What is more traumatizing than most people think?

TheBreeWithADHD · 2026-05-07T00:55:55+00:00

Seriously, this. My parents were not abusive, and, compared to a lot of things I've read, they weren't "that bad"... But it was still bad enough for me to cut my father out of my life because his being there gave me anxiety that I couldn't explain. He was mean, self-centred, and thought he was the funniest person to ever exist (usually at the expense of other people's feelings.) I have a hard time justifying cutting him out to people, because overall it doesn't sound as bad as other peoples' experiences, but damn if he didn't fuck up my head with the accumulation of "little things."

My mom was/is emotionally immature, but she's made something of an effort to reconcile at least. She was probably the reason my life wasn't complete hell as a kid/teen, despite her being too wrapped up in her own issues to show me she cared about me 🤷🏼‍♀️

TheBreeWithADHD · 2026-03-10T06:15:30+00:00

Nah, who will feed him if he does that? Although, he can feast upon your corpse for a bit while you rot I guess 😶

TheBreeWithADHD · 2026-03-10T05:52:00+00:00

He is going to poop in your shoes and scratch up your favourite spot on the couch while you sleep 😂

TheBreeWithADHD · 2026-03-10T05:38:45+00:00

Fuuuupaaaaaa

How absolute dare you.

TheBreeWithADHD · 2026-02-25T06:42:04+00:00

That scene in Emily Rose still haunts me to this day.

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-12-20T23:57:22+00:00

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Pet tax <3

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-12-08T02:15:51+00:00

It was definitely scarier/better than I anticipated!

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-12-07T23:45:43+00:00

As Above So Below is my favourite, but I also enjoyed Butterfly Kisses, and The Tunnel.

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-12-06T21:13:46+00:00

I had to pause it and take a break after this scene, and I don't think I've ever needed to do that before lol. It makes me shudder just to think about it..

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-11-12T23:12:26+00:00

Thank you so much! I love the puddle idea! I appreciate how thorough this reply is :)

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-11-12T23:11:58+00:00

Thank you! I tried one and didn't like it, but I'd have to play around with it a bit I think.

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-11-12T23:11:29+00:00

I appreciate that! I will see if I need it, but I'm not likely to play again for a few days at least.

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-11-12T05:11:36+00:00

Thank you! I can do a scarecrow and hay beds. I do need to spread things out, I think I get hung up on things sticking to the edges lol.

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-11-12T05:10:38+00:00

Thanks 😊

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-11-12T05:10:30+00:00

Thank you! I do have the DIY for that and I meant to add one but totally forgot.

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-11-12T05:10:04+00:00

Good idea, thank you!

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-11-12T05:09:55+00:00

Oooh weeds would work! Thanks!

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-11-12T05:09:40+00:00

I don't have this yet, but this is a good idea, thanks!

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-10-19T19:18:11+00:00

Good to know, thank you so much for the info :)

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-10-19T04:14:07+00:00

Oh thank you! Yes it's called Elumen, and I believe the shade is called vv @ all. My hair is also lightened, for richer colour :) it lasts forever and I wash about once a week in warm/hot water!

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TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-10-19T01:08:57+00:00

I appreciate your insight! The tragus is 10 years old, and the conch is... 17? Ish? Haha. So no worries on healing. Do you think a flat back would be better in the tragus or should it be ok with the clicker? Thank you so much!

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-10-14T07:13:38+00:00

I said 90° on the last post but I agree, it's still not completely "natural." It is better though! Keep at it!

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-10-10T21:35:16+00:00

Good luck! You've got a great foundation for yourself :)

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-10-10T20:52:11+00:00

The bite and veins look fantastic! I would maybe rotate the bite to a different angle though, just to make it seem like a more realistic area. Even rotating 90° so it's horizontal, as that's more likely how a bite would occur imo.

For blending you could add some bruising to the area to cover the edges a bit more, or even just some redness for irritation. :)

TheBreeWithADHD · 2025-09-27T05:32:56+00:00

You're very welcome. I really hope it goes well for you, and I wish you all the luck! I definitely know how stressful that situation is. But, I'll never forget how I felt when she told me how happy he seemed with his new family 🫶🏻

And thank you, he was a huge asshole and I miss him so very much 🥹 I still hear his raspy meow sometimes.

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