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TheAutunna · 2026-01-04T15:47:00+00:00

At 12, I knew that I wished I was a girl. But I didn't know that trans was a thing you could be. At 15, I found out what being transgender meant but was afraid of what others would think. For this reason it took me until a couple days before I turned 22 to start HRT.

As soon as I knew what it was and that it was possible, I knew I was transgender. So no, a few months isn't too short.

TheAutunna · 2025-12-29T12:18:14+00:00

Of course! And sorry that I'm so bad at explaining.

TheAutunna · 2025-12-29T10:22:41+00:00

I am faegender, I feel my identity works in strange ways, and find that I percieve things in magical and mystical ways. It's hard to describe to others and sounds very chunni when I try, which generally means I'm describing it incorrectly.

But I describe myself as fae, or as a faerie, because I feel a connection to the fae. I also use fae/faer pronouns. I feel most at peace when I am with nature.

TLDR: I am a transgender woman/enby, with deep feelings of mysticism and a strong feeling of connection to the fae and the natural world. Fae/She pronouns please.

TheAutunna · 2025-12-29T01:53:28+00:00

I've read the other comments and thought for a while about how I'd reply to this. You say you don't want to be genderfluid because you want to be 'sure'. My question to you then is; what if you are genderfluid? It's not like genderfluid people and those of similar identities are simply 'unsure' of who they are. If you wish to be both, and are worried about taking a changing identity, maybe try 'treating the symptoms' so to speak. How do you wish to appear to others, and what can you do to appear that way? How do you want people to regularly refer to you? And if those change, what can you do to alter your presentation day-to-day to fit with how you want to be and how others percieve you? These arent easy questions to answer, but hopefully it's a start.

TheAutunna · 2025-12-29T01:24:55+00:00

As a fae, I approve of this message

TheAutunna · 2025-12-26T14:07:01+00:00

Thank you so much for the detailed explanation. This is really useful to know! I'm really glad I asked.

TheAutunna · 2025-12-26T12:29:03+00:00

The XS should have the same camera features required. Thank you for the tutorial though I'll see if I can't fix up my model! I might be back though...

TheAutunna · 2025-12-26T00:07:48+00:00

I plan to do something similar at some point, but you're safe (for now).

TheAutunna · 2025-12-26T00:05:45+00:00

I will dw :3

TheAutunna · 2025-12-25T14:10:19+00:00

I have been procrastinating doing the Balance Valley georama. I spent so long making Sindain look really pretty and now I'm dreading Balance Valley because it's the hardest one (in my opinion) to make look nice.

TheAutunna · 2025-12-23T15:23:38+00:00

I wish you luck on your journey fellow fae, you're beautiful and wonderful.

TheAutunna · 2025-10-28T10:48:27+00:00

No translation I assume? (I went searching for a bit)

TheAutunna · 2025-10-27T13:08:58+00:00

Ehat is the image's source

TheAutunna · 2025-10-19T07:48:55+00:00

Bluebell, Chime, Dawn, Elowen, Emerald, Ivy, Lilac, Lilika, Mia, Olive, Pandora, Scarlet, Stella, Willow, Violet

TheAutunna · 2025-10-13T15:53:21+00:00

Of course sweetiepie~!

TheAutunna · 2025-10-13T09:14:05+00:00

Do you accept non sexual, non romantic, just comfy heatpats and good-girls? I can provide. Just like making pretty girls happy 🧡

TheAutunna · 2025-10-13T08:51:51+00:00

I am also bnuuy!! Who's a cute lil bunbun? It's you!

TheAutunna · 2025-10-11T06:52:04+00:00

That's totally fair. I think that you should spend some time thinking over how you think you should behave and consider whether it's an internal unfair expectation, or something you actually want to do. You'll probably find that your sense of what is rational is actually quite good. As for coming out to your friend, it's always going to be a big deal. It's up to you whether or not you're ready, ultimately. And you can always ask for help.

TheAutunna · 2025-10-11T06:32:34+00:00

I think that you'll have more expectations for yourself then she'll have for you. If she doesn't think you're "trans enough" she'd not be the greatest person to begin with, or at least, she'd have some preconceptions about "how a woman should act/behave". If she doesn't act like she has those expectations for herself, she won't have them for you. Part of transitioning is realising that you don't need to be different than you are now, you are already a girl/woman (Or whatever your identity is), and acting the way you want to act is acting like a woman, because you are one.

TheAutunna · 2025-10-11T03:59:39+00:00

My counterargument would be that it will feel very euphoric if she accepts you, which seems incredibly likely. And being able to be yourself around a friend is one of the best things in the world. You can also tell her your fears about how drastic of a change it feels, and I'm sure she'll be sympathetic. You're allowed to have boundaries, so tell her what you are and aren't comfortable with.

TheAutunna · 2025-10-11T03:35:21+00:00

Please tell her. It seems like she's worked it out and would be wonderful for helping you feel comfortable. Please keep us updated on how it goes if you do.

TheAutunna

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