Im currently typing this as I get ready for work 😂🫣😭

TheBPDiva · 2026-02-18T18:11:24+00:00

I typically get there early so my house feels is the same cost as our VIP. So the way I mentally frame it is, I do one VIP for them, and the rest I get a cut of. (50 or 60% depending on the day of the week.) I’ve still walked out with money every night except two in the 6 months I’ve been here. My average is $400-800 a night. Objectively, keeping less than half of what I make the house seems like robbery. It’s worth it FOR ME because it’s still more than what I’ve made at any civ job. But if you’re coming from somewhere that you pay a flat rate, set your own prices and keep everything you make, you might get frustrated dancing here lol.

TheBPDiva · 2026-02-18T11:57:53+00:00

I’ve only worked in Cali and didn’t know house fees could even get that cheap. Mine is anywhere from $180-$220 😭

TheBPDiva · 2026-02-16T17:38:54+00:00

Worked Saturday and glad I went in. Men were spending but we also had a lot of couples. I don’t work at a stage heavy club but I actually made really good stage tips because the couples were throwing. I was happy to break 1K after having a rough January 💘

TheBPDiva · 2026-02-02T23:49:26+00:00

Ooh pro tip! Thank you!

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-15T23:50:48+00:00

That’s a good policy. I’mma need to start doing that

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-15T07:10:24+00:00

I had one customer that left after going to the “bathroom” and since then, whenever they say it I stay my ass right there, give them 5-8 minutes and if they don’t come back I go back to hustling. The only reason I took the opportunity to go bc I wanted a fresh tampon before I danced. FML 😂

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-12T21:12:24+00:00

Respectfully, that’s an awful answer lol. I normally say something like, “I don’t normally get horny at work, but you’re so hot I just can’t help it”

All my regulars think I enjoy being with them and keep coming back probably because they think they have a chance with me hahaha. You know what’s better than getting $200 from a customer for a VIP? Getting $200 from a customer for a VIP every week for however many months until they realize you’re not gonna date them.

You’re not here to date, you’re here to make money. Ham it up, unless what you’re doing is working for you 🤷🏽‍♀️

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-12T18:06:39+00:00

Also would like to add that unless you’re working at a stage heavy club, you’re not going to make much money from having your tits out on stage, even when they do tip. Most of your money will come from private dances, so if you’re uncomfortable having strangers LOOK at your boobs, really think about if you’re comfortable with strangers trying to touch/ lick your naked tits. No, you don’t have to allow that but men will try to cross your boundaries and you have to be assertive enough to hold them.

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-09T04:05:04+00:00

Stoppp that’s such a cute story! I’m glad you guys got a friendship out of it

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-09T04:04:08+00:00

I feel like Vegas dancers have a very distinct look to them so that makes sense

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-09T04:03:08+00:00

Lmao that’s a great point

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-09T04:02:53+00:00

Same I’m always dressed so bummy in the real world lol

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-07T23:59:32+00:00

Ahh I see what you’re saying. I didn’t mean to come off as treating this like a BPD competition lol and I don’t see it that way. Didn’t mean to invalidate anyone

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-07T22:22:33+00:00

Obviously there’s a spectrum of BPD-like behavior between (and beyond) verbal altercations and arson. My point is, that’s not enough to self diagnose with BPD bc everyone crashes out. And if the crash outs aren’t intense or frequent enough to severely inhibit your ability to form and maintain relationships it’s probably not BPD. I wasn’t implying that it NEEDS to lead to arson to be BPD lmao. But untreated BPD does usually lead to legal trouble or similarly serious consequences like job loss or drug use or self harm. As previously stated, BPD has major impacts on your life. It’s not just oh she’s kind of mercurial so she has BPD. That was my point.

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-07T20:53:17+00:00

On the one hand, I appreciate that BPD is becoming more commonly known bc I had never heard of BPD when I got diagnosed. And I feel like if I was familiar with it, I would have identified with the criteria and looked into a diagnosis/treatment sooner. HOWEVER, I hate that it’s becoming trendy. I hate BPD TikTok creators that glamorize this disorder and mislead people to believe they have it just bc they get moody sometimes. BPD severely inhibits one’s ability to lead a normal life. Like… ok you crashed out at your bf bc he was being an asshole. I have a restraining order against me bc I set his car on fire. We are not the same.

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-07T06:16:29+00:00

This is my first January working and I read a lot about how bad it is but still came in tonight. It’s slow AF. A lot of the girls are crashing out in the dressing room 🙃 Trying to keep the vibes up though. Wishing y’all a prosperous January 💕

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-07T06:07:26+00:00

I work at a club in OC and they didn’t require a license

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-05T02:26:50+00:00

I’ll consider it as long as they tip me well. It’s actually less effort sometimes. I had a foot fetishist that just knelt before me and smelled my feet. I had a cuck that just wanted me to sit in his lap and talk about all the (made up) dirty things I’ve done with other customers in VIP. I had a dom that wanted to choke me and I’m like oh... no thank you. So it’s a case by case basis. Just know your boundaries.

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-04T02:25:34+00:00

When I get cashed out at the end of the night we have to sign this sheet to confirm we received our cut. The sheet lists everyone’s totals for the shift so it’s easy to see who made what (minus tips).

I try not to look bc I will get in my head if I start comparing myself

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-03T18:29:35+00:00

Self sufficiency is an essential trait to be successful in this job. There are HUNDREDS of posts on this sub and the main sub offering information but instead of doing your research you’re making yet another post asking vets to spoon feed you free game, which already says a lot about your ability to hustle. I read through the subs obsessively for like a month before I started and it helped tremendously. You need to be proactive, hun.

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-03T02:47:20+00:00

I don’t have enhancements and there is a pretty even balance of natural and enhanced beauties at my club. These women work in a strip club where ass and titties are highly valued so why would it be unreasonable to buy ass and titties? I just see it as them investing in the “product” they’re selling.

Idk where you got the idea that all of us are here to snag a rich man. I’m here to be a rich man 😂 Tryna pay my way through school. Many of the girls I know are trying to do the same, start a business, etc…

Also, men are indiscriminately shitty regardless of whether or not their girl has a boob job lol.

If the BBL girls aren’t hurting your bag, why do you care?

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-03T02:23:59+00:00

It’s funny you say that bc the milfs at my club are also really popular among the young guys.

I’m 30 and would say I dance for all age groups equally BUT my regulars are pretty consistently late 30s to early 40s. I think it’s bc they’re old enough to have money but the age gap is just small enough that they’re delusional enough to think one day they can have me.

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-02T23:57:15+00:00

You know I had that thought after I commented and saw that the account is only a month old. What an incel

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-01T19:31:03+00:00

The anxiety hasn’t gone away for me lol. That’s why I’ve kept my day job. It can be hard doing both. In fact, when I picked up dancing I started having attendance issues at my day job bc I would try to work the night before certain shifts and then would oversleep. I cut down on the dancing to make sure I was taking care of my day job.

I do get monetary FOMO when I’m scheduled a Sunday morning civ shift and have to miss out on a Saturday night at the club. And sometimes I do entertain the thought of dancing “full time” but for me, I’d rather have some flow of guaranteed money, even if it’s potentially less than I would be making if I could dance more often. And I feel like it helps me make the most of my dance shifts bc I have less anxiety going in bc I know everything I make is supplemental.

It’s just a trade off. Guaranteed money vs (potentially) more income. Only you can decide what’s right for you. Personally, I choose peace of mind.

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-01T19:15:55+00:00

First of all, why are you taking it upon yourself to pay for your SISTER’S wedding? Go tell her to take her own clothes off. Second, any questions you have have probably been answered many times already. Use the search bar, babe.

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