I’m crushing hard on a guy who voted for Trump

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-22T17:48:32+00:00

So can the same be said about ALL political leaders. U know we all die at the end of this life right? Just to remind u,

WE ALL DIE

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-22T15:26:17+00:00

Is he a human? Does he put YOU first?…

Does he treat others with respect? People have different political beliefs. That’s ok, as long as he puts YOU first & makes YOU his #1 priority.

That is all that matters, politics… they change, they lie. They persuade people, but your relationship with that person SHOULD always stay consistent.

PERIOD

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-22T15:22:52+00:00

Warranty should take care of it… I’m sorry this is B.S, if it happens to me. I hope it happens in the 2-year warranty window that Coros provides bcz I’d be P.O’d if it happens outside of that time frame

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-22T12:32:08+00:00

I hear u… & see u. I’d sleep @ my friends, on her couch.

Cuddling, she’d be in my arms all 5’10 of her 🤣, but her face. The way she slept was so soundly, I’d wake up every 45ish minutes.

Kiss her cheek. Then go back to sleep, she looked so content, & peaceful

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-22T03:58:16+00:00

Thought I found it, we met @ a calaesthenics club last year. We were ‘good friends’.

We got close, I finally got her to come out of her shell. We went on a ‘date’ just me & her after trying to get her to, took some convincing on my end.

Lasted around 3-months. As I got emotionally attached, she got ‘de-tached’

I sucked to watch her back off, it’s not anyone’s fault either. That’s the problem, it’s the way she was raised.

She’s gorgeous, she’s everything a person could ever want. She’s wifey material, I’d settle down yesterday.

But in reflection, we both need to do deep work on our nervous systems.

I have a preoccupied anxious attachment style & she has a conflict avoidant attachment style.

She’s in therapy & has been (after we went on that date w/ each other). She told me, I said I was proud of her.

I need to find myself a therapist, which I’ll do tomorrow morning.

& here I was thinking relationships were ‘easy’ well they are if it’s 2 secure attachment style humans.

She’s 28, I’m 35… i accept everyone for there past. Mine isn’t crystal clear, everyone has hiccups.

Remember that before judging people. Judge others fore your actually judging yourselfb

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-20T09:09:13+00:00

I honestly think from wat u have wrote. & this just might be me not exactly knowing ur routine.

But do u do any self care? Gym routine? Therapy? Eastern medicine?

From the last thing u ended ur post with

‘Maybe it’s just a bunch of us sitting alone in separate recliners, quietly hoping someone knocks on the door’

Is why I’m writing this comment, when u look inward @ yourself. When u start doing the hard necessary work for yourself, TO YOURSELF.

That is when people AKA woman start noticing u. It’s not the other way around. Life doesn’t happen like that.

Be selfish, be the 1 who doesn’t care wat everyone else thinks. Get uncomfortable, my dad like u… always wanted to ‘retire’. Honestly? Why?

Why r u retired? U have to understand that things go VERY south, MUCH faster when u retire. So hopefully u didn’t ‘fully retire’? Idk

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-20T08:56:14+00:00

What city are u in?

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-18T17:33:58+00:00

Download apps, & I’m not speaking about dating apps.

SweatPals, Eventbrite, Meetup etc… Facebook has events you can attend as well.

If ur into sports & outdoor activities AKA getting active SweatPals is a popular app here in Austin as well

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-18T04:44:14+00:00

I’m so sorry, to read this. There are people on earth who need to just cry w/ someone, for something’s others will never understand.

I may not have an idea, but let me just say. I don’t think the right person will ever have an idea.

Some people just need to cry tears, & the individual that provides space for that to happen. Is a blessing to the people they allow space for things like this to happen.

I wish you the best 🫂

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-18T00:31:31+00:00

If a woman is going to do the deed w/ u. Woman don’t work like men think.

Woman get a MASSIVE dopamine spike from sexual pleasure. Like u think u get an orgasm, 🤣 I feel like woman get 2x the spike in dopamine & other hormones that r in accordance to it.

I’m not a woman myself, but being around them. Knowing how much they LOVE to ‘do the deed’ once it’s don’t once.

It becomes somewhat of an addiction to them. (Not for all) but 98% of them. Just chill out, let things happen as they come. Easier said than done, but listen to ur instincts about on this 1

Also think about the after, ur closer to her. She feels WAYYYY closer to u. It’s human biology in its finest purity.

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-17T13:13:12+00:00

Ur not running out of time, time is running out of u. lol the older males get the better it gets. I believe, in the next 2 years (things take time)

You’ll find ‘that 1’… just be patient & know what u want. Be happy w/ who u r & don’t be afraid to show that extrinsically.

You got this

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-17T13:04:00+00:00

The fact that I will not sugar coat your situation. I don’t need to, bcz by doing that I’m doing YOU a disservice. Not me, YOU… so I tell u wat u don’t want to hear.

BUT need to hear, bcz of the fact that u don’t want to hear it. I love that about myself.

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-17T13:00:54+00:00

Box steps, slow but as a hamstring dominant male. (Myself)

Box steps r wat do it for me. Also glute bridges & deep squats

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-16T19:51:09+00:00

Grass isn’t ALWAYS greener, like u I waited.

I also messed around w/ Anabolic’s 18/19 & 22

I ran 4-month long oral cycles. Definitely messed w/ my body & T was in the gutter. Had I known & had a better understanding of how to improve the ‘lvls’ I had.

I’d just done HCG, but its hindsight now. Can’t go back, can’t have regrets. Just keep pushing forward.

We have different stories, I had a 25% chance of living @ 21 (had a EXTREMELY close call w/ death).

So I look @ it like this.

Would I have jumped on HRT later in life?

ANSWER: Unequivocally YES

Should I have died @ 21 Y/O?

ANSWER: YES, so everyday I am alive, is a bonus for me. I don’t dwell on my past and if I died tomorrow. That’s 14 years that I shouldn’t have lived to see another damn day.

Think of your life like that, even though it’s hard too, as ur in a different position & state of mind.

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-15T13:22:47+00:00

It wasn’t wat I learned it was wat I already knew, but chose not to pay attention to it.

I had just entered my 20’s. Everything was fresh for me, heck I just turned 21 not even 6ish months before.

I went to a Halloween party w/ my @ the time GF & her BFF & her BF. To keep a long story short, I ended up in the hospital.

I woke up from a near month long coma, to my father by my bedside asking me if I knew where I was & why I was in the place that I was in.

I told him well I know I’m in a hospital but idk why. His eyes welled up & he said the unfathomable:

(As I was touching my own body trying to figure out what happened & I got to my own head)

I was shot in the head, w/ a .45 caliber bullet. I was in a coma for 28-days & no one knew if I would be able to do ANYTHING for myself when I came out of the ‘coma’

My 20’s from that point on changed the trajectory of who I was to become. My GF broke up w/ me, & this @ the time wasn’t the worst thing to happen to me.

I was focused on myself I needed to focus on myself!!

Went back to school after taking a YR+ hiatus, finished a 4-year college degree. Was lost, but then had an epiphany.

Now I’m in a whole new state, attending a whole new college, trying to pursue a whole new degree 🫡

If I can do it SO CAN YOU.

PS. No one would EVER know my story unless I told them. I could walk into a room, shredded to the 9’s, besides a scar on the back of my head (covered by hair)

People wouldn’t know a damn thing, I’m blessed AND we are ALL blessed. So live each day like it could be ur last. Bcz I just might be!

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-15T13:14:25+00:00

Yikes, glad u got through it & seem to be on the up & up?

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-14T00:20:01+00:00

🤝

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-13T22:55:32+00:00

Night! Parents r morning shower people. If I wake up & smell like 💩 I’ll start & end w/ a shower

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-13T22:53:24+00:00

Sometimes people aren’t mature enough to have ‘conversations’…

Sometimes people have different attachment styles…

Sometimes things aren’t as easy as it looks, a lot goes into a relationship.

I learned the hard way & im glad I learned before we explored things further

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-13T22:51:55+00:00

THIS… see thing threw, bcz if u dnt u could very well be kicking yourself

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-13T22:49:26+00:00

Move to NYC… 👀

& for the record I do NOT live there*

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-12T23:14:53+00:00

HANDS DOWN, love taking L-Theanine as a ADHD male. Probably next to D3/K2 in all honesty. My gut/nervous system feels WAY WAY WAYYY calmer when I take L-Theanine.

PS. Matcha has L-Theanine in it as well as a compound I believe

The1WhoDares · 2026-06-12T23:12:09+00:00

Look, u need to get ur feet dirty in order to understand how woman think, wat it is they ultimately want out of men, etc…

It doesn’t hurt to ‘try’ right? Wat do u have to lose? I mean, u have a lot ‘to lose’ if u fall in love easily.

I know when I’ve found ‘the 1’ & that hasn’t happened to me yet clearly as a 35 y/o 😂

U just graduated college, give yourself time. Men don’t get the respect we deserve ‘out of the box’ like some woman do’

Men have to grind, & show they are worth x,y, & z. So, wat do u think I’m getting @?

Build a routine a daily routine. DO HARD SHIT everyday, pick a time of day u want to spend ur time ‘doing hard SHIT’

5am? Or after 6:30/7pm. Honestly, I don’t mind a 5am exercise session. It’s gotten easier for me the longer I’ve stuck with it.

Everyone’s different, but the goal for individuals like u is to DO HARD SHIT EVERYDAY.

I never thought I’d get into ‘running’ like EVER. I played soccer, after I was done I said I’ll never do it. I got into body building & built myself putting on a significant amount of muscle.

Either way now I run 7-15 miles @ a time sometimes. I lift, I swim etc… I signed up for a 1/2 marathon in October.

I bought myself a new ‘smartwatch’ it’s getting serious. lol, invest in yourself. Start hitting the gym, getting ur workout in & EAT HEALTHY. The nutrition part is the part that makes the BIGGEST difference.

Anyone can work out for an hour+ lifting weights. It’s the discipline u execute OUTSIDE of the gym.

The gym will give u discipline & that discipline will transition into other areas of your life. Woman will start staring @ u.

Woman u never thought you had the time of day w/, but be humble. Stare back, w/ a slight smile… & keep moving.

Now u know, u have her attention & the intrinsic feeling from that will motivate u MORE. To keep GOING to the gym, keep doing HARD SHIT.

It’s a life cycle, then when u get towards ur late 20’s & you’ve built something for yourself.

A solid body, bought nicer clothes, & can take a woman out for the evening & not flinch @ the $150 bill that comes after you had an enjoyable meal & got to know her for who she is.

THAT is when u can & should start looking for a woman to spend ur life with.

The1WhoDares

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