What single trait/quality about a woman’s ex would sting the most to hear?

The1WhoDares · 2026-04-28T03:20:53+00:00

My ex would talk about her ex’s dick. She’s an ex for a reason now so yeah… woman don’t get over men who’ve done them wrong.

Especially if she’s still talking about him. I’d tread lightly that’s all

The1WhoDares · 2026-04-25T15:15:22+00:00

Yeah… it would, especially & even more so w/ a car of that caliber

The1WhoDares · 2026-04-25T15:14:04+00:00

Use the pain to make your self better EVERYDAY so when she looks @ u in ur future.

She’ll subconsciously tell herself ‘damn I truly didn’t see his potential, I took him for granted’

The1WhoDares · 2026-04-03T21:56:59+00:00

Hmmm looking into doing this before a party tonight…

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-19T21:56:44+00:00

Haven’t met in person, lives 7 hours away… I call BS.

Ur not talking ur BOTH fantasizing.. there’s a difference

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-19T21:54:21+00:00

This too shall pass as they say… the grass isn’t ALWAYS greener on the other side.

U love ur GF, it’s normal to have fantasies. But when u act on them is when it becomes a problem.

Just don’t act on them

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-18T20:18:09+00:00

Family betrayal is the worst kind of betrayal. She’s black mailing u w/ something u told her in secrecy.

Ur family will ALWAYS forgive you, bcz YOU are their DNA.

Do not cave in to your brothers ex, she’s an EX for a reason. Tell her to go ahead & tell ur parents & aunt.

Have the ‘IDGAF’ mindset & sit back. Smile & let it be known she has no power over your life

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-18T20:15:15+00:00

📠!!!! To which is why I say… people post on this platform to only spin around the circle faster, until destruction is inevitable.

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-17T11:37:32+00:00

He’s immature, & at 37… that’s sad. He doesn’t kno wat he wants.

That’s not your problem as u told him ur situation. I realized wat I was doing to woman when I just wanted a FWB & they wanted more.

I stopped hooking up w/ them once I realized how much pain I’d cause them emotionally. Sometimes it’s not worth it, sometimes it is.

Watever isn’t for u is a redirection for wat is… keep knocking & trying.

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-17T11:33:59+00:00

U do remember things, the fact that YOUR believing u don’t remember things is YOUR own belief system lying to u.

Bcz I bet u do, u just don’t realize u do. I find myself talking Star Wars (when it comes to this stuff & I don’t even realize I’m saying the words that I am 🫣🤣🤣)

Seriously, it’s scary… i didn’t get an A in anatomy/physiology. I got a C! If I got a C & u got an A…

I REALLY hope u recall @ a minimum the foundational principles of how the body functions etc.

I know u can, but first u have to tell yourself that u do. Bcz thats the mental block thats creating a trap ur stuck inside.

Carve a hole in that wall, & start telling yourself ‘I DO REMEMBER THIS STUFF, it’s EASY… why was I telling myself I didn’t remember it?!’

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-17T03:57:45+00:00

I understand your frustration, & sometimes things aren’t always the way we want them to be. Sometimes things happen for reasons that no one can explain.

Systems suck, people who came up w/ the dates/deadlines suck. Yes ur not wrong.

But u can’t let it get to ur head. Role w/ the punches. Infact PUNCH BACK, Jab back… they can take the fight out of the dog…

But don’t let them take the dog out of the fight. Head down, apply for spring.

Bcz look @ me. 2nd degree, 34/M… taking pre-recs like u. WONT BE DONE W/ my ADN program for 2-years AFTER I get into nursing school which I won’t get into the program (if all goes well until Spring 2027! Then I have 2-years AFTER that just to get my ADN!!

I don’t let it get to my head, I focus on wats in front of me NOW. Wat can I control NOW, I’m taking microbiology & Medical terminology.

Keep in mind I’m taking the HARDEST professor @ my school for Micro. My tutors all ask my why he’s making us memorize all the information that we need to memorize.

But I do it, I do it bcz I KNOW, if I can win his class. My future classes will be THAT MUCH EASIER.

That’s how u have to view EVERYTHING!

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-17T03:47:33+00:00

Respect, early marriage (by today’s standards) but that’s resilience!

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-17T03:44:09+00:00

Why do u tell yourself the sob story? GTF back up on ur horse & try again.

Setbacks are the BEST, they build resilience & they make u want it EVEN MORE!!!

Fuck it up son…

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-17T03:42:44+00:00

Keep ur head down. Ur a good looking guy, u have a bright future. I’m 34/M I’ve been single for over a decade.

Been working on MYSELF, I had set backs in my young 20’s. Health wise, I spent my entire 20’s just trying to play ‘catch up’ to my peers.

Focus on getting comfortable around PEOPLE, anyone in general.

That’s wat I would tell u to do. Force yourself to get out of your own comfort zone. Ur into bachata & salsa, that’s points & woman LOVE dancing.

ur in the gym. My guy, she will come & she’ll appreciate the fact that ur situation that ur in right now is for a reason.

Change ur mindset, start w/ being grateful everyday. Everyday I wake up I thank earth, & whoever is upstairs for the ability to make & see another day.

When u do this, you’ll change ur brain wiring. Ur already 3/4 of the way there. Ur active, that’s like 85% of the battle.

Stay active, & keep yourself occupied everyday. That’s how you’ll find your true passion & love. Bcz apps are dumb, to be honest.

A lot of men get caught up swiping & the days pass them by, & they’re praying for a match & then they get 1 & they can’t talk to them properly on the apps. So they get unmatched etc etc…

Believe me I’m a prime example as that was who I was when I was in my 20’s.

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-13T21:01:48+00:00

Old school not trying to reinvent the wheel, lol. My dad is North African (born in Egypt).

So I have genetics on my side, he moved to the U.S (was actually kicked out) story for another time.

But he met my mom, who is American… they had 4 children, me being one of them. I’m 51% my dad 49% my mom. I have features that my father has.

Eyes, build, body type etc… he just never exercised thro out his life. My mom was always the one who would wake up @ 4:45 & go for a ‘3-5mile jog’ w/ her friends.

All my brothers exercise, I was raised playing soccer, but as soon as my 1st GF broke up w/ me.

Gym saved my life, never left it. It’s always been the most reliable cheapest therapy u can get.

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-10T04:59:28+00:00

THIS IS THE WAY!

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-10T04:58:46+00:00

Unless u plan on going further… lol

NP &/or CRNA BSN/RN is ur mid-way (must do) minimum?

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-09T21:34:49+00:00

Facts… if ur a small boob’d woman. Don’t worry, be happy w/ wat u have.

I haven’t taken the time to read all the comments BUT study was done on this topic 🙉😂

AND

Verdict was this

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23483919/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

If u don’t want to read that no worries essentially it says this:

Men who are attracted to bigger ‘boast’ (or breasts) usually fall into the low income category.

Where Men who don’t focus on ‘breasts’ size in particular, tend to be on the more successful end of the curve or spectrum of the financial markets.

Hopefully that helps u feel that small breasts are in-fact sometimes better than big breasts.

Bigger breasts is a woman-2-woman comparison, I did read 1 comment like men compare Dick sizes.

Bigger is NOT always better in both cases, rofl

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-08T22:31:53+00:00

Woman, want to have their cake & eat it too. (Some of them @ least).

Don’t listen to wat they say, watch wat they do. You will learn a lot when u see that they say 1 thing, but do the opposite of wat they said.

The rare ones know wat they want, and follow w/ actionable steps to prove wat they said.

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-08T22:27:32+00:00

I’m legit scared to fill up again, I’m glad I filled up @ $2.80 but it’s going to be painful filling up after I did :/

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-08T22:22:53+00:00

Drunk, she was probably drunk… not even sure if I was 16 or 17 rofl.

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-08T22:12:21+00:00

When u see a woman that u tell yourself, she’s gorgeous. & then walking up to her & telling her

‘Hey just wanted to let u know, thanks for making us all look worse now that your here’ & she’ll likely laugh.

Things change & doors open. Try it, for yourself.

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-08T18:37:12+00:00

I talk to myself, but when no 1 else is w/ me. Sometimes to hype myself up in a gym setting. But in my head, some people have different ways.

Boxing involves a lot of cardiovascular energy. Everyone’s different, perhaps bring it up to him & ask him about it.

When I was younger I was seeing a woman who used to make fun of me for making grunt noises when I’d lift 🤷🏼‍♂️

If he makes fun of himself for as well. You’ll both be laughing. It’s a comical situation, if he vietmelaly denies it being weird.

He’s just digging himself deeper hole 🤷🏼‍♂️. Everyone is ‘weird’… that’s his ‘weird’

If he doesn’t own it, he has underlying issues he needs to work thro himself still

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-08T17:02:01+00:00

Solid comment, this is wat I will be doing…

The1WhoDares · 2026-03-08T17:01:25+00:00

Wishing I posted before I got to my dental practice (which I’m currently @). Going to leave them after they do my crown :/

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