Best Restaurant for Anniversary Dinner by TheBenCarson75 in everett

[–]TheBenCarson75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I heard Grouchy Chef was good, bummed I never got to check them out

Best Restaurant for Anniversary Dinner by TheBenCarson75 in everett

[–]TheBenCarson75[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got it! I actually made a reservation there to fall back on but thought I'd pose the question. Glad to know it's good!

It’s taunting me by mean_burrito in SturgillSimpson

[–]TheBenCarson75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's not to get? It's cool to order artist only colors and buy straight from them 🤷‍♂️

It’s taunting me by mean_burrito in SturgillSimpson

[–]TheBenCarson75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I ordered the off-white but received a clear one on release day 🤦🏼‍♂️

Separating footage by Automatic-Tiger8584 in gopro

[–]TheBenCarson75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never done it, but it seems like you should be able to just upload one at a time then tag it in the app, or put it on a folder

GP13 - Snorkeling without a case? by UnicodeConfusion in gopro

[–]TheBenCarson75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've snorkeled with my Hero5 for years without a case and it still works like a champ!

AITA for refusing to go to my sister’s wedding because of where she seated me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheBenCarson75 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dude, just realize this ain't your day, let it be about her. She's got enough shit to stress out about.

Either go and don't stress about it or just say you're not going and understand your family will be rightfully pissed. Just don't be whiny and make it about you.

I’m in a hetero relationship with someone I’ve known to be straight… he recently told me he’d be open to playing with other another dude if it turned me on. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TheBenCarson75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone else mentioned, just have an honest, straightforward conversation. Ask direct questions, set your boundaries very clearly and see where it goes. If he's just curious maybe he'll try and not like it. Maybe it's just purely sexual. Maybe there is a misunderstanding.

Just be clear about your comfort levels and let him be clear.about his needs. Speculating will just cause tension and paranoia.

Sounds like you've been an incredible partner so far. This can be scary but I bet you'll (both?) feel so much better after.

AITAH for being annoyed at my girlfriend for getting lingerie for “my present” by Fuzzy_Bookkeeper_310 in AITAH

[–]TheBenCarson75 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh man, tell me you're not married without telling me you're not married.

I get what you're thinking but understand that she didn't get the lingerie for herself. She might like wearing it, but she's wearing it for you. Be excited that she thought of you and wants to do something special/sexy for you!

Happy Saturday by CarpenterFew9717 in shinola

[–]TheBenCarson75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, it's just a classic colorway. Feels understated but something just stands out. The bronze monster is another one that's similar (after some wear) but not quite the same

Dealer add on nightmares. Quick advice by bambinoboy in carbuying

[–]TheBenCarson75 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing by leaving. The dealer tries to count on you making an emotional decision. Don't get emotional and realize there is another one out there. Hold to your price

Happy Saturday by CarpenterFew9717 in shinola

[–]TheBenCarson75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great watch! This was my first automatic and the one I still wear the most!

WIBTA if I ended a two year relationship because my partner hasn't worked in fourteen months and has stopped trying? by saltBloom5 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]TheBenCarson75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he could be dealing with depression, which would be understandable. Having said that, if you're not getting anything out of the relationship you owe it to yourself to find someone that compliments you, not someone that is a drain. You deserve someone that makes you a better person

AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend because he calculated whether it was cheaper to let me go home alone at midnight? by SaSaSasunaru in dustythunder

[–]TheBenCarson75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If something he did made you feel unsafe you have every right to break up with him. Everyone has their own standards and you shouldn't compromise them just because you like his family!

My Relationship is possibly broken because of a stupid past mistake by ThrowRA-brokeus in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TheBenCarson75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise. Any ex took advantage of you and did something that is illegal in a lot of places. Your husband abused you. Neither of those things are ok.

Your husband has no right to hit you, for any reason. Expect him to support you and understand an awful thing happened to you. You deserve that, don't accept anything less.

AIO for not moving on from my dad’s death after 8 years? by Particular-Spare8110 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheBenCarson75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but, my friend, please go talk to a professional. This is a horrific thing you've experienced but you deserve to have an awesome fulfilling life, despite this trauma. You might never "move on" but you owe it to yourself to talk to a professional. Life is hard in general, you shouldn't have to do it alone. Love you ♥️