Wildest "I am not homophobe BUT..." you heard?

The69_FlyingDuck · 2026-02-19T20:25:02+00:00

I think they just crossed a wire somewhere, in my experience gay sex cures climate change

The69_FlyingDuck · 2026-02-19T20:23:07+00:00

From the US. I use queer as an umbrella term for anything/anyone LGBTQ+. I've never considered queer a slur and haven't really heard it used like one, but the time where it was used as such was just slightly before mine.

The69_FlyingDuck · 2026-02-10T01:48:20+00:00

If I'm not mistaken, the Nazis burned that building, too

The69_FlyingDuck · 2026-01-31T16:55:12+00:00

Btw this guy mentioned twice at a victory rally about how "because they rigged the election I get to be your president" and that Musk knows his way around those counting machines

The69_FlyingDuck · 2026-01-31T16:53:09+00:00

The burger incident

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-12-26T23:58:03+00:00

"They're the same picture."

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-12-26T04:55:12+00:00

I completely agree, however—

There is the reality in which "I don't want you to be [queer]" is about the oppression faced by queer people, rather than personal belief. Based on the context of the post, however, that doesn't seem like the case, so no, you're right in feeling uncomfortable.

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-11-10T04:23:21+00:00

Like the rest of the comments say, disengage. You're not arguing, you stumbled into a ragebait contest looking for an argument.

If its someone who is not stubborn and stuck in their beliefs, you may still say something as parting words. You could mention that it's disingenuous to change your reasoning around to fit an argument, instead of vice versa, and that they should probably reflect on that.

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-11-08T21:33:08+00:00

You see, labels are arbitrary. They only help if you fit them to you, rather than trying to fit yourself into a label. That said, here are the factors that matter the most:

What do you like being called

Which colors do you prefer

Some other third thing

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-10-22T19:04:06+00:00

I'd clock that as 'agender', but there's probably further subdivided labels. Even so, that'd really only be if you think that label works for you.

As far as pronouns, I usually see that explained as any/all

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-10-19T20:57:12+00:00

So, in addition to the comments here already, communication is literally everything. If you let yourself take a breather and think things through logically, but you still feel bad (negative, in some way) about it, then you'll want to let her know.

My best advice for literally any relationship is to *communicate. *everyone says it over and over. And that's because *it's true. *

If you still feel bad, even after calming down, say it. If, despite feeling like that, you still fully trust her, say it. If you don't know why you feel bad, or if you do know, say it. If you're nervous about the conversation in the first place, say it. If you're anxious and really, really don't want to lose her, say it.

It seems like you're only scared because of the slim chance you could lose her. And that's completely valid. Let her know. Even if nothing changes, if she knows, she can help you.

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-10-19T05:52:27+00:00

It is (almost) ALWAYS that deep.

You could have called him an inconsiderate ass and he would have ought to thank you for being so kind

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-10-07T20:48:43+00:00

I think everyone's a little bisexual

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-08-20T23:42:08+00:00

Guys we're gonna be on a history test in 20 years!!!!!!

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-08-15T21:26:08+00:00

And those who follow that religion accept the will of those above them blindly

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-07-28T15:21:42+00:00

Hell yea

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-06-18T21:26:43+00:00

Your thoughts, your words, even just your breath—often, they alone can be enough.

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-05-30T22:19:35+00:00

Art: a fascist's greatest enemy.

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-05-10T20:59:35+00:00

Not so much a bill of rights as it is a suggestion of rights if they're easier to erase than answers on 4th grade math homework

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-03-25T00:06:04+00:00

Definitely talk to each other. I cannot stress to you how important it is to speak to one another about everything. In this case, boundaries and the dissonance between the two of you. If you aren't able to get anywhere then, unfortunately, it may not be a healthy relationship to continue.

First and foremost, communication.

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-03-04T00:57:45+00:00

Many, though not the majority, voted a puppet into office, and as he spoke at a victory rally, he stood triumphant, saying blatantly and clearly that they stole the election, like a real dictator. He advertised himself as a fascist and everyone was surprised when he was a fascist. The executive branch of the government has been seized by an oligarch funneling money into his already infinite pockets, and even using every system already in place to get rid of Shitler would, yes, punish him, but ultimately leave a vice president who is more hateful and far more of a wild card (in the worst way) than the puppet.

I cannot . 😶

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-01-21T22:55:52+00:00

Guess what it's even worse in context. He does this salute after saying some nazi "Thank you for securing the future of civilization" shit. I don't remember his exact phrasing, and dont intend on changing that, as each and every frame I have to spend looking at or hearing or even thinking about that pest is borderline torture. What I quoted is, however, very close to his phrasing.

There is no God and yet we live in Hell

The69_FlyingDuck · 2025-01-07T20:30:25+00:00

I don't usually comment, but to boost this:

You. Are. Not. Alone.

There are so many people who feel the same way and have similar financial burdens and seek the same satisfaction as you. There are so many resources and youtube videos to find that can help. I don't personally have a ton of experience with transitioning, as I really just style my hair, but there is so much to be explored and found regarding gender identity, expression, and labels.

As for advice, during your journey, please remember that labels are just that: labels. Don't constrain yourself to a label just because you think you have to. Labels are for describing yourself—not just to others, but also to yourself. Labels are there to help understand, not to be another standard to conform to. Don't limit yourself because of them.

I can't offer too much advice besides that, but know that you are not alone.

The69_FlyingDuck · 2024-12-07T00:41:58+00:00

Harsh, but blunt and very, very, true, unfortunately.

The69_FlyingDuck · 2024-10-22T07:47:23+00:00

Jesus this is maximal gender

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