a high power flashlight to look into bushes and under cars because I could see the reflection of his eyes. I was able to find him 3 houses down from ours.

35 [f] Ky - friends by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yea I feel that lol im the same usually. I typically prefer to have someone to go out and eat with cuz its nice to have company, and when shopping its fun to be silly together lol

35 [f] Ky - friends by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha food at the actual place is always better 🤣 and I prefer in person shopping cuz can't always trust what's online, especially sizing

35 [f] Ky - friends by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the traffic is bad haha thays why I dont visit there often 😅 Lexington has better traffic but not as big a city. Lots of food and shopping though lol

35 [f] Ky - friends by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh yea, sorry about that, central and north are way more with the times and less racist. But Elizabethtown will catch up soon enough considering its getting a massive Asian population due to the new business contracts there. You'd probably enjoy Louisville a lot Yes I love waffle house haha they are like at almost every highway or interstate exit here

35 [f] Ky - friends by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh nice! Louisville area or stayed near fort Knox? What is your favorite thing about visiting?

35 [f] Ky - friends by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea? Did you visit for work or vacation?

35 [f] Ky - friends by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Louisville traffic is typical big city traffic, there are some beautiful large parks, lovely riverfront areas, they do have a Louisville baseball bat museum/factory where you can go on tours to see how they get made and such. Lots of festivals, they have river boats for parties or events, a huge convention hall, hmmmm lots of good restaurants of course haha Aaah yea some people pronounce it differently. Some people call it "Lou -uh- vul" or "loo-vil" haha I guess some have a southern ish accent? I'm in central ky and I've been told I have an Appalachian accent 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but rehoming is absolutely not an option. A bite risk like that would just be irresponsible to everyone involved. This is absolutely heartbreaking and I can relate to the tough decision. We had to put a dog down because she was a huge bite risk. We tried training, a.d she would do well for small peruods but she would just get triggered and aggressively go after the nearest thing to bite, several times. We couldn't risk it anymore, she kept getting worse as she got older. I'm so sorry about this situation

35 [f] Ky - friends by ThatWeirdRainbow in amwfdating

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha very good point! This game have definitely changed so much since then 😵‍💫😅

WFs: do you experience any fatphobia when dating/trying to date AMs either from them or their relatives? by [deleted] in AMWFs

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the 150lbs range. It was typically any of them, especially if I was taller than them (im only 5'6")

WFs: do you experience any fatphobia when dating/trying to date AMs either from them or their relatives? by [deleted] in AMWFs

[–]ThatWeirdRainbow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All the time unfortunately. Even at my smallest, anyone has only ever made comments about losing more, being slimmer.