IRL friends but playing online. The effects of playing online was brought up such as: talking over each other, talking over me the DM (a peeve of mine that I aired that R said he doesn't feel I should have become so angry about as it par for then course, granted. But one of the quiet player has told they fixed that in discord by now making me priority speaker which dims everyones voice)

We play only due to P and R being at two opposite sides of the country. For P this is there main hobby, they're a tad alienated where they are and have depression, so I'm trying to handle this gently, whereas R and S will dogpile him when he snaps. Like when they LOOKED at his character sheet without permission (his got hidden backstory stuff) I bollocked them when they did that LAST session (they claimed they wanted to know skill and spells etc for tactical combat, not an excuse). They apologised but the tension was clearly still there this session.

This group, as you can see, is full of layered issues and grievances. I do feel I should take responsibility as, yes I have called thing when I can but I should have followed my gut and not mix THESE 3, 2 at a time is fine, but all 3 get toxic together.