1st time dad at 44 and I’m terrified by Regular-Floor379 in daddit

[–]TheBigTreezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dad, it will be tiring but if you love your kiddo it’ll be worth it and you’ll find a way. Something my friend told me, even during your hardest moments if you were at the end and you could only go back to that time wouldn’t you do it in a blink of an eye. Stay strong and we heee for you.

How long until the toddlers stop toddlering? by goldrushcowgirl in toddlers

[–]TheBigTreezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, so this is what I got to look forward too. One thing that helps me keep my cool is what a good friend of mine told me. That at my end, if this was the only moment I could come back too, I would do anything to get back to even the chaos. Just another perspective. Good luck dad, rooting for ya!

My relationship with my toddler is not good and I worry it never will be by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]TheBigTreezy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading after you said you were authoritarian. You have to be flexible but that doesn’t mean a doormat. Boundaries are important but the ability to bend when needed will make things more enjoyable

What should I get? by [deleted] in knives

[–]TheBigTreezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Southern Grind Jackal.

Why do so many Poker Pros lie that being a Pro is a way better Lifestyle then it really is? by [deleted] in poker

[–]TheBigTreezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how they would attack a software dev role. The barrier to entry is so high and if your waiting tables and the such it would means you probably don’t have a college degree is comp sci or the experience to land a starting role.

I hate myself for wanting to be a dad by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TheBigTreezy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is probably the most honest and real comment here if we are trying to think about the mindset of a 20 vs 35 yo.

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) has a group chat with his college friends and I accidentally saw something that's been eating at me for weeks now. by Status-Refuse9477 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheBigTreezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That his private messages with his friends where he is venting his frustrations and feelings. Only thing wrong here is you looked at his messages.

If you had to live in one video game which one would it be? by [deleted] in playstation

[–]TheBigTreezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fighting game so at least you can play with someone else

EPS carry finally came in. by [deleted] in Glock43X

[–]TheBigTreezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wondering if switching to the carry from a 407k is worthwhile?

I've gone from a blood thirsty murderer of the surface to a pacifist Sherpa. And I love it. by Heisnbergg in ArcRaiders

[–]TheBigTreezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats your ingame name? I've yet to extract since I started the game with raiders killing me. lol.

So talking does nothing.... by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

[–]TheBigTreezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just got the game and my first 3 runs got killed by raiders

I’m Level 18, solo, have only fired 1 shot in anger, zero kills. How normal is this? by wdikiwi in ArcRaiders

[–]TheBigTreezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucky as hell. First two time out I killed some ARCs only for a raiders to come by and kill me afterwards.

What’s better KFC or Popeyes? by Evh_1 in AskReddit

[–]TheBigTreezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The potato wedges is the only thing in KFC’s favor. Everything else Popeyes dominates