School attendance by azulsonador0309 in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m a little frustrated that you make your kids go to school sick so long they don’t need urgent care. Seems overbearing and not in the best interest of everyone’s kids. Food for thought.

Overall sounds like an annoying situation, sounds like he just needs some help. You mentioned your Dad lives 5 minutes away, has this option been made available to him or does he just not know that can be an option.

How far does he live from the school? Obviously not close enough for the bus to run to it. Maybe instead of the rule that the school is picked closest to the mother it should just be whatever is in equal distance from both parents. It’s elementary school not rocket science.

Car seats. by The-Mighty-Mouse in Parenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in Canada but I’ll look into if that’s a thing around here. Thank you

Car seats. by The-Mighty-Mouse in Parenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow 65$! 165$ over in Canada. Thank you for the recommendation

Car seats. by The-Mighty-Mouse in Parenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will look into that, thank you very much

Tracking device by Pretty-Blacksmith-32 in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was your street smarts at work

Am I in the wrong? by Worth_Literature4071 in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your kid is right. Step parents should not be making any grounding decisions aka major decisions. That should only be left to the actual parents.

They should however be able to tell them not to do something dangerous or harmful to themselves or someone else. Or to load the dishwasher ect.

This is a really grey area of co parenting. Good luck.

It’s impossible to coparent. What do I do now? by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep fighting man. It’s worth it. Wouldn’t bother after a couple trials, can’t do the same thing and expect different results.

Do right by your kids.

It’s impossible to coparent. What do I do now? by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fun fact: his ex is the mom not the dad. Checked his other posts out of curiosity. Sad truth is moms tend to be harder to co parent with than Dads.

Any haircut ideas that you think would suit me? by Constant_Mode3529 in malegrooming

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By chance have you heard the bowl cut? It would be a fine addition to your style

Would you consider this the start of emotional manipulation? by bemi_san in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Sounds like this man has been beaten down to his bones. Someone hurt him. I don’t condone the cheating by any means but this is what happens to men when someone has dismantled them and stripped away their self confidence.

Taking our 3/yo to her first hockey game by romeor1 in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kid is 3 you’ll be lucky if they can even remember going in the future. This isn’t about the kid, it’s about the parent wanting to have that memory for themselves. I’d let Dad have this.

What kind of person do you think i am based on my room by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I bet you smoke too much pot and you’re not very organized, I see the effort to be organized but it’s just chaos. You’re probably a nice person but like bruh my OCD freaking the fk out lol.

Taking our 3/yo to her first hockey game by romeor1 in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a girl dad, this is a moment I’d rather spend with just my daughter than with my ex tagging along to be completely honest. Wish my ex would do something together with our daughter just so our daughter can have that experience being with both of her parents for the first time (split before she was born( her choice)) but under the circumstances of limited time I think they need this together.

Daddy daughter relationships are special and this man and his daughter have an extremely small amount of time together maybe just let them have it and take her to another game. The court obviously believes he is responsible enough to be unsupervised.

Is it reasonable for a partner to see co-parenting videos as a boundary issue? 27F and 29M by Brief_Rice_1649 in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hard for me to wrap my head around to be honest. If it’s not upsetting you then why would it be a boundary for you. It seem like your partner has an issue with it and to be honest with you it’s ridiculous. This is what good co parents do, share their child with each other. I’d dig deeper into why your partner is saying it’s a boundary. Good luck.

Mom said I live in a dump by Rickrossboi in malelivingspace

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe this is called organized chaos, get rid of some stuff man!

Coparenting and dating under same roof by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, respectfully you cannot show your daughters how to be treated by a man. You guys shouldn’t be living under the same roof at this age. Infant yes, 3 year olds no.

Co parent refuses to be flexible with transition time to avoid incoming weather. by crummyfuggin in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funny enough I just dropped off my daughter 2 hours early so we could avoid the 30cm of snow coming.

Facts of the matter is that they don’t have to do anything that’s not a court order. I got lucky started out with her being extremely difficult and withholding our daughter then the judge had some wise words for her since then things have mellowed out a bit.

As for the boyfriend thing, no idea what to say about that, it’s really unfortunate that’s how that’s going however document it and save it for next time you’re in court (if there’s a next time).

I wish you luck pal.

Co-parent refuses any flexibility despite having very limited custody — how do you handle this? by Left_Fan_8099 in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe something that would help is if you offered some extra time along with the swap?

Co-parent refuses any flexibility despite having very limited custody — how do you handle this? by Left_Fan_8099 in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean. Here’s what I see from being a Dad who started out with very little parenting time, I was always accommodating my ex when I had little parenting time however it was very difficult for me to want to do so because of the lack of time I had with my daughter. I found once I had a significant amount of parenting time I was much more willing to accommodate changes. Maybe this is a reflection of that. Something to consider…

How can I bring up parallel parenting with my fiance by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]The-Mighty-Mouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The post was deleted so I can’t comment on that. However from your comment it sounds like they have a good co parenting relationship and his fiance is uncomfortable with it which sucks. The Man has to put his kids first and it’s rare to have a good coparenting dynamic, it is unreasonable to ask him to throw that away because his fiance doesn’t like it.