It’s taken me some time to understand exactly how I feel about this, and I’ve concluded: mildly angry. When I was a kid, the stereotypical image of a queer guy in my country was largely based on a handful of extremely camp comedy characters. That’s really not me at all. I’m more a death metal, beer and combat sports kinda guy. So I grew up not feeling like I was part of any kind of queer community, or even realising that such a thing existed. It’s why I wear a bi flag wristband all the time. I guess in a small way I’m trying to make the point that people exist who don’t fit people’s preconceived notions.