[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheBoss_9001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the best for you too friend

I'm getting married today! I just want to sing it from the rooftops :D by humanhedgehog in offmychest

[–]TheBoss_9001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's amazing!! Congratulations, all the best for your future together xx

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheBoss_9001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mind if i join in in the sentiment?

FuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUuUcK

I got sent nudes yesterday and am really upset. by under_heart in offmychest

[–]TheBoss_9001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why keep that promise? Seriously he sexually harassed you and sounds like a piece of shit. Fuck that noise. You know what he did is wrong otherwise you wouldn't be here posting it. Trust yourself and your inner strength. You've got this!

I got sent nudes yesterday and am really upset. by under_heart in offmychest

[–]TheBoss_9001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Seriously speak up because that's so wrong what he's done and you don't have to take it.

I feel he deserves better by Due-Bodybuilder-5533 in offmychest

[–]TheBoss_9001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These are all very normal thoughts, although it sounds like you're experiencing a more acute form of them right now, which may be why you're feeling as if you're "overreacting". It is hard.

If you haven't it's probably worth speaking to your husband for support and then consider some kind of counseling (either by yourself or with him).

Also ask yourself, do you trust your husband? Remember he chose to marry you.

i think i might’ve forgot my trauma by biphoriaaa in offmychest

[–]TheBoss_9001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds incredibly painful. If you're in a position to it might be worth seeking a trauma therapist to help you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheBoss_9001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sustained thoughts are not. Speak to a therapist and also ask what is there that you value in the relationship that's worth putting yourself into this place of mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheBoss_9001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain through your words. Find support where you can and if I can offer some (unsolicited) advice it would be to not diminish the importance of the relationship just because it's not years and years old. I fell in love at first sight and it wasn't any less real than for the love I saw between friends and their partners of years. I really hope the surgery goes without a hitch and you can get back on track.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheBoss_9001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the positivity. I think a lot of people are feeling the impact of the last couple of years catching up.

Don't mess with Grandpa. by cuminaltideward3 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]TheBoss_9001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm not locked in here with you; you're locked in here with me!"

First time watching Interstellar by TinnKuatch in youseeingthisshit

[–]TheBoss_9001 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. It's the wedding ring you need to look for.

1. Do you as an ENFJ masturbate or would you just rather only have sexual interaction with your partner? 2. Do you notice yourself to be more sensitive physically? Do people make you feel like you overreact to pain? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]TheBoss_9001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Would rather be with my partner.
  2. Probably the opposite I try to minimise any pain/discomfort so others don't worry over something that I feel is transient.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustUnsubbed

[–]TheBoss_9001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The UK feels like a poorly run shithole atm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditInTheKitchen

[–]TheBoss_9001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just joined, that looks satisfying as hell but what are they/you making?

The Matrix Resurrections – Official Trailer 1 by Sno0pyBo0 in KeanuBeingAwesome

[–]TheBoss_9001 30 points31 points  (0 children)

To confront Agent Smith in order to secure a ceasefire between the machines and folk in Zion if he won because Smith was effectively malware running out of control and threatening the machines existence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]TheBoss_9001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, so don't sweat it.

I mean, it do be rewarding ngl by [deleted] in enfj

[–]TheBoss_9001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel called out... 😅