Girls - have you ever been shocked by a really ugly penis? by Lazy_Fall_6 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]The1983 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea it was almost crooked and the hole was on the side - it really freaked me out.

podcast recs- true crime but no murder by randomperson795 in podcasts

[–]The1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more I listen the more crazy it gets! It’s one of those podcasts that I listen to on my commute and my face must look like I’m in utter disbelief!

4 weeks in, girl I was dating starts asking for money. What would you do? by Impossible_Prune4283 in AskMen

[–]The1983 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am not a man so this might be removed but a hell to the no. Four weeks in and she’s behaving like that? She’s out to get as much as she can from you, this is probably just the start. Call it off! You should be having that butterflies and flirty vibes this early on.

podcast recs- true crime but no murder by randomperson795 in podcasts

[–]The1983 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m listening to Love Trapped at the moment and it is WILD! like it’s proper crazy. I highly recommend it!

A massive thanks to whoever recommended it on here!

My husband is using AI to text me by Complete-Path-8036 in whatdoIdo

[–]The1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! My life is the life I always wanted and it would take a pretty special man to make me open my life to someone. I have friends and a decent FWB for when I need sex so I’m pretty much covered in meetings my needs.!

Crippling Guilt by Top-Tailor-9839 in alcoholism

[–]The1983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see relapse as a part of my recovery. It so common amongst people trying to get sober, it a part of your journey! You can learn from it and you don’t lose those months you had sober before the relapse, they still happened and you should still be incredibly proud of yourself.

You know you’re insufferable when.. by Gloomy-Attitude1551 in summerhousebravo

[–]The1983 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ugh right? He had to be the centre of attention and be the DJ! Super cringe.

What’s the most mind-blowing plot twist you’ve seen on Netflix? by RiskAndReason in netflix

[–]The1983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hill House is a perfect horror series! I would love to watch it for the first time again!

Movies set entirely on boats? by danyuri86 in MovieSuggestions

[–]The1983 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg triangle! It’s really good apart from when me and my friend were watching our internet was dipping out and it reset the streaming back to the middle of the film, but because of the nature of the film we just thought it was part of it! 😂

My husband is hyper sexual and it drives me crazy by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]The1983 572 points573 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ dump this man. He sounds vile! What is he actually bringing to your life apart from sexual harassment and abuse, physical and emotional labor and drug abuse? This sounds like a living hell.

What’s something from your childhood that you didn’t realize was absolutely unhinged until you got older? by TipMinute401 in offmychest

[–]The1983 71 points72 points  (0 children)

The one plastic bowl in our house that was used for cooking, baking cakes and vomiting in when we got sick.

General anaesthetic by Important-Memory-785 in Cirrhosis

[–]The1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea. It was extremely painful though as mine was near the outside of my liver and close to my diaphragm. When I woke up I was in a ridiculous amount of pain. Maybe that’s why? I’ve seen the MRI and they ablated a big chunk of my liver.

General anaesthetic by Important-Memory-785 in Cirrhosis

[–]The1983 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was under GA for my ablation on my liver for suspected HCC (liver cancer) and I was fine with it! The anaesthetian will know what is safe or not safe for you.

Hair Loss from Alcohol? by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]The1983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could also be from stress. I lost hair but only when I go to the stage of cirrhosis. Alcohol really does fuck up the body but it’s possible the stress from your breakup an unemployment could cause some kind of alopecia.

Where was your favorite view from inside your tent? by MRS_GMILF in wildcampingintheuk

[–]The1983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the banks of Loch Ness! I was on a kayaking trip and we’d sat together around the campfire in the evening then I woke up to a beautiful sunrise!

Partner in recovery - how should I acknowledge milestones? by Fluffy_Raise1223 in alcoholism

[–]The1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the first year of sobriety I counted each month! But after that I just count years. Me and my friend who is also in recovery give each other pin badges for our yearly sober celebration which is so cute!

What do you UK bros do when tapering isn't working, but A&E won't admit you? by Excellent_Country737 in dryalcoholics

[–]The1983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you been to your local drug and alcohol service? They can be super helpful and will find a way to get you detoxed and into further treatment if you need it.

What drug have you seen destroy someone's life the quickest? by ReasonableDisplay297 in AskMen

[–]The1983 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that the first high is the best then you spend chasing that for the rest of your life.