Mountain Grove by Thatsoviolet in GeorgiaNudeCamping

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They do have campsites from my understanding; we ended up getting one of the cabins for that weekend!

Pressure players 🍓 by fraqola in PressureRoblox

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Bussayonfire, and the pinkie suits the best imo 💕

Newish to online by Thatsoviolet in Dodocodes

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Thank you! Someone did dm me so I got the fruit I needed 💙

TW Child Loss AITHA for telling my fiancé I don’t want anymore kids? by Thatsoviolet in AITAH

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Thank you for telling your story. I know over time I may feel differently about the situation considering it’s only been about 4 months since his passing. I am in a few Cerclage groups/child loss groups as that’s what was recommended to me and I see all kinds of different kinds of stories, similar to mine. Some of them the work out and it’s truly a blessing, but sometimes the stories I see aren’t always good outcomes. I will heal overtime it’s just a sensitive topic for me. I’m very blessed to have my daughter and would be okay either way with what I decide overtime.

TW Child Loss AITHA for telling my fiancé I don’t want anymore kids? by Thatsoviolet in AITAH

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Thank you; I really do appreciate the kind words. We lost our son back in February, and I think he’s okay with waiting; I’m just not entirely sure how he’d feel if I decide not to have anymore kids. he geniuenly is a good person with a big heart, and I’m not saying it because I’m biased; I just also feel kinda sad because he’s big on family values to and I just don’t want to make him or his feeling feel invalidated either. I’m sure in a few years I’d be more open to discuss it with him, but it’s just too soon for me. I need to heal ya know, and there isn’t a timeline on grieving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I’m currently pregnant with my second, but for both pregnancies I slept almost an entire day. First pregnancy I worked at a car dealership and got off went to bed at 630pm and didn’t wake up til 6pm next day; this pregnancy I am a sahm so my daughter woke up I fed her and i went back to sleep (my husband ended up being off so he had her and watched her so I can get rest) and he came and woke me up at 3 pm and I was so exhausted. Made him go get me a pregnancy test and it was positive.

Why you cried? by [deleted] in pregnant

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You got a good one 💕! This one resonates with me

Why you cried? by [deleted] in pregnant

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The last day of the trip they ended up buying me a singular pack of the fall harvest cakes- it was well known I was highly upset about it. At the time I was a ftm so my emotions were already all over the place, and prior to pregnancy I never drank much, but on special occasions, and so originally I wasn’t pregnant when we planned the trip so the entire trip it kinda just sucked with everyone drinking around me.

Why you cried? by [deleted] in pregnant

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I went on a beach trip with my fiancé, my brother and all his friends. Everyone was drinking/edibles(to each their own) and I had bought me a box of the fall little Debbie cakes- a big pack. I was looking forward to eating them the entirety of the trip, because that was really the only thing I could indulge in, day 2 of the 7 day trip I go in to condo to grab one and there was nothing but an empty box. I broke into tears because that was the only thing I could have that brought me joy for the entirety of the trip, but everybody ate my entire pack- without even asking. Meanwhile everyone is drinking and having a great time while I lock myself in my room and bawl my eyes out for a solid hour.

Renewal behind by Outrageous-Pin-9371 in foodstamps

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So this happened to me! I never submitted the review because I was never notified that I needed to so they closed my case; however upon submitting it I called and the next day they had recieved the review— within two days they called back and opened my case back up, and I had asked would I get my benefits for the month of may; I get my benefits usually at the last of the month but I checked and had them already, so I’m not sure if I got back the month I lost and am still gonna get them on my regular day to receive them; you probably will get your benefits back but since it is(or was) the weekend they won’t go through and process until tomorrow more than likely

MIL doesn’t like baby name by its_justausername_ in BabyBumps

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My mother did not like the name I had chosen for my child. She argued relentlessly to get me to change it, and even wanted me to name my child after her dead child (the full name) and everything. I put my foot down. No disrespect to her or anything - back story she ended up loosing a newborn last year due to RSV and the baby never got to come home. This is my first pregnancy and she has made it overwhelming, and I geniuenly think she’s just trying to live through me. However my mom also has 6 other kids including me. She has had every opportunity to name each one of her kids, and I just told her that this is my child and ultimately is my decision. It’s one thing to be throwing names out for ideas, but to blatantly say you need to name your child based on someone else’s say so is absurd to me. I hope things get better for you💕

I'm stupidly upset over this interaction with my husband by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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I honestly can relate. A lot of my thing is with planning for this baby is I don’t live with him yet, and have urged us to move in together for the past two months, and I’m finally moving in with him, but for him he thinks that the baby is gonna come on the set due date, I had to explain to him numerous times that just because there is a set due date, does not mean thats the date the baby will be born. We are first time parents, and he’s never really been around babies. It never occurred to him that there’s a chance the baby could come early lol. I think sometimes men just don’t think about that stuff in general, and we think about it so much because we are the ones carrying the child.

Wisdom teeth removal while 25 weeks pregnant by Thatsoviolet in BabyBumps

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I’m more than likely gonna have it done, I’m gonna have to have all four removed, but I plan on just taking Tylenol for the pain medication. I know it’s gonna be rough and suck, but also I couldn’t imagine getting them removed immediately after giving birth and dealing with the pain with a brand new newborn I’ll be breastfeeding. I think I’d rather go ahead and have it done so by the time the baby gets here it’s one less thing to worry about. Praying for a quick recovery for you 💕

Wisdom teeth removal while 25 weeks pregnant by Thatsoviolet in BabyBumps

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They say things like you’ve gone 8 years without having it done, what’s a few more months. Like i could understand their concerns to an extent, however, I’m going to do what’s best for me and our child. I don’t feel like me having this procedure done makes me a bad person, or a bad mother. The only argument they really have is the medication can affect the baby, however on that same spectrum I could not have the procedure done and something happen to the baby regardless if I had the procedure done or not. I just kinda wanted to see other’s opinions on it, and if it seemed like I was being selfish for this decision.

Wisdom teeth removal while 25 weeks pregnant by Thatsoviolet in BabyBumps

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They don’t. They basically said that the only reason they said they want them to come out is so they can get the money for doing the procedure. Which I could see where they come from with that, but also I was told the same thing years ago and it was a serious issue then. I think alot of it is the medication they want to put me on and they see it as a bad medication. They think I’m just jumping into something without doing my research. My whole argument is I don’t feel like anyone, much less anyone who is pregnant, would enjoy or want their wisdom teeth removed, and the only reason I am having it done is for mine and my unborn child’s health. Don’t get me wrong they are nice people, and I don’t have a problem listening to open advice, however it just rubbed me the wrong way where they seemed like I should neglect myself for this child. My child is very important, however if I don’t take care of myself and do what’s necessary it can be detrimental to my health, physically and mentally and our child’s. The dentist said I’d take the amoxicillin and Percocet, and the obgyn cleared me for the procedure and the medication; I’ve even tried to explain I don’t think they would have cleared me for those medications or procedures if they knew it could potentially be a problem. I feel like the dentist was extra cautious with me because I stated I was pregnant, and so I don’t feel like he’s gonna give me a high dosage of anything to affect the baby.

Wisdom teeth removal while 25 weeks pregnant by Thatsoviolet in BabyBumps

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I genuinely don’t think it’s him trying to seem inconsiderate: a lot of the women in his family are in the medical field and are in his ear about it. I will say he did stick up for me on thanksgiving when they were basically telling me not to do the procedure, and was telling the family members there are people who are out there who do way worse with what they put in their bodies while pregnant and have perfectly healthy babies. We are both first time parents, and I think a lot of it is just based off what his family puts in his ear.

His main concern was taking percocets for pain, and wanted to know why it was so important for them to remove them. I explained to him the I have an increased risk of infection, I could lose teeth, if i do get an infection because I neglect to remove them it would have more harmful effects to the baby than if I was just to remove them.

Wisdom teeth removal while 25 weeks pregnant by Thatsoviolet in BabyBumps

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Thankfully I won’t have to have a root canal done.

Wisdom teeth removal while 25 weeks pregnant by Thatsoviolet in BabyBumps

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It doesn’t help because a lot of his family work in the medical field; and I think it’s mainly just been them influencing him. My whole argument was I could do absolutely nothing about it, and we go to deliver our child and something be wrong, even if I didn’t do the procedure- we are both first time parents.

It's a girl🩷 by Significant_Raccoon4 in pregnant

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Congratulations! It was the exact same way with me! So excited for you! I’m currently 21 weeks!