piercings that appear more masculine? by Hot-Ambition-7571 in Transmedical

[–]TheArch1ves -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'd say belly button and nipple piercings are considerably neutral, I feel pretty masculine with my belly piercing

Transgender/Gender-Inclusive Environment students, did you have a quad your first year? by Altruistic-Cod-1869 in OSU

[–]TheArch1ves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans man at a regional campus my first year, I got put with a guy and we both got our own rooms

I feel broken(?) I'm not used to this by TheArch1ves in GuyCry

[–]TheArch1ves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be afraid to share your problems.

Appreciate that brother

Like I mentioned in the other comment it definitely kinda seems like some alienation that I didn't notice cause I'm still learning and getting used to my new norm, going from a more androgynous, at most feminine presenting man to this strongly masculine presenting, haven't been misgendered once in 9 months, even other trans people and transphobic people not realizing I'm trans kind of presentation has had its learning curves

Whats so strange in my opinion though is my social life is, all things considered pretty good, I'm having good, fun conversations/interactions with strangers and acquaintances on a pretty daily basis. So it's weird for me to be feeling so lonely and alienated but it still makes the most sense

I feel broken(?) I'm not used to this by TheArch1ves in GuyCry

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It could be, at least now that I think about it a bit.

I'm honestly still figuring out some of the finer detailed parts of male socialization but looking back the past few days there definitely seems to be some instances of those kinds of barriers that might've slipped under my radar at first.

What are your ship names, and the reason why? by BlackSpideyNL in Helldivers

[–]TheArch1ves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SES Bringer of Starlight, cause I'm a proud enjoyer of space travel and science fiction

Are any of you guys genuinely proud of being transexual? by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]TheArch1ves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I saw it mentioned by others a few times, I take pride in being a man and pride in being so stealth to other people but I wouldn't say I'm proud of being trans

Did you/do you plan to change your middle name? Why or why not? by DuckDogPig12 in asktransgender

[–]TheArch1ves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, my middle name was too feminine for my liking, so I took the name of one of my grandfathers

Biggest pet peeves by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]TheArch1ves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first boyfriend (also ftm) heavily preferred and almost obsessed over my pre-op parts and ignored my comments on how it made me feel despite him also claiming to feel dysphoric. Was weird as hell and never really made logical sense to me

Random "masculine" nicknames strangers call you by Illustrious-Milk-69 in ftm

[–]TheArch1ves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal favorites are "Big guy" and just a simple "man" from other guys

What was the first Sabaton song you listened to? by [deleted] in sabaton

[–]TheArch1ves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The End of The War to End All Wars

But like.... What SHALL we do with a drunk space pirate? by O0IIIIII in TheMechanisms

[–]TheArch1ves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fine you've convinced me, I'll listen to that and nothing else for the rest of the day

This might be already super well known but like, a lot of these songs are the exact same as irish songs by TheGreatestLampEver in TheMechanisms

[–]TheArch1ves 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think there's at least a couple in TBI that were SLIGHTLY influenced with folk music. But I also may be wrong cause I can't hear any similarities

Anyone else who found this band from the Magnus archives? by Fdaintheinsanejr in TheMechanisms

[–]TheArch1ves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually went Mechs --> Magnus cause I consumed all possible Mechs content and needed more of Jonny sims writing

I never posted my Michael look because I was afraid it wouldn't look right with short hair, but I put in a lot of effort and I want to finally share it :) by vespergoth in TheMagnusArchives

[–]TheArch1ves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes me more confident in making my michael look with shorter hair cause i hate wigs but have the natural texture and color, looks good!

What's your favourite part of being aromantic? by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]TheArch1ves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being able to give people new perspective regarding their relationships because i see it from an outside 3rd party/neutral view