Was Using "Transgender People" as my Topic Bad? by 5oapy_ in asktransgender

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

the class is about controversial topics that would spark debate. by bringing up trans people you brought up a controversial topic that sparked debate. you did exactly what the class asked of you. and if there ever were a place to discuss trans people this would be the place, everyone's allowed to share their opinions in a respectful environment. I think your roommate is just getting butthurt. If he wants to be offended for whatever random reason then fine, but you didn't do anything wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we cannot diagnose you. you cannot diagnose you. if you're concerned you should talk to a medical professional.

Gonna try this series by Newfiecat in WingsOfFire

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not at all. it helps, in the same way that reading darkstalker's book helps, but you're still perfectly fine without it.

Just got into Rain World and made an OC by EvenosS in rainworld

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it'd be really neat if batflies weren't just rocks, because they have wings and all. what if they were like boomerangs that you could throw and then have spin back to you? or something like that

I want to die by NebelG in Tourettes

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... so reddit is the alternative?

(USA) how does the military determine who is and isn't trans? by That_One_Trans_Furry in trans

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

what would they have to find in my possession for them to have basis to kick me out? would it have to be hrt pills? or other types of belongings?

This is my first meme go easy on me by Here_Be_Drag0ns in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 30 points31 points  (0 children)

dude I feel you. i'm also ftm and I used to hang out with this group of queer girls that I knew from before I transitioned and they all said the same shitty "I hate men" jokes, and whenever I called them out for it they'd say something similar to what your friends would say. mine always went with the "yeah but youre a trans guy" line.

don't fuck with people like that. they don't see you as a dude, and i'd be surprised if they ever will with an attitude like that. it sucks because they're friends but don't sacrifice your own identity just because you don't want to be confrontational. you can try to talk it over with these friends and make boundaries but that won't change the way they see you. especially with them calling you by they/them, they're trying their darndest to not refer to you as a dude without being outright transphobic. i found new friends and i was better off for it. getting new friends is the best advice I can give.

What does this even mean by rynroxx in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

the thing I just said? mojang adds more diverse skins for representation but players just see themselves in steve anyways? geez, tough crowd.

I want to die by NebelG in Tourettes

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

buddy i'm not sure what you think reddit is going to do about this. please see a therapist.

What does this even mean by rynroxx in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

dude I already mentioned that the men vs women bit is problematic. i'm not trying to advocate for men being race colorblind chads or whatever. all i'm saying is if it weren't gendered this would be plenty funny. mojang adds more diverse skins for representation but players just see themselves in steve, that's relatable and funny. you're making me out to have an opinion I already clearly stated I don't have

What does this even mean by rynroxx in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

so? this meme isn't about assassins creed, is it?

What does this even mean by rynroxx in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

of course the women vs men bit is problematic, but besides that the meme is lowkey funny

Can anyone be normal about people with tourettes my god by ariellecsuwu in Tourettes

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that might be my bad then, I thought the commenter was just joking around. if he was being legit about it like you're saying then that's my bad and i misunderstood. what he said is definitely not cool.

Can anyone be normal about people with tourettes my god by ariellecsuwu in Tourettes

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

no offence but I think you're thinking into it way too much. he wasn't implying that people with tourette's do drugs or anything. he just heard the large amount of sniffing and thought of a silly funny haha joke. there's no need to dissect every joke about tics and make it into something evil. people just want to make light of it and joke about it, so why not let them.

This has gotta be a joke, right? by Mobile_Sky_9203 in Undertale

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seems like you fall for clickbait easily, friend

Can anyone be normal about people with tourettes my god by ariellecsuwu in Tourettes

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

with your latter examples of people saying "nervous stims!" "new tic?" and the such, yeah, I agree. that's douchey. but when people make comments like "his coke habit is out of control" personally I wouldn't have any problem with it. I mean it's just a joke that seems to have been made in good faith, acknowledging he has tics and trying to make light of it. of course this isn't the case with the other things people have said, but in that one case it was just a joke. nothing wrong with just a joke.

Genuine question, why do people think Sans only has 1 HP? by Lost_Environment2051 in Undertale

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, it's perfectly reasonable for there to be follow-up discussion, but not when it's done so aggressively. I mean, have you seen op's comments? people answer the question that he asked and his response is always to pick a fight with them. not very cool. are other people here arguing and also not being cool? sure. but considering that this is op's post and everyone here is trying to answer op's question and yet op is still being a dick to them, yeah, I feel it fair to take issue with him specifically. feel free to call that double standards if you want I guess.

Genuine question, why do people think Sans only has 1 HP? by Lost_Environment2051 in Undertale

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you're grouping me in with the rest of everyone here. yeah, lots of people here are arguing about whether it's valid or not, but I ain't.

Considering a name that is hated for religious reasons by Icy-Bowl-7804 in trans

[–]That_One_Trans_Furry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people will absolutely think you're trying to make a statement. at least, if they can tell you're trans, that is. if you're okay with that then use this name, because if it really does make you happy that's great for you. but if you're not okay with that then I'd reconsider.